Hello gents (and ladies?). I have a bit of a tough question to ask. But before i do a quick bit of context.
I started seeing ladies (hobbying I think it's called?) over a year ago. I'm married and in a sexless marriage with no intimacy. I stay because it's better life for my family (including my wife believe it or not), and that to me is more important than my own happiness. To a degree I guess, as I've been missing sex for so long and how good it can feel, even "pretend" sex, I turned to the idea of escorts. Anyways, when i first tried this and got over my extreme nerves and worries, I was blown away, (literally and figuratively!), that these gorgeous, hot and talented women [edited by moderator] would have sex and, more over, give me a BJ to full completion (BBBJ+CIM I believe it's called) for a relatively modest fee, in a clean and relatively discreet/safe environment. I chose this route over an affair possibility at work because I thought this was "less worse" than getting emotionally involved as well as physically involved. ANYWAYS, because I was stupid, I thought there was no risk of getting an STI from receiving an unprotected BJ from a woman. I realized recently how stupid I was to think that.
So given all that rambling, is there a way to get STI tested anonymously in Ottawa? I did a lot of research but all i could find from the sexual health clinics here was anonymous AIDS testing. I realize that if I test positive, I have a moral obligation (I know I haven't been great in that department) and probably a legal obligation to disclose to my wife, and I would. I'd have to suffer all the damage and consequences that my action would bring. What i don't want is any record of getting tested if I'm negative. Like nothing. Is there a way to get testing done where you don't need to give your health number, more like just an email or phone number? Our Doctor is a friend of my wife's and I know a lot of medical records are linked nowadays. Oh yeah, my wife is in the medical profession too.
So if anyone has any suggestions about anonymous STI testing in Ontario (Ottawa specifically), I'd be very grateful for any info as I can't seem to find any and don't want to have to visit a clinic in person if I don't need to.
Thanks,
Floyd101.
I started seeing ladies (hobbying I think it's called?) over a year ago. I'm married and in a sexless marriage with no intimacy. I stay because it's better life for my family (including my wife believe it or not), and that to me is more important than my own happiness. To a degree I guess, as I've been missing sex for so long and how good it can feel, even "pretend" sex, I turned to the idea of escorts. Anyways, when i first tried this and got over my extreme nerves and worries, I was blown away, (literally and figuratively!), that these gorgeous, hot and talented women [edited by moderator] would have sex and, more over, give me a BJ to full completion (BBBJ+CIM I believe it's called) for a relatively modest fee, in a clean and relatively discreet/safe environment. I chose this route over an affair possibility at work because I thought this was "less worse" than getting emotionally involved as well as physically involved. ANYWAYS, because I was stupid, I thought there was no risk of getting an STI from receiving an unprotected BJ from a woman. I realized recently how stupid I was to think that.
So given all that rambling, is there a way to get STI tested anonymously in Ottawa? I did a lot of research but all i could find from the sexual health clinics here was anonymous AIDS testing. I realize that if I test positive, I have a moral obligation (I know I haven't been great in that department) and probably a legal obligation to disclose to my wife, and I would. I'd have to suffer all the damage and consequences that my action would bring. What i don't want is any record of getting tested if I'm negative. Like nothing. Is there a way to get testing done where you don't need to give your health number, more like just an email or phone number? Our Doctor is a friend of my wife's and I know a lot of medical records are linked nowadays. Oh yeah, my wife is in the medical profession too.
So if anyone has any suggestions about anonymous STI testing in Ontario (Ottawa specifically), I'd be very grateful for any info as I can't seem to find any and don't want to have to visit a clinic in person if I don't need to.
Thanks,
Floyd101.