Define GFE or PSE or WHAT ?

[Kev88]

It seems like we all try to define services with catchall terms, but I don't see general agreement what each means. The only way to be sure what you're buying (or renting) is to use specific acronyms, but then that leads to trouble so most girls or agencies shy away from specifics. Would someone help define MY service request?

WANT:

• Covered FS
• BBBJTCCIM (with emphasis on the CIM)
• Sexy conversation **
• (Not a deal breaker) Digits

DON'T WANT:

• Greek or any A play
• LFK/DFK
• DATY
• CBJ
• COF, COB

[** A little OT from my question, but I hate typical porn dirty talk. But I really get amped up from an honest discussion of what I or she likes and what we're going to do to each other.]

What do I say to confirm what I want is on the menu and, secondarily, that I'm not paying a premium for what I don't want?

 

[essguy_]

It seems like we all try to define services with catchall terms, but I don't see general agreement what each means. The only way to be sure what you're buying (or renting) is to use specific acronyms, but then that leads to trouble so most girls or agencies shy away from specifics. Would someone help define MY service request?

WANT:

• Covered FS
• BBBJTCCIM (with emphasis on the CIM)
• Sexy conversation **
• (Not a deal breaker) Digits

DON'T WANT:

• Greek or any A play
• LFK/DFK
• DATY
• CBJ

[** A little OT from my question, but I hate typical porn dirty talk. But I really get amped up from an honest discussion of what I or she likes and what we're going to do to each other.]

What do I say to confirm what I want is on the menu and, secondarily, that I'm not paying a premium for what I don't want?

A lot of your wants are YMMV. A lot of your "don't want" list may be linked to some of your wants - so you're not paying a premium for them - but don't expect a discount if you don't partake. I can't see a way to 100% confirm much of the above unless you've already met the provider. Eg: BBBJ may be easy to confirm but BBBJTCCIM may be something that is done when the provider is more comfortable with you but totally YMMV on a first meeting.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

What you want is a mix of PSE and GFE

WANT:
Covered FS - GFE/PSE
BBBJTCCIM (with emphasis on the CIM) PSE
Sexy conversation ** GFE - since it is not porn style dirty talk
(Not a deal breaker) Digits - YMMV does not fit in either as many girls have restrictions due to the huge risk of infection.


DON'T WANT:
Greek or any A play - PSE
LFK/DFK - GFE
DATY - GFE
CBJ - Safe GFE
COF - PSE
COB - GFE YMMV


As stated ALL are YMMV but for the most part, it is as listed.

Prices are what they are. This is not an A La Carte. You will pay a PSE price for CIM even if you don't want GREEK. You will pay a GFE rate even if you don't kiss.

And there is never a guarantee of what you will get before you walk in the door. You have to do your homework like everything else in life. Which should help minimize the risk of not getting what you want.

 

[Kev88]

I appreciate the thoughtful answers. It seems the common denominator is that CIM trips the meter from GFE to PSE.

Just thinking about it, I'd say that's not intuitive in my personal non-hobbying life "girlfriend experiences". Maybe I'm just lucky, but, more often than not, real girlfriends have been willing to take the shot to the finish. Swallow, not so much.

For me, swallowing is not a big deal. Probably selfish on my part, but once I'm done, I don't really care what happens to the residue. But, do the ladies who advertise CIM usually swallow or strictly YMMV?

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

But, do the ladies who advertise CIM usually swallow or strictly YMMV?

That's an even finer sieve.

 

[kherg007]

As per above about cim and gfe....yes, if it is your actual gf / intimate partner then that's one thing, but a stranger is something else... that's why it's PSE. Remember your real gf will have sex w you even if you showered 8+ hrs ago. A pro lady does not nor will not want to do that. Thus not taking a shower does not it make it gfe....lol. (this biz has ruined civvie sex i no longer can bone without a shower pre festivities lol).

Thus, I think you pay at your most PSE level- all your other options are on you to not daty or whatever. Given the OP has a clear idea of what he wants I think that clarity helps as he seeks ladies to accommodate. I can imagine some saying NP, other 20 up, others 50, others say it comes w the 100 vip rate/experience. Good luck!