Dating sites

[surferboy]

I find Tinder to be successful; and the guys I meet feel the same.
The guys I match with aren't those model-ish types that have all the girls messaging them; they're nerdy artsy Asian guys with glasses that by most people's standard aren't "hot." I find them to be A++ because they're my type though Moral of that story is that even if you aren't a mega looker, just write a cool bio and have some complementary pics and you should be fine.

And I also find that it works for any type of dating.
I have met people who became hookups, friends, business contacts, party-goers, let's-go-do-our-mutual-hobbies-together types, casual dating, and even serious dating


It operates on the principle of first impressions; just like meeting people in real life.
I give it an A+

However, based on some articles I have read; it is not so successful for the 38+ crowd as it is more of a youth site.
Head to POF for hookups and Match for serious stuff; if you are older than your late thirties.

Would have to disagree with you on your last point.A friend introduced me to Tinder in December,took a few selfies at the bar we were at & within hh had a few 20sumthin hotties on the hook. Like shootin fish in a barrel,but it does require a little time & effort if you want to bed the creme de la creme. And some of them won't which i respect.Better to befriend & stay in touch than be like a 20sumthin & pressure them for it.That being said 140-160 for hh or fun with someone you never have to see again does have it advantages!

 

[TeeJay]

Once you wade past all the fake bs profiles you can get anything you want even young fwb type relations

My disgust is the obviously fake sp who insist on using the sites many of whom are so obvious but even once or twice I was tricked into wasting my time & theirs.
Nothing more stupid than an sp who is pretending to be an amateur (a very funny story for you; I once met one who was hot, so I did the deed all the while ignoring the support comments and walking right past the wall envelope slot by front door. She started saying I needed to pay after and I was like why, I never offered you anything and you never asked for anything so I am sure that agency has blacklisted me now haha)

I usually just walk away if I think they are a pro but heck if hot why not grab a freebie

 

[Titalian]

Once you wade past all the fake bs profiles you can get anything you want even young fwb type relations

My disgust is the obviously fake sp who insist on using the sites many of whom are so obvious but even once or twice I was tricked into wasting my time & theirs.
Nothing more stupid than an sp who is pretending to be an amateur (a very funny story for you; I once met one who was hot, so I did the deed all the while ignoring the support comments and walking right past the wall envelope slot by front door. She started saying I needed to pay after and I was like why, I never offered you anything and you never asked for anything so I am sure that agency has blacklisted me now haha)

I usually just walk away if I think they are a pro but heck if hot why not grab a freebie

A Dating site review again ?? My ex wife just came out of a relationship with a guy she met on one of these sites. Lasted 9 months, not bad. Turns out the guy was a nut case.
Never questioned her on it, she just divulged what transpired. Not Good.

 

[implied69]

Don't waste your time. The exact same (ordinary) women you see when you are walking around on the street are on the women you will connect to on these sites (the real members, as opposed to the paid shills most of these sites employ).

Most people on these sites try to appear much more attractive than they really are. It will cost you time and/or money to discover this.

There are no shortcuts to meeting someone who would be worthwhile to date. Online dating sites try to appeal to the laziness in people, pretending that online dating would be easier/more time efficient, but it's not.

It's always been the same old formula that works. Be honest with yourself about who you are. Find some self confidence. Learn from mistakes (about how to present yourself). Most people in this world, no matter how little "game" they have, get at least one shot at finding someone to connect to in their life. No reason why the OP should be any different. That shows you that that the old school methods work.

If you just want to get laid, it's far cheaper and time efficient to hire an SP.

Nicely said and agreed. I think a lot of guys go straight to the sp, less expensive , no stress, and you get straight down to business.

I guess there can be done argument against that. Sheer are the times of genuine boy attractived to and persue women

 

[cex]

Adult friend finder great for hook ups.....

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Yep!