What would you all do if you're in your 30's and found out that the person you thought was your biological father all your life was really not?
That's the situation that went down with my friend last mth. He's never travelled and was hoping to do some travelling with a relative in the new yr. Now since he's never bothered before to get a passport he asked one of his parents to get his birth certificate. When he later went to pick it up they had to break the news to him since the name on it reflected a different last name than the one he's always had. Apperently his real father left when he was 2 or 3. His mother met the man who he thought was his father right after that and he helped her raise him. She even showed him his (real father's) picture. He's not in Canada now.
His mother's story is that he was a liar. That's it. When he got this new news he said the only family he knows is his famly end of story. The man that rasied him is his father end of story. They've had 3 other kids durng that time. So now they would be officialy "step siblings" and of course the man that rasied him his "step father". He's thought about this since and is wondering why he wasn't told sooner. Apperently some other family members (uncles) knew this all along as well. and one of the siblings might of found out during an argument some yrs ago between his parents but never said anything to him.
By the way, the parents he grew up have not been together for some yrs now.
What would you all do in his place?
That's the situation that went down with my friend last mth. He's never travelled and was hoping to do some travelling with a relative in the new yr. Now since he's never bothered before to get a passport he asked one of his parents to get his birth certificate. When he later went to pick it up they had to break the news to him since the name on it reflected a different last name than the one he's always had. Apperently his real father left when he was 2 or 3. His mother met the man who he thought was his father right after that and he helped her raise him. She even showed him his (real father's) picture. He's not in Canada now.
His mother's story is that he was a liar. That's it. When he got this new news he said the only family he knows is his famly end of story. The man that rasied him is his father end of story. They've had 3 other kids durng that time. So now they would be officialy "step siblings" and of course the man that rasied him his "step father". He's thought about this since and is wondering why he wasn't told sooner. Apperently some other family members (uncles) knew this all along as well. and one of the siblings might of found out during an argument some yrs ago between his parents but never said anything to him.
By the way, the parents he grew up have not been together for some yrs now.
What would you all do in his place?