Okay - let's sugar coat it - could you love a woman who sold herself to others providing sex in exchange for $$$$$
Coul you love a woman who sold herself
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Yes I could love a woman who does or did this.
That doesn't mean a relationship can come of it. But emotions are out of conscious control.
That doesn't mean a relationship can come of it. But emotions are out of conscious control.
Not an answer I was expecting
Not an answer I was expecting but certainly thoughtful and apreciatedruck said:
How much info are you expecting to get out of this survey? Given that it's an excort review board we are going to have more liberal views on this topic than the general public.
It's like going to a hockey game and asking how many people like hockey.
It's like going to a hockey game and asking how many people like hockey.
My answer is Yes, as long as she quits the business right away on her own initiative. My philosophy is that: she's a SP, I'm a hobbyist and we're both human. I believe if I can be friended with a SP, it will be a very genuine friendship as I don't have to do anything to please her (which I might do so reluctantly if I have bad motive towards her) because I pay for having sex with her. Everything will be genuine in other words. If we really love each other, I can't see any problem for marrying a SP. Also, love is blind and if you are deeply in love you probably wouldn't worry about what if your friends/relatives knew that she was a SP.
Where else would you go?
Liberal views - hell, just cause you screw a woman it doesn't mean you want her in your life. Where the hell else would you go to to find guys that have been exposed to working girls and know a range of working girls. How could you get an answer from a guy that has no idea what an SP is all about.frankcastle said:
You really crack me up sometimes.frankcastle said:
Thought I was the biggest smartass around here!!!
Guess I was wrong!!!
Cheers,
SK.
Are you trying to determineoneclassyguy said:
a) how the average person feels about being in love with a sex worker.
b) how a hobbiest feels about being in love with a sex worker.
If a) is your desired effect then you need to ask people in general not guys on an escort review board.
For example if you want to determine if people in general like hockey you can't just go to a rink and start asking around. The answer you get will be pretty obvious.
If b) is your desired effect then it's a no brainer. Given the number of posts about guys wanting to or have been on dates, met, are infatuated with or want to marry SPs and MPAs and dancers the answer is pretty obvious that most are okay with the occupation...... at which point it becomes a question of how the person feels about the working status of the woman.
Now the word love that's pretty ambiguous.
But again given many of the posts on terb you can see the majority are somewhat romantics at heart while the minority are more of the "these women are just fuck toys" camp.
Evidence of this can be found in threads where someone says something along those line and a bunch of guys jump all over it.
All I'm trying to say is that whatever answer you get has to be taken with a grain of salt (i.e. keep in mind what kinds of guys you are polling here).
I'll even go one further and suggest that the guys who vote no may have been burned by a woman at one point.
Not to name names but I can think of at least one terbite who went from extolling the vitures of a certain woman to suddenly having a bitter outlook on the women in the biz. I'm sure we can all think of a few of those guys...... does that skew the results? No just intersting to think about.
Hey we're all free to poll who ever we want..... we just might get different results.newbler said:
What woman doesn't look at a guy's wallet?
At least with an SP, I know she wants the money, and I know what I'm getting. Quick and dirty, over in an hour, everyone wallks away happy.
With an SP, I can just be myself. I don't have to pretend to be some combination of James Bond and Mother Theresa just so I can get laid after the ump-teenth date. And then get turned into a human ATM machine for years and years, all for the same damn poontang every night.
At least with an SP, I know she wants the money, and I know what I'm getting. Quick and dirty, over in an hour, everyone wallks away happy.
With an SP, I can just be myself. I don't have to pretend to be some combination of James Bond and Mother Theresa just so I can get laid after the ump-teenth date. And then get turned into a human ATM machine for years and years, all for the same damn poontang every night.
Agreed, except you're lucky if you even get the poontang, let alone every night...High_Roller said:What woman doesn't look at a guy's wallet?
At least with an SP, I know she wants the money, and I know what I'm getting. Quick and dirty, over in an hour, everyone wallks away happy.
With an SP, I can just be myself. I don't have to pretend to be some combination of James Bond and Mother Theresa just so I can get laid after the ump-teenth date. And then get turned into a human ATM machine for years and years, all for the same damn poontang every night.
