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[StillWondering666]

I don't get this. First time with an escort a couple weeks ago we have a great time lots in common we spend the last half just cuddling and talking we really share a lot in terms of interests ideas and so on. Of course, we had sex before the cuddling and basically all went well. At the end she mentions seeing her again I concur. A couple days later I email - no response. Over the week try a few more times and again no response. I even said something like if you're not interested let me know. In my normal dating life this never happened. If for whatever reason they didn't want to meet again they just message me.

So I move on found someone else. Again we had sex. We also connected some of the same interests. At then end she joined me in the showed and washed me. This time there was no mention of the future but nice warm good byes etc. By the time I am downstairs and moving away from her building she emails me saying she had a great time it was special and she hopes we can get back together again down the road. I respond postively but didn't ask for specific date and time but in general indicated wanted to get together again. A few days later I proposed another date and time - and the same thing happens no response. Send a few emails over the week no response. Last one ask her to let me know if she's not interested. Nothing.

Can anyone let me know what's happening here.

 

[Jubee]

I sometimes forget to text people back the same day simply because I'm busy or have so much on my mind.
In this case it's more simple, you're not the only guy she sees. It's not real, it's fantasy, pay for play. Don't lose sleep over it, it's not worth it.

 

[Tinmachine]

I don't get this. First time with an escort a couple weeks ago we have a great time lots in common we spend the last half just cuddling and talking we really share a lot in terms of interests ideas and so on. Of course, we had sex before the cuddling and basically all went well. At the end she mentions seeing her again I concur. A couple days later I email - no response. Over the week try a few more times and again no response. I even said something like if you're not interested let me know. In my normal dating life this never happened. If for whatever reason they didn't want to meet again they just message me.

So I move on found someone else. Again we had sex. We also connected some of the same interests. At then end she joined me in the showed and washed me. This time there was no mention of the future but nice warm good byes etc. By the time I am downstairs and moving away from her building she emails me saying she had a great time it was special and she hopes we can get back together again down the road. I respond postively but didn't ask for specific date and time but in general indicated wanted to get together again. A few days later I proposed another date and time - and the same thing happens no response. Send a few emails over the week no response. Last one ask her to let me know if she's not interested. Nothing.

Can anyone let me know what's happening here.

You're reading too much into this. She may like you but she has a life outside your time together and, not to sound harsh, she probably doesn't think about u at all outside your time together. I'm sure she will see u again

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

Mental health is underrated

 

[Jenesis]

I just posted a couple months back that I am being more selective with my clientele. That if I have seen you before while touring, doesn’t mean I will continue to see you now. We change our minds or change how we do things sometimes.

It is also summer. Plans for working change all the time. I advertise Monday noon to Friday at 4pm. I usually only work Tuesday Wednesday and Thursday though. By the time I get home at noon on Monday from the trailer, I’m still in lazy mode. Often have a ton of work emails to reply to. I usually arrangement project meetings for Mondays so everyone knows what is happening work wise for the week so I’m not in the mood for clients. Then by Friday I have usually seen my fill and am eager to get to trailer and leave by 10am. Unless I have pre-booked a regular I really like. So my advertising schedule is not always accurate from week to week.

And then my third point would be. Maybe she didn’t like you. We are some of the greatest actresses in the world. Our job is to make you feel wanted. Doesn’t mean we actually do. Maybe she was just acting for the appointment and was happy to be done and not see you again. I know that sounds harsh but that is a possible truth.

I wouldn’t look into it much. There are plenty of us to go around. Just pick a new one.

 

[jsanchez]

I don't get this...lots in common...I even said something like if you're not interested let me know. In my normal dating life this never happened. If for whatever reason they didn't want to meet again they just message me...We also connected some of the same interests...Send a few emails over the week no response...
Can anyone let me know what's happening here.

I'll try, take your pick while keeping in mind this is not dating.
-You creeped her out.
-She's not available.

 

[StillWondering666]

Thanks for the replies. I know they had open booking space. I lnow they were just acting. But why intiate meeting again idea why not just tell me not interested I even said tell me if that is the case.

I thought that it was not about interest but as long as I was polite followed their rules etc it was about money lol.I mean the basic idea is I give them enough money they will have sex they both posted no age limits I am in mid 50s and no body discrimination I am 40 pounds overweight my hygene is impeccable and I showered brushed etc whem zi got thete lol.

 

[Jenesis]

Thanks for the replies. I know they had open booking space. I lnow they were just acting. But why intiate meeting again idea why not just tell me not interested I even said tell me if that is the case.

I thought that it was not about interest but as long as I was polite followed their rules etc it was about money lol.I mean the basic idea is I give them enough money they will have sex they both posted no age limits I am in mid 50s and no body discrimination I am 40 pounds overweight my hygene is impeccable and I showered brushed etc whem zi got thete lol.

Some just go through the motion. They say the same to everyone. It is like being on repeat.

Welcome, make him cum, smile, tell him to come back, shut the door, rinse and repeat.

 

[SoftHands813]

Had this happen to me recently. However, it turned out she was having issues with her phone and texts weren't getting through. She didn't discover the problem right away because she was taking time off, but did reach out to me once the problem was discovered and fixed.

 

[Josephine]

Thanks for the replies. I know they had open booking space. I lnow they were just acting. But why intiate meeting again idea why not just tell me not interested I even said tell me if that is the case.

I thought that it was not about interest but as long as I was polite followed their rules etc it was about money lol.I mean the basic idea is I give them enough money they will have sex they both posted no age limits I am in mid 50s and no body discrimination I am 40 pounds overweight my hygene is impeccable and I showered brushed etc whem zi got thete lol.

Prior to this experience, any sex workers you would have no showed, refuse to pay a cancel fee or something like that? The blacklist might come from the community not them. It's important to treat all sex workers properly just not the ones you want to repeat with.

Also after your meeting, did you start texting her all the time for no reason? Before and after the meeting are also to consider.

 

[princekwekua]

Anyone to properly dissect mind of a woman - let alone a sex worker - will mint a fortune. One of my regulars went AWOL for 2 months. Nothing. Then she touched base out of the blue just this morning with her availabilities. Having learned not to ask questions, I happily booked a rendezvous. And will not ask any questions when we meet. Just enjoy the off the chart intensity. That's it.