I am conducting a poll based on some other recent threads in the Lounge. Given that DFK is one aspect of the coveted GFE, I would be interested in knowing poster's thoughts on how risky the activity actually is (esp. when one considers that it is often accompanied by a BBBJ). Furthermore, being aware of the risk and your own risk tolerance, would you participate in DFK if it were offered to you in future appointments??
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Personally speaking , the best combo is DFK without the BBBJs. That would make things SEEM safer.
I didn't know DFK and BBBJ were services that were combined. Most of the girls that have done one to me didn't do the other, with only two exceptions.
Without DFK, DATY, BBBJ and so on I wouldnt even bother with this hobby. They are risks I know, but why be alive if you cant enjoy it the way it was meant to be enjoyed. Of course if she looks off (discolored teeth, moth sores, sunken eyes) I just pass her a quick 20 and cancel the date.
drlove said:
I personally would participate in dfk with bbbj.
I don't think the risk is as great as some think especially if there are no open cuts.
Germs germs germs
Some people refused to eat in chinese restaurants during the sars scare , some didn't think there was any risk.
Each to his own.
Open cuts
Do you know some open cuts can be so small that you would need a magnifying glass to see it It is not just cuts but also sores and blisters that one should be concerned about. Those may go unrecognized by the person who has them. Not fear mongering here, but always best to play safe, and if you don't, then just be prepared in case there is a fallout from your actions.
By the way, get out there and live, enjoy, life goes by too quickly to worry about everything!!! Just respect others and promise not to intentionally harm.
Do you know some open cuts can be so small that you would need a magnifying glass to see it It is not just cuts but also sores and blisters that one should be concerned about. Those may go unrecognized by the person who has them. Not fear mongering here, but always best to play safe, and if you don't, then just be prepared in case there is a fallout from your actions.
By the way, get out there and live, enjoy, life goes by too quickly to worry about everything!!! Just respect others and promise not to intentionally harm.
Unless you are going to opt out of both then there's no real difference in doing one and not the other. In either case there is going to be an exposure to bodily fluids so I would think there is the same risk, however small or large, from either. So, do neither or do both as you see fit, but don't kid yourself into thinking that if you get bbbj and don't DFK or vice versa, you are any safer in your actions.
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You have made your feelings known on this subject, gb, and I respect you for it, but now you are just getting irritating. Yours is a simplistic interpretation, and I assure you it is a bit more complicated an issue than that for many of us.Goldenboy said:
Do you think the risk is any less with your new girlfriend you just picked up in a bar ? Should you meet someone get a battery of test's and then start kissing ? Life is a dangerous game.
True, but who's to say that she hasn't just given the client before you a bbbj??Mudd Stuffin said:
No guarantees...I've had ladies offer both services in the same session. I'm reasonably certain I'm not the only one they're doing this with!smoothie33 said:
Thats why I used the word SEEM rather than IS. Its all in the grammar.drlove said:True, but who's to say that she hasn't just given the client before you a bbbj??
Whichever uncover menu items you choose, just play safe and responsibly.
People are never going to agree on what is deemed risky, so arming youself up with knowledge on STD is a must.
Don't blindly jump into something just because all your peers are doing it. Make informed decisions. You can still have a slamming good time.
Happy hobbying.
People are never going to agree on what is deemed risky, so arming youself up with knowledge on STD is a must.
Don't blindly jump into something just because all your peers are doing it. Make informed decisions. You can still have a slamming good time.
Happy hobbying.
I always DFK - I never BBBJ. People who are looking for BBBJ go to somebody else who does.
If I don't give BBBJ, and they don't get them (yeah, yeah I know)
then risk from DFK between myself and them should be pretty low.
But you chicken-lovin' dudes, stay the hell away from me - that bird flu crap sounds nasty!
If I don't give BBBJ, and they don't get them (yeah, yeah I know)
then risk from DFK between myself and them should be pretty low.
But you chicken-lovin' dudes, stay the hell away from me - that bird flu crap sounds nasty!
