Contemplating asking a SP out

youwontknow

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I was thinking asking a sp out that I saw few weeks ago she has all the physical element and characteristic that I am looking for in a women however I know the odds are stack against me and I don't know if is a good idea. I don't know if I am going to get in trouble with the agency and get blacklisted. I've only been hobbying for a few short years compare to you pros I don't know a lot of the unwritten rules.

Thanks for any help I can get.
 

69Shooter

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It's a free country so do what you want. I'm curious to know what your "real" objective is. Are you hoping this will turn into a meaningful relationship? While that may happen, chances are that the outcome will be anything but what you intend it to be. If you're just thinking you might start getting for free what you are paying for then good luck but, be prepared for that to backfire too.

I hate to burst your bubble but many SP's have no "real" interest in the men they see (as SP's).
 

afterhours

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I was thinking asking a sp out that I saw few weeks ago she has all the physical element and characteristic that I am looking for in a women however I know the odds are stack against me and I don't know if is a good idea. I don't know if I am going to get in trouble with the agency and get blacklisted. I've only been hobbying for a few short years compare to you pros I don't know a lot of the unwritten rules.

Thanks for any help I can get.
you most certainly can get blacklisted for that
 

mexx

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if you love drama go for it.
and after the sex drugs and madness loses its thrill then what.
it really isnt all its cracked up to be.

find a nice girl. you will be better off in the long run.
 

djk

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It's not even about unspoken rules here. It's about chemistry.

Does she spend significant unpaid time with you? Does she text you when she's free to see what you're up to? Ask about upcoming plans and playfully tease why she's not invited?

Unless stuff like this is happening, she's not interested beyond the financial relationship that you both have.
 

afterhours

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Similar to the rule for doctors, lawyers, teachers, RMT's, etc., SP's are not allowed to date their clients. An SP can get kicked out of the SP Institute for violating that rule.
LOL I think lawyers can date their clients by the way
 

Rockslinger

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LOL I think lawyers can date their clients by the way
Lawyers can do anything they want because -----------well, because they are lawyers. Is there no Law Society rule that says no dating clients? Karla Homolka would have gotten a lot of dates.
 

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I was thinking asking a sp out that I saw few weeks ago she has all the physical element and characteristic that I am looking for in a women however I know the odds are stack against me and I don't know if is a good idea. I don't know if I am going to get in trouble with the agency and get blacklisted. I've only been hobbying for a few short years compare to you pros I don't know a lot of the unwritten rules.

Thanks for any help I can get.
if you want to ask her out- go ahead- don't think about it.
 

IRIS

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Don't be shy.You don't have anything to lose. If she is not accept your invitation, you just find yourself in the same situation where you stay now. So go for it and don't trust these "very smart and experienced advisors" here , who think every SP is a blackharted gold-digger bitch. Trust me:-There are a plenty warm, good-hearted and friendly SP, who just take this profession as a job, and they have amazing and happy private life. Good luck!:)
 

S.C. Joe

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That getting blacklisted is a joke--there are so many agencies and clients who cares. I pissed off a agency once cause they were spreading false rumors about gals who had left them, got nasty PM-even some jerk called me at my home and said to back off--HA HA. My phone number is in part of my email address and they controlled one website that I signed up on, how I think they got my number

When I was in town again I noticed a old favorite gal of mine was working at that agency, I called them up-using my cell phone that isn't block like I always do, the gal was at my room 30 mins later, lol

Now if you hit-threaten the gals, that might be different-least I hope for the gals safety
 

S.C. Joe

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Yeah, ask her out but don't get your hopes up
 

S.C. Joe

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if you love drama go for it.
and after the sex drugs and madness loses its thrill then what.
it really isnt all its cracked up to be.

find a nice girl. you will be better off in the long run.

ah, some of these SP's are "nice girls"
 

S.C. Joe

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Don't be shy.You don't have anything to lose. If she is not accept your invitation, you just find yourself in the same situation where you stay now. So go for it and don't trust these "very smart and experienced advisors" here , who think every SP is a blackharted gold-digger bitch. Trust me:-There are a plenty warm, good-hearted and friendly SP, who just take this profession as a job, and they have amazing and happy private life. Good luck!:)
I think most of us here have asked a few SP's out and been turn down, why we aren't too hopeful but you never know until you try
 

CapitalGuy

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You only live once!! Do it - it'll be an adventure that none of the naysayers will ever have. Ummm, me included, mind you, but so what?? Just be sure that if it falls apart on you, you have to take it gracefully and just go away, leave her alone. But, you don't catch any fish if your line's not in the water - go for it.
 

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i was thinking asking a sp out that i saw few weeks ago she has all the physical element and characteristic that i am looking for in a women however i know the odds are stack against me and i don't know if is a good idea. I don't know if i am going to get in trouble with the agency and get blacklisted. I've only been hobbying for a few short years compare to you pros i don't know a lot of the unwritten rules.

Thanks for any help i can get.
don't do it...
 

LKD

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why do you want to ask her out?

get free pussy in the end? your little head is thinking again
 
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