Conversations with dancer/mpa/sp

[wrong hole]

...what do you guys generally talk about....b/c you can't be too open

I find it's hard to start up a conversation with a new dancer or mpa....but once we get comfortable with each other....it's alright

....it always starts off with the girl asking what I do for a living.....and once I was so stump for things to talk about....I asked the girl...'so what do you do for a living while she was in the middle of tugging me'....and her reply was absolutely brilliant...."what do you think, rocket science"

....it's hard sometimes, especially if you haven't made a connection or have anything in common with the other person....meanwhile each person is seeing each other in the most intimate moments

 

[TheNiteHwk]

The ten most conversation starting type questions that Dancers/MPAs/SPs ‘love’ to hear ALL the time:

10. Are you new here?

9. How long have you been here?

8. Do you like it? / How do you like it?

7. Where did you work before?

6. Did you like it? / How did you like it?

5. So how long have you been doing this kind of work?

4. Do you go to school/have another job?

3. BTW… How did you get to be so beautiful? / Did anyone ever tell you how beautiful you are?

2. How much is it for <extra>?

And the #1 most popular conversation starting question that Dancers/MPAs/SPs ‘love’ to hear ALL the time:



1. If ‘it’ happens to quick/fast can we ‘go’ again?

 

[Anais North]

questioning

Or my all time favourite question, "Why's a nice girl like you doing this for a living?" As if being nice precludes sex work. Really just the opposite.

 

[stang]

"Enough about me, let's talk about you for a while."
"So what do you think of me so far?"

 

[eyeofthedragon]

How about " Bobbi gives good blow job"
and "Bobbi likes it in the ass"

 

[Maddog]

Hell - if we knew how to talk to ladies, what the hell would we be doing with the SP/MPA etc. in the first place.

 

[The Doctor]

wrong hole doesn't know what to say?

I must think that there are few times when wrong hole is short on things to say to the ladies. I think it's threads like this that got him over the 2000 post mark.

So how was the hummer big guy

 

[Fay]

Re: questioning

Or my all time favourite question, "Why's a nice girl like you doing this for a living?" As if being nice precludes sex work. Really just the opposite.

Yes, you've gotta love hearing this within the last five minutes of the session when you're getting dressed. I once got this very well-meaning but patronizing speech about how special and unique he thought I was, how I'm too good for this and shouldn't be here, er, down on my knees so to speak, but should be "out there" in the world making a difference, becoming a brain surgeon or prime minister, or some silliness. All this *after* the fact of our session. What made him think that I'm *not* on my way to do these things?

 

[Fay]

Oh, also had a Born Again Christian try to save me and my soul after our session together. That was really annoying!

 

[stang]

But didn't he see the irony in where he was and what he was doing?

Geez, that's why I personally have no place for religion.
(no offence, more power to you anyone who does.)

 

[pineappleguy]

At a dance club...

Comment on the weather.

Comment on the ratio of customers to dancers, allows you to talk about "how's business".

Compliment her stage dance (but only if you can be sincere).

Compliment her choice of costume (see above).

Discuss recent improvements to the club (if any).

Describe your experience at the bridge if you're from the US.

Ask about her preference in working at the local clubs and what she likes about the club she's in - if you know something about the reputations of the clubs in the area, you'll learn something about her likes and dislikes and will be better prepared to respect them.

While these are admitedly overused, the are JUST icebreakers. Once the dialog is started, you can move to movies, books, politics, and other non-personal topics that you might find common ground in.