Considering Oasis aqua

[kelel]

Im trying to get out a be more adventurous. I was considering giving oasis a try, my only concern is what the ratio is there? I found a thread from 2015 saying its about 4:1 m:f but alot can change in 10 years.

Im decently attractive and never really had problems finding relationships and am sociable. I just dont want to be in a building with 10 dudes to each woman.

 

[GeeBee]

Agreed, no one wants a sausage fest.
There are a few threads about guys taking SP’s over the years so that might be a good option.
Better yet if you're younger and do have success with civy ladies find a FWB who’s also curious about going to a place like Oasis and go as a couple. Feeld might be a good place to find a willing partner?

 

[kelel]

Agreed, no one wants a sausage fest.
There are a few threads about guys taking SP’s over the years so that might be a good option.
Better yet if you're younger and do have success with civy ladies find a FWB who’s also curious about going to a place like Oasis and go as a couple. Feeld might be a good place to find a willing partner?

Im not a super-jock who call pull a Fwb out of nowhere sadly, just had a decent amount of decent looking girlfriends who wouldnt be interested in this stuff. Currently im trying to find someone on reddit/fetlife but its a slow game as im just starting out in this world and trying to stay discreet as im married with a kid. I might try posting a personal ad for a partner to go to oasis with.

 

[BiggerTitsTheBetter]

Im trying to get out a be more adventurous. I was considering giving oasis a try, my only concern is what the ratio is there? I found a thread from 2015 saying its about 4:1 m:f but alot can change in 10 years.

Im decently attractive and never really had problems finding relationships and am sociable. I just dont want to be in a building with 10 dudes to each woman.

So I was just there this Tuesday. It was a DTF event advertised as "for ladies that like the company of multiple men". There were a number of willing ladies including my partner for the night (which was the hottest in the whole place by far ), but the ratio was definitely higher than 10:1. It was a bit ridiculous to be honest.

My conclusion was that on a night like this, the chances of action for a single male would be slim unless you are a looker and/or have a big dick. If you check these boxes you can try but be prepared to assert yourself / rub elbows with many other horny guys.

 

[SexB]

I'm not sure I could ever do something like that, it's also why I've respectfully turned down the couple invitations I've received to orgies/play parties.

But the funny thing is that one of the items at the top of my bucket list is to have sex on a balcony, whether it's discreetly or if it won't get the lady in trouble, put on a show for the neighbors. Either that or at night during a thunderstorm or fireworks display.

 

[Imafia]

Im trying to get out a be more adventurous. I was considering giving oasis a try, my only concern is what the ratio is there? I found a thread from 2015 saying its about 4:1 m:f but alot can change in 10 years.

Im decently attractive and never really had problems finding relationships and am sociable. I just dont want to be in a building with 10 dudes to each woman.

I suggest m4 on a Sunday a Trish and Jerry party. Much better odds and more action

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Im trying to get out a be more adventurous. I was considering giving oasis a try, my only concern is what the ratio is there? I found a thread from 2015 saying its about 4:1 m:f but alot can change in 10 years.

Im decently attractive and never really had problems finding relationships and am sociable. I just dont want to be in a building with 10 dudes to each woman.

I’ve been there about four times with my gf at the time. I basically had her going and getting couples to open up to us as I was too high. so I can’t say I was really paying attention to ratios. lots of people are cliqueish there though. Or when I think about it maybe the guy with six women around him paid them to only talk to him? lol girlfriend was too intimated to talk to them in the pool circle. I’ve gotten lucky each time and we brought a couple home each time but that’s truly due to her friendliness and offsetting my demeanor (I’m thankfully sober now ) Lots of queer guys there if that’s your thing. So lots of this and lots of that and lots of fun being a voyeur if anything. Bring alcohol wipes since no one seems to wipe anything down there

i noticed a lot of couples but not many singles. I always went on a Friday or Saturday

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Im not a super-jock who call pull a Fwb out of nowhere sadly, just had a decent amount of decent looking girlfriends who wouldnt be interested in this stuff. Currently im trying to find someone on reddit/fetlife but its a slow game as im just starting out in this world and trying to stay discreet as im married with a kid. I might try posting a personal ad for a partner to go to oasis with.

I think you could hire a sw. Reddit people aren’t quite open about posting profiles there I find as a redditor myself.
however in both options just know you need to show id to get in so that needs to be considered and maybe checking in separately.
I’ve had a few flings on Ashley Madison and we never knew eachother names

 

[BiggerTitsTheBetter]

i noticed a lot of couples but not many singles. I always went on a Friday or Saturday

Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only at Oasis, hence no single guys allowed.

 

[Ahri]

Im trying to get out a be more adventurous. I was considering giving oasis a try, my only concern is what the ratio is there? I found a thread from 2015 saying its about 4:1 m:f but alot can change in 10 years.

Im decently attractive and never really had problems finding relationships and am sociable. I just dont want to be in a building with 10 dudes to each woman.

The 4:1 ratio is still true even up to this day.
If you can find a lady to go with you the best days to go would be Friday / Saturday

 

[star003]

if you have never been, you should definitely try it once. It’s a kind of experience to remember. As @Ahri rightly said, if you can find a partner to join you, definitely go on friday or Saturday. if you going alone, go on tuesday (DTF event). be patient about the initial awkwardness. take a drink, get into the pool. keep yourself open for the chances, don’t rush to anything, approach others but be respectful if they don’t want you. you may end up with better results than you expected.