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I agree – that would be ideal.
At the very least, I would like the lady to keep going until after I've stopped ejaculating.
"Keep going" might be up/down, strong suction, tongue lapping, . . . whatever it is, just please don't stop.
Stopping any time before I'm completely finished almost ruins the experience.
Nice question, personally for me, I like the prolonging of the sensation:
when he starts to cum? start slowing it down, keep mouth around the head
when he is cuming? very slow, a little tongue action shaft & head
after he cums? combination tongue & mouth, nice & slow shaft & head
when he starts to cum? start slowing it down, keep mouth around the head
when he is cuming? very slow, a little tongue action shaft & head
after he cums? combination tongue & mouth, nice & slow shaft & head
+1
I would add don't stop unless he asks/motions you too, and even then you can always pay attention the area around the penis.
Thanks for all of the replies, at what point does he become too sensitive to be touched. I have had some men push me away or yell ouch after they cum.
It depends. just DO NOT stop until he begs you to. That's the pleasure pain most of us are looking for. Oh Gosh! I am feeling it now just by thinking.
While I give you full marks for effort in your enquiries, I really believe this is none of the many areas where 'you should just know', due to the mysterious combinations, of telepathy, interpersonal chemistry, reading his skin-tension, listening, whatever. General tips can help but everyone's desires and experiences differs, and the trap with seriously researched general procedures is that they can drown out the faint hints coming from one unique individual to another.
My own example being the sometimes intense discomfort, verging on real pain I often feel in the tip after ejaculation, most often from BBBJs. It's hardly the moment you wanna shreik, "Jeezfuckoohargh!! No! Stop!" and even if you do, it can be misinterpreted as pleasure, and she—bless her—may redouble her efforts. For me 'spurt=stop', but gently. It's not a crash barrier. And while a mouth garter at the base is swell, anything around the tip is right out. Other guys would tell you the opposite. Same with To Suck, or Not To Suck.
My advice: Gather these response and ponder them to improve your technique; it's laudable. But on the job, train yourself to ask that client everyone of them again, everytime. Even if you use no words, in fact better if you use no words. "Is it getting better for him? Is it better here? Or here? Is this the moment to stop moving and hold? If I don't stop, is it still getting better?"
Asking the questions consciously and silently in the moment will serve you and your clients better than a thousand survey responses.
My own example being the sometimes intense discomfort, verging on real pain I often feel in the tip after ejaculation, most often from BBBJs. It's hardly the moment you wanna shreik, "Jeezfuckoohargh!! No! Stop!" and even if you do, it can be misinterpreted as pleasure, and she—bless her—may redouble her efforts. For me 'spurt=stop', but gently. It's not a crash barrier. And while a mouth garter at the base is swell, anything around the tip is right out. Other guys would tell you the opposite. Same with To Suck, or Not To Suck.
My advice: Gather these response and ponder them to improve your technique; it's laudable. But on the job, train yourself to ask that client everyone of them again, everytime. Even if you use no words, in fact better if you use no words. "Is it getting better for him? Is it better here? Or here? Is this the moment to stop moving and hold? If I don't stop, is it still getting better?"
Asking the questions consciously and silently in the moment will serve you and your clients better than a thousand survey responses.
If he is after a CIM service I would agree with the consensus, don't stop but be a bit more gentle once cum starts.
Maybe it doesn't need to be said, but ensure he is looking for CIM and not intercourse.
I find if I am receiving a great BBBJ, if cum starts, there is no stopping and going back. This is unfortunate if I am looking for a good old fashion f*&k. A second SOG is generally not possible.
Maybe it doesn't need to be said, but ensure he is looking for CIM and not intercourse.
I find if I am receiving a great BBBJ, if cum starts, there is no stopping and going back. This is unfortunate if I am looking for a good old fashion f*&k. A second SOG is generally not possible.
Everyone is built/wired differently. What works for one may not work for another.Personally I have only cum from a couple (of many) BJs. This has concerned many GFs, when I get close I become so sensitive that it's almost painful for someone to even touch the head of my ****. The only way I have been able to cum from a BJ is at just the right moment she either stops the up and down or deepthroats.
This has always been a problem for me as I love a good BJ but I need to screw to get my rocks off (for lack of a better term).
Some guys will want you to go full tilt until the end and some will want you to ease off near the end. Just as some women have clitoral climaxes and others have penetrative ones.
There is no definitive answer to your question, everyone has their own preference. It is up to them to communicate which method does it for them or up to you to decipher the subtle hints of your client.
Everyone is different and has their own answer to your question.
I know I'm not much help but I state the truth.
If you are talking, talking
Stop as soon as possible
For BJs wait till he falls asleep
Hi Marlene, that's a great question, I can't speak for all the guys but on behave of myself I thank you for it.
I personally love it when a woman continues going up and down when I start to cum, while I'm cuming and after I cum. I like her to continue until either I get hard again or It's too sensitive to continue and I'm flippen around like a fish out of water because of the sensation, usually it's until I'm flippen like a fish lol.
So to answer your question Marlene, I personally want the woman to stop moving her mouth when I can't take it anymore and I beg her to stop, but thats just me, every guy is different.
Marlene if I might make a suggestion, ask the person your with want they like, then carry on from there.
Marlene, If I may be so bold and with all do respect to you, ask youself this question.
When do I like a man to stop moving his tongue on my clit,
When I start to cum,
When I'm cuming or when I'm finished cuming.
I always try to do the same to my lady that I would like done to me, if it's not what she wants or likes at that specific time, she will let me know and tell me what she wants and how she wants it done.
When do I like a man to stop moving his tongue on my clit,
When I start to cum,
When I'm cuming or when I'm finished cuming.
I always try to do the same to my lady that I would like done to me, if it's not what she wants or likes at that specific time, she will let me know and tell me what she wants and how she wants it done.
I had to change my name for privacy issues, someone betrayed me,but I wanted to thank everyone for their candidness. I got a lot of good ideas and there seemed to be one basic point everyone agreed upon that i will use in my sessions. I am glad i asked the question and got such a great response, because it will benefit my clients. Thank you.
