Clients who don't talk much. Good?

[fnog9]

Hi. I talk very little when I'm with an sp. I notice others who write reviews they often speak of the interesting conversations they have with sp's and the conversations they have when breaking the ice. I don't really break the ice at all. In my experience, we meet, sit on the bed, I say very little, she appears to be bored like "wtf is he waiting for?", and after a minute or so I kiss her and we just go for the whole hour saying not much. I casually tell her what to do and she says sure, and does it. Never been refused anything. The last sp I was with I actually felt like I was breaking the silence if I said anything like once every 15 minutes.

Am I being a bad client to the sp? Just wondering.... cause a lot of them seem to advertise GFE, and at least in advertisement, push that you really truly get a girlfriend experience, a girl who talks to you n stuff, and of course sex is part of it... but the GF part is part of the whole routine. Like going to an MP, the massage is part of the routine, but you are ultimately there for sex. But if you take the massage out of the routine... then you're not getting the same service, but some other kind of service. Just wondering if some girls would see my behavior as..... I don't know.... not quite in line with the standard GFE session, not following "the established routine". So sp's do most guys talk a lot? Do you care if they don't talk? Do you feel ridiculous if he is silent or not care either way?

After the last session I had, I am almost surprised at how quiet it was. Like I slept walked through it, or we were both hypnotized. Very minimal interaction or interaction of any kind. It will probably be that way if I choose you. It surprised me bc this sp in particular advertised the whole girlfriend part of the experience more than any other SP I have seen advertised. She really pushed the girlfriend part of sp'ing to the point where I didn't even know I wanted to see her bc she made it sound more like an actual girlfriend who you're going to be friends with after you see her. I was apprehensive about that. Then I saw her and there was mostly silence.... which was fine with me personally.

I probably won't change no matter what the responses, I'm still going to go only for the girls who will give me the service I want. Just wondering how some might see my behavior. Do sp's generally want a guy to talk? And guys, do you generally talk a lot to them? Do you flirt with them? I don't. My form of flirting is politely asking, "could you suck my cock, please?".

 

[Macator2003]

I disagree with almost everything you've said. We are on totally different ends of the spectrum. I would think you're not a hoot at a party or when you do occassionally go out with friends.

Aren't you aware of the number of not only great looking, but exceptionally bright ladies there are in the Toronto area in the adult industry.

I love the initial meeting, seeing them in the various stages of undress, seeing the look on their face when they realize that I'm as much interested in hopefully bringing them off or helping to make their day and that I'm not going to ask "could you suck my cock please".

There are no (or very few) "awkward moments of silence". By the time things get initimate, the silence is due to the fact that we're usually comfortable with each other and we're focusing on enjoying the moment.

As far as the Massage Parlour, I've never gone to one to have sex.

I love the walk down the corridor with the lady of my choice (although its been a while since my last visit). I love the first few minutes of seeing them and learning a little about the lady. Feeling her fingers on my shoulders, back, my legs. Breathing in her scent, seeing her smile, the liveliness, depth and colour of her eyes. Getting her thoughts on what's going on with our world. I love the possibility of foreplay, the anticipated release, maybe even her release (if I've seen her a few times), but never sex at an MP.....

 

[red]

women don't like men talking. it turns them off. so you are doing fine. don't worry

 

[fnog9]

I love the initial meeting, seeing them in the various stages of undress, seeing the look on their face when they realize that I'm as much interested in hopefully bringing them off or helping to make their day

Yes, I enjoy all that too, I just do it quietly.

and that I'm not going to ask "could you suck my cock please".

lol, it doesn't show up through the computer, but when I do it, it's cute, it's not demanding or demeaning. It's a playful and innocent "suck my cock", well suited to my quietness.

I love the first few minutes of seeing them and learning a little about the lady. Feeling her fingers on my shoulders, back, my legs. Breathing in her scent, seeing her smile, the liveliness, depth and colour of her eyes. Getting her thoughts on what's going on with our world. I love the possibility of foreplay, the anticipated release, maybe even her release (if I've seen her a few times), but never sex at an MP.....

This is off topic from my original post, but I do not like those things about mp's. I don't like going in wondering what I'm going to get, I know what I'm going to get with an sp.

Personally I book long sessions, Its not all about the "action".I enjoy chit chatting with SPs , I love connecting with them on a personal level by finding out common interests. This makes it an ultimate GFE experience.

Interesting. This is what I was wondering about. For me it's mostly about the action, even if it's a long session.

I'm assuming you book HH sessions, whereby you want as much service you can get in such a short time frame without having to chit chat with SP.

I book hour sessions, and still get as much service as I can get in that time. See, this is what I was wondering. Cause I never thought of myself as demanding since I'm so quiet and laid back, but the amount of mileage I get in my encounters might be considered by some as demanding.... cause it's like I'm skipping the whole gfe thing. It works for me though, the sp's don't mind. At least the ones I've seen. I think I hypnotize them with my quietness. And as I said, I'm so casual and gentle about the way I ask things, it's like they don't feel any reason to refuse anything, the time just glides by at one uniform rate. You're just there with me for an hour at one pleasant pace.

But I try to take it easy on the sp's though, cause I know they might get tired. I don't hump them hard unless they want it. So I think I have a way of getting everything I want without being too demanding on the sp. My regular sp, she won't even let me take it easy on her, she DEMANDS that I fuck her hard, even harder than I want to, sometimes in the ass, and has no limit for the mileage I can get. This is why I book with the "legends" of the area. I know which ones are insatiable, and won't be offended by the service I want.

Re the SP that advertised full GFE, if you don't make an effort to start chit chtting with her, she will not respond. You only get what you put in , so to speak.

Oh, ok. Good. If I don't make an effort, they won't either. So I am given control. That's good.

women don't like men talking. it turns them off. so you are doing fine. don't worry

Excellent.

I hope I don't make anyone feel like I'm raising the bar too high for either sp's or clients. Always keep in mind, YMMV.

 

[Ashley Dupree]

It fine not to say lot but make certain you say something to SP so she dont think you are creepy or make thing awkward. i know some guy out there are shy or dont say much but make sure sp know that your being quiet is not because you displease with her or service if you are in fact enjoy yourself. i seen guy like you and im not mind reader so in 15 min of meeting i like to know that client is please so far. even just some small chit chat and nothing personal also work to break ice. you hear about girl all the time who are not response to client or going through motion. same thing can be said about client and whole thing seem to drag on forever if it is to quiet. most guy like this i may not see again. i love guy who are more vocal and outgoing toward woman. this is just my preference.

 

[neome]

i personally think its wierd when a client says nothing... im a big talker ....

 

[Hadrian]

Hi. I talk very little when I'm with an sp. I notice others who write reviews they often speak of the interesting conversations they have with sp's and the conversations they have when breaking the ice. I don't really break the ice at all. In my experience, we meet, sit on the bed, I say very little, she appears to be bored like "wtf is he waiting for?", and after a minute or so I kiss her and we just go for the whole hour saying not much. I casually tell her what to do and she says sure, and does it. Never been refused anything. The last sp I was with I actually felt like I was breaking the silence if I said anything like once every 15 minutes.

Am I being a bad client to the sp? Just wondering.... cause a lot of them seem to advertise GFE, and at least in advertisement, push that you really truly get a girlfriend experience, a girl who talks to you n stuff, and of course sex is part of it... but the GF part is part of the whole routine. Like going to an MP, the massage is part of the routine, but you are ultimately there for sex. But if you take the massage out of the routine... then you're not getting the same service, but some other kind of service. Just wondering if some girls would see my behavior as..... I don't know.... not quite in line with the standard GFE session, not following "the established routine". So sp's do most guys talk a lot? Do you care if they don't talk? Do you feel ridiculous if he is silent or not care either way?

After the last session I had, I am almost surprised at how quiet it was. Like I slept walked through it, or we were both hypnotized. Very minimal interaction or interaction of any kind. It will probably be that way if I choose you. It surprised me bc this sp in particular advertised the whole girlfriend part of the experience more than any other SP I have seen advertised. She really pushed the girlfriend part of sp'ing to the point where I didn't even know I wanted to see her bc she made it sound more like an actual girlfriend who you're going to be friends with after you see her. I was apprehensive about that. Then I saw her and there was mostly silence.... which was fine with me personally.

I probably won't change no matter what the responses, I'm still going to go only for the girls who will give me the service I want. Just wondering how some might see my behavior. Do sp's generally want a guy to talk? And guys, do you generally talk a lot to them? Do you flirt with them? I don't. My form of flirting is politely asking, "could you suck my cock, please?".

Dude it's your dime, as long as you are respectful do what makes you comfortable I say.

Getcha Pull!!

 

[Bear669]

See Ashley above

Hi. I talk very little when I'm with an sp. I notice others who write reviews they often speak of the interesting conversations they have with sp's and the conversations they have when breaking the ice. ...................
I probably won't change no matter what the responses, I'm still going to go only for the girls who will give me the service I want. Just wondering how some might see my behavior. Do sp's generally want a guy to talk? And guys, do you generally talk a lot to them? Do you flirt with them? I don't. My form of flirting is politely asking, "could you suck my cock, please?".

Other than a few categories of REALLY bad clients, the 'non-talkers' are a pet peeve of many top quality GFE gals.

If you are in fact polite and not in the 'weird' category, no SP minds much for an hour. However for 2 hours or more, some might just decide that you are DNR, as you would drive them bonkers.
As much as giving a last MSOG, the great GFEs see a shy guy as a challenge, and have pride that they can get a pleasant conversation going with anyone.

However if you are booking short, have no real GFE interest, and since you have found sympatico SPs- enjoy it your way.

 

[Ladyraven]

women don't like men talking. it turns them off. so you are doing fine. don't worry

ummmmm really??? I guess I guess I amnot like most women then.. I love talking with my date . and there have been times we did not start our "session : till like a hour after they got there . enjoy a coffee together .chit chat.. its nice show interest in you not just as a sex object .. words can do alot for a womens libido.. believe it or not

 

[great bear]

This poster is the reincarnation of Buster Keaton.

 

[great bear]

women don't like men talking. it turns them off. so you are doing fine. don't worry

You should also have advised him to show up wearing his "tin foil" hat.

 

[Hadrian]

. However for 2 hours or more, some might just decide that you are DNR, as you would drive them bonkers.

I think that would drive anyone nuts! From what I gather from his post I don't think he books multiple hrs though....?

 

[Alex_Ontario]

Hi. I talk very little when I'm with an sp. I notice others who write reviews they often speak of the interesting conversations they have with sp's and the conversations they have when breaking the ice. I don't really break the ice at all. In my experience, we meet, sit on the bed, I say very little, she appears to be bored like "wtf is he waiting for?", and after a minute or so I kiss her and we just go for the whole hour saying not much. I casually tell her what to do and she says sure, and does it. Never been refused anything. The last sp I was with I actually felt like I was breaking the silence if I said anything like once every 15 minutes.

Am I being a bad client to the sp? Just wondering.... cause a lot of them seem to advertise GFE, and at least in advertisement, push that you really truly get a girlfriend experience, a girl who talks to you n stuff, and of course sex is part of it... but the GF part is part of the whole routine. Like going to an MP, the massage is part of the routine, but you are ultimately there for sex. But if you take the massage out of the routine... then you're not getting the same service, but some other kind of service. Just wondering if some girls would see my behavior as..... I don't know.... not quite in line with the standard GFE session, not following "the established routine". So sp's do most guys talk a lot? Do you care if they don't talk? Do you feel ridiculous if he is silent or not care either way?

After the last session I had, I am almost surprised at how quiet it was. Like I slept walked through it, or we were both hypnotized. Very minimal interaction or interaction of any kind. It will probably be that way if I choose you. It surprised me bc this sp in particular advertised the whole girlfriend part of the experience more than any other SP I have seen advertised. She really pushed the girlfriend part of sp'ing to the point where I didn't even know I wanted to see her bc she made it sound more like an actual girlfriend who you're going to be friends with after you see her. I was apprehensive about that. Then I saw her and there was mostly silence.... which was fine with me personally.

I probably won't change no matter what the responses, I'm still going to go only for the girls who will give me the service I want. Just wondering how some might see my behavior. Do sp's generally want a guy to talk? And guys, do you generally talk a lot to them? Do you flirt with them? I don't. My form of flirting is politely asking, "could you suck my cock, please?".

You sure have a lot to say for someone who doesn't talk much. LOL. Just teasing. When clients come to meet me and they don't say much, the escort may think it is her fault or that they're not having a good time. Even if you're a quiet person like myself, find a way to break the ice in any way possible. I'm a shy person by nature but being in this type of social situation forces me to be more outgoing. Otherwise I'm going to deliver the wrong impression to clients. If things become awkward because of the lack of general conversation, sex talk or silence, you may be in for a crappy session or the escort will also clam up and not be as uninhibited as she would with someone who lets her know that they are having a good time. Realize that with different personalities, you may be giving off a bad vibe with the limited amount of chatter.

 

[red]

This poster is the reincarnation of Buster Keaton.

buster keaton? wouldn't that hurt her?

 

[red]

You should also have advised him to show up wearing his "tin foil" hat.

no. but women do like the "black sock" look.

 

[great bear]

buster keaton? wouldn't that hurt her?

No one would know since it would be a silent film.

 

[Rodster]

Interesting question. I'll throw in my $.02 if I may.

Most of us know there are different strokes for different strokes. For me - I enjoy the conversation as part of the overall experience. A little more personal connection goes a long way for me toward a very satisfying and enjoyable time for both. All part of the foreplay. Laughter and comments along the way are fun too.

I'll add that without exception, the Ladies with whom I have had the privilege of spending time have expressed their appreciation to me of conversation. So, I conclude for the most part some chit chat is appreciated. Without some form of it, I would think the Ladies would find dates boring especially longer dates but, being professional they may not show it. It's one reason I never book hh's. I enjoy talking being part of a longer experience.

As I said, my $0.02.

 

[Brill]

You shouldn't change if you don't want to, it's your session. If you were asking advice about a woman you wanted for a relationship I'd say the opposite though.

You aren't being a bad client, but you probably aren't getting her at her best if she's wondering if she's the problem.
If you tend to repeat, they know that's the way you are and it's cool. The one was probably quieter the next time because she's following your lead and figures you don't appreciate chatter.

 

[red]

No one would know since it would be a silent film.

can you wash off a silent film with soap?

 

[Leighster]

I am shy and quiet guy and never had a problem.
I find some ladies really make me converse quite a bit. Anyway with your tongue down her throat or other places it is very difficult to talk.

Just express what you are feeling, that was fantasic, your wonderful etc.

My 2 cents worth.



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