Colossal time waster

[DaleyDDD]

Here's a heads up for the ladies on here.

I had an unfortunate experience with a huge time waster here on terb. We exchanged what I think was probably 50+ PMs. Maybe I'm too nice, but I genuinely enjoy talking to people.

One message said something to the effect of "see you at ***, I booked". Cool see you then. The conversation even STILL CONTINUES. I'm not complaining about this, what I'm complaining about happens the following day.

His time comes around and he's 5 minutes late. No big deal. Downtown traffic is atrocious. 10 minutes and I text my booker. She calls and on the phone is told "I never made a booking with Daley".

I've had my share of time wasters and no shows as I know we all have. It unfortunately goes with the territory. What angers me aside from the fact that I now have a wasted hour of my very busy schedule is that I spent so much time building rapport with this fellow.

Now I only wish my inbox weren't as full as it is so that I would have kept the "see you at ***, I booked".

PM me if you would like to know who this was.


End of rant. Time to breath.

 

[teach]

Here's a heads up for the ladies on here.

I had an unfortunate experience with a huge time waster here on terb. We exchanged what I think was probably 50+ PMs. Maybe I'm too nice, but I genuinely enjoy talking to people.

One message said something to the effect of "see you at ***, I booked". Cool see you then. The conversation even STILL CONTINUES. I'm not complaining about this, what I'm complaining about happens the following day.

His time comes around and he's 5 minutes late. No big deal. Downtown traffic is atrocious. 10 minutes and I text my booker. She calls and on the phone is told "I never made a booking with Daley".

I've had my share of time wasters and no shows as I know we all have. It unfortunately goes with the territory. What angers me aside from the fact that I now have a wasted hour of my very busy schedule is that I spent so much time building rapport with this fellow.

Now I only wish my inbox weren't as full as it is so that I would have kept the "see you at ***, I booked".

PM me if you would like to know who this was.


End of rant. Time to breath.

50+ PMs? That should have tipped you off right off the bat. The guy is clearly a needy, indecisive loser. Stay away from losers!

 

[MissCroft]

50+ PMs? That should have tipped you off right off the bat.

I agree. 50 PMs is over the top. I have always liked to chat before meeting someone but when the guy wants to talk a LOT back and forth (or wants to talk dirty) that is a warning sign that he is not serious about booking.

 

[DaleyDDD]

Haha no dirty talk. But funny...after all that, guess who is not messaging me. Surprise surprise.

I agree. 50 PMs is over the top. I have always liked to chat before meeting someone but when the guy wants to talk a LOT back and forth (or wants to talk dirty) that is a warning sign that he is not serious about booking.

 

[D-Fens]

Sorry that happened to you. Time is precious, more precious then money because you can always get money back you will never get time back. I got stood up by an sp not too long ago who I thought I had built a good rapport with but honestly I don't think she had any intention of ever seeing me and I didn't really buy her excuse. She also very conveniently disappeared from terb. She wasted my time and literally my whole day was ruined and that was only one time. Sps put up with this crap on a regular basis. So I feel for you. I am planning on booking a 2 hour session with you once out schedules line up 50 pms? that is a red flag I would think the guy is not for real at that point. Maybe he got cold feet and just didn't have the nerve to go through with it or he was just playing you the whole time either way he's a douche.