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Dash

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Just a question I'm going to throw at the wall.

If you were to see an SP ..for a session

Would you choose to spend your time with her dining at the Y?

Knowing it might not be having any effect on her.

Many SP's might just fake it or pretend they're being effected or feeling anything and your time you're paying for could be going down the tubes.

ALso, the other question is. If you dont know how to do it skiillfully enough. then you're for sure wasting your time on her.

Discuss
 

maxim4

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:eek: No DAMN daty no DAMN way!
Unless she offers you DATY on a complimentary basis at NO DAMN charge then you must decline! Would you accept a blowjob from someone you found to be unattractive or disgusting? Now that is how some SP's look at the encounter. Ever wonder why some do NOT allow DATY. Besides if her services are 'covered'
why should you have DATYBB!
 

kumamake

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i guess it depends on whether ur dining for your pleasure or hers.
few guys daty because they enjoy it and based on reviews on terb, majority of ladies seems to enjoy it also.
 

elmo

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maxim4 said:
:eek: No DAMN daty no DAMN way!
Would you accept a blowjob from someone you found to be unattractive or disgusting?

LMFAO - shit no, not even if some of these ones on TERB paid me...LMAO
 

frankcastle

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I think it's all part of the fantasy. If you were recieving a bj, hj, or having sex with a SP would you want her to tell you what's really on her mind?

I think DATY feeds into the client's fantasy that he's a potent stud that can make a woman scream with delight.

Some might say the other acts that I have mentioned provide the male with sexual gratification and I'd agree with that. But sexual gratification can also come from other things such as sights, smells, sounds, touch not involving the penis...... no these types of gratification might not make you cum but it will enhance your overall enjoyment and might allow you to cum more easily.

I also think there is something to be said for treating the SP like a woman rather than just someone there to get you off. I've found that being considerate, not too rough, and communicative over the years has served me well.

But at the end of the day you are paying for the session so whatever floats your boat is okay I suppose (as long as it's consensual of course)
 

Smash

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maxim4 said:
: Would you accept a blowjob from someone you found to be unattractive or disgusting?
Am I a creep for sayin yes I would accept a bj from some female who isnt attractive? When I was younger I had all these high standards and would only fool around wit hot women but now in my mid 30's I'm more after quality of a session rather then 100% visual. IMO the less then attractive women lets call them 5,6,7 out of 10's don't date as much as the hot gurl so they have a more down to earth attitude. These gurls are more to please their man in allot of ways and are just happy to have a quality guy.

The best sex partners I've been with were the 5,6,7 range women.
I think allot of hot urls can't throw down in bed but thats jus my opinon.

So yeah I would accept a bj from the Oprah's, Martha Stewarts and Star Jones of the world....man, maybe I do have a problem
 

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frankcastle said:
I think it's all part of the fantasy. If you were recieving a bj, hj, or having sex with a SP would you want her to tell you what's really on her mind?
Fark no, I so reall do not want to know unless I'm the best she's ever had. Even then, I probably would not believe her.

frankcastle said:
I think DATY feeds into the client's fantasy that he's a potent stud that can make a woman scream with delight.
Actually I do it because I love doing it. I love the sight, smell and taste. Hygene dependant of course.

frankcastle said:
Some might say the other acts that I have mentioned provide the male with sexual gratification and I'd agree with that. But sexual gratification can also come from other things such as sights, smells, sounds, touch not involving the penis...... no these types of gratification might not make you cum but it will enhance your overall enjoyment and might allow you to cum more easily.
Amen to that brother.

frankcastle said:
I also think there is something to be said for treating the SP like a woman rather than just someone there to get you off. I've found that being considerate, not too rough, and communicative over the years has served me well.
So true.

frankcastle said:
But at the end of the day you are paying for the session so whatever floats your boat is okay I suppose (as long as it's consensual of course)
I think the one thing we all have in common here is that we are seeking quality gratification from beautiful women. Even though different strokes for different folks, it's all good.
 

luv4lust

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Dash said:
Just a question I'm going to throw at the wall.

If you were to see an SP ..for a session

Would you choose to spend your time with her dining at the Y?

Knowing it might not be having any effect on her.

Many SP's might just fake it or pretend they're being effected or feeling anything and your time you're paying for could be going down the tubes.

ALso, the other question is. If you dont know how to do it skiillfully enough. then you're for sure wasting your time on her.

Discuss
um i don't fake the big "O" or "O"s
and if you aren't sure your doing a good job you will when i push your head down and smother you to death. don't worry i will remember to let you breath some times. i could always just hold your head there and fuck your face lol :D
 

fuji

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9 out of 10 guys on terb think that SP's have a great time with them, that they always are getting off, etc., and for 1 in 10 it might be true 1/10th of the time. For the rest, sorry, cold hard reality. If you're over 30, if you're overweight, if you're not A-list male model material, then you're not knocking her socks off in the 30-60 minutes you've got together. Not really.

Oh, I know, and all the terb advertisers will come on here and contradict me and say how much they love sex, just can't wait for that one particular client to come calling (ie: you, maybe). They HAVE to say that, it's part of the image they're selling. They may even really love sex sometimes, but not with most of their customers, and even with the ones they actually like, not most of the time, not on demand.

But, keep on living the fantasy guys.
 

hinz

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fuji said:
9 out of 10 guys on terb think that SP's have a great time with them, that they always are getting off, etc., and for 1 in 10 it might be true 1/10th of the time. For the rest, sorry, cold hard reality. If you're over 30, if you're overweight, if you're not A-list male model material, then you're not knocking her socks off in the 30-60 minutes you've got together. Not really.

Oh, I know, and all the terb advertisers will come on here and contradict me and say how much they love sex, just can't wait for that one particular client to come calling (ie: you, maybe). They HAVE to say that, it's part of the image they're selling. They may even really love sex sometimes, but not with most of their customers, and even with the ones they actually like, not most of the time, not on demand.

But, keep on living the fantasy guys.
Hmm...did you say the SP have the option of getting a big O at work??

I think this is just a myth and she is expected to fake by default for the duration.

Sometimes it makes you wonder why she closes her eyes when you're "dinning", cause your "table manner" could be "disgusting" but she is sensitive enough not to pop the bubble.

BTW, if you're A-list male model material, you would probably have the role "reversed"- having her as your "client", on top of having over 30, overweight female counterparts as regulars.

Or worse the SP sees you after work and have you to relieve her frustration and angers to the regulars during the day and night :eek:
 

squigg23

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Dash said:
Just a question I'm going to throw at the wall.

If you were to see an SP ..for a session

Would you choose to spend your time with her dining at the Y?

Knowing it might not be having any effect on her.

Many SP's might just fake it or pretend they're being effected or feeling anything and your time you're paying for could be going down the tubes.

ALso, the other question is. If you dont know how to do it skiillfully enough. then you're for sure wasting your time on her.

Discuss
I would definitly dine at the y. Not many guys do it but i'm not afraid to say i love to eat pussy. The sloppier i get, the more i'm into it. Can't do it for too long, probably 15 mins tops. It does kinda.. well when you shower too long and you see your hands and feet kinda get wrinkly.. yeah that kinda happens. Probably cuz of too much saliva. Usually by around that time, she'd be really hot and will beg you to fuck her brains out.

I have gone longer than 15 mins, but don't really wanna waste all that minutes on foreplay too - like what others have said already, you gotta tap that ass.

The last question, well i'm not sure how skillfull i am at it. I dont think THAT should be in your head at all - don't need that negative pressure. Gotta start off slow. Start with LK. Make sure you get all the labia and the clitoris. Then move into DFK - yeah its like kissing a girl. But unlike kissing, the sloppier the better I think. After DFK, begin to start eating - literary. Not too much teeth, don't wanna scare her. Switch from that to licking the clit like how they do it on porn videos. Do it for yourself first, once your confortable then start picking up on their body language while doing it.

I think there was a movie that illustrate this. Go and rent that last American Pie movie, one with the younger strifler brother. In their special features you'll find it there.
 

LordLoki

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Finda nible teacher !

Dash said:
ALso, the other question is. If you dont know how to do it skiillfully enough. then you're for sure wasting your time on her.

Discuss

When I was much much younger a wonderful older lady was nice enough (or greedy enough) to teach me how. I hope that any woman I am with will trust me enough to give me tips. So one learns in life from a good teacher, from experience, and from practise.

The sad part is that I still cannot tell if a woman is having or is faking a “nice” orgasm. Sort of easy to tell with most when they have a “great” orgasm though. So I just try and nibble my way to the great part.
 

Back Burner

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I hear that TERB guys give the best DATY in the world. In fact I've seen many documented reviews where a SP actually doesn't fake it, ever. It's a known fact that when a TERB member gives DATY to a SP she always enjoys it because all the TERB guys are good at it, and DATY professionals.

In fact I wouldn't be surprised to hear stories of SP's giving refunds because of the outstanding DATY they receive from TERB members.

Or...................

Are some of you guys living in a fucking dream world?

Eh.....I won't lose sleep.
 

CapitalGuy

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I could not give a rat's ass if the SP enjoys it or gets off. Its not about pleasing the SP, its about pleasing me, and I like to bury my face between a woman's thighs.

So long as she's fresh down there.
 

pussylicker

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qjiggy said:
I would definitly dine at the y. Not many guys do it but i'm not afraid to say i love to eat pussy. The sloppier i get, the more i'm into it. Can't do it for too long, probably 15 mins tops. It does kinda.. well when you shower too long and you see your hands and feet kinda get wrinkly.. yeah that kinda happens. Probably cuz of too much saliva.

The last question, well i'm not sure how skillfull i am at it.... begin to start eating - literary. Not too much teeth, don't wanna scare her.
ROFLMFAO
 
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