Boob jobs - why?

[kkelso]

I have a lady acquaintance - a dancer who does some light MP work on the side. She's working the dream hard, directing her $$ toward a bachelor's degree, diligent in her classes, on her way to the life she wants.

I'd say quite objectively she is 9+ attractive. Killer face, hispanic/asian features, long raven hair, and Victoria's Secret bod complete with gorgeous perky B cups on a 5'3" frame. Lovely, and lovely in a way that would last.

I had not seen her in a month or so and when I finally did, boom, she walks in with D cups bolted on her lovely little frame. The doc did a nice job, but they are clearly fake. They look so bad on her. i struggled with what to say when she excitedly asked "what do you think?"

We are not close friends so I would never ask "what the hell were you thinking??", so I thought I would ask on here. What possesses a woman to do this? Are the social pressures toward large breasts so strong?

KK

 

[MrJake]

Let me ask you this - if penis enlargements were as easy as breast augmentations, would you get one

Fuck no, I don't want any type of surgery on my penis.

 

[Stoo]

I've had this conversation with a few ladies (civilian friends, not sex trade ladies) and I think it's a self-esteem issue for the most part. That, and they think that men like them. One of my favorite MPAs sounds like she is build a bit like your friend.. Petite, trim... an awesome body. She mentioned that she was thinking she would get bolt-ons next winter. I told her bluntly that I would stop seeing her and she was surprised.... she assumed that all guys just loved big boobs. I asked her why she thought I would prefer big, hard, fake tits over her cute little perfect ones... and they are. She replied: "I dunno, I just thought guys liked big tits". She is a small B I'd say, but she's also about 5'3" and maybe 105#s.

Having said that, I have also met ladies that would benefit from them... Prematurely saggy, post motherhood boobies... If their boobs bother them, then go for it I guess...

And to 4tees, the answer is no. But then I;m hung like a moose, so who am to judge?

 

[rhuarc29]

Let me ask you this - if penis enlargements were as easy as breast augmentations, would you get one

While I see the parallel, it's not a perfect one. Fake breasts are largely a cosmetic improvement (or the opposite). Penis enlargement would serve a practical purpose (physically more pleasurable or less pleasurable even). Of course, the argument could be made that large, fake breasts are more sexually pleasing to men, but I rarely find that to be the case myself.

The main reason for breast enlargement, or penis enlargement, is to stroke the ego IMO.

 

[TiffanySt.J]

boob jobs why? = self esteem

 

[happywanderer]

From what I've read over the years, a great deal of the enlargement surgeries done by men are for cosmetic reasons. Some may gain an inch or maybe two (at most when erect) but more times than not it's just a "locker room" issue. They want to be seen carrying a big(ger) stick so to speak. Sounds fairly similar to the reasons why a woman might consider breast augmentation... it's a matter of confidence or comfort in ones appearance. In the end it's an individuals choice and one many of us will never understand sometimes. Best to look past the implants kkelso and realize she's the same gal you always knew.

Now the important question that no one has asked... where does she work?

 

[rhuarc29]

That was exactly the point I was trying to make. I am of average length and size - akin to a nice B cup, not too large and not too small. However, I would STRONGLY consider a penis enlargement process if it were as easy as a breast augmentation. Strictly for ego purposes and a lack of self-esteem regarding my sexuality.

What is the perfect breast size? A C-cup? Yet how many women go for the D-cup or bigger?
What is the perfect penis length? 6"? 7"? 8? How many men would stop there?

You're right, it seems to me ego is the main driving force.

There are only a handful of women I've seen (naked anyway) that were in need of a boob job, and it was always because of sagging or an irregular shape to the breasts. Yet, it seems every woman with a B-cup has got a boob job, is planning on getting a boob job, or is at least actively contemplating a boob job. A close friend of mine mentioned casually in a conversation that she was planning on getting some work done. Although I hadn't seen her in that way for over a year, she had one of the greatest C-cups I've had the pleasure of seeing...so I thought she was joking and I made a few jokes back at her expense. One month later she had a couple boulders protruding from her chest. Sad. I didn't have the guts to tell her "what the fuck were you thinking?!"

 

[thumper18474]

If augmentation of either was for medical reason....i.e rebuild after surgery or disease then go for it....but to do it just for an ego boost...sorry dont buy it......For the women, you're fine just the way you are....for the guys...it aint the size of the sword you wield....its how you use it!:thumb:

 

[MrJake]

My hypothetical question actually asked you to assume that it was as easy as a breast augmentation, with the same complications. The reason I asked this was to exactly avoid this kind of answer. I did that because I get a sense A LOT more men would have a penis enlargement if it was as easy a a breast augmentation, and if this is the case, the OPs question is answered.

It's not a good hypothetical. If a woman gets breast implants everyone notices, it helps her self esteem. If a man gets his penis enlarged only he and the women (or men) he fucks notices.

 

[CUPID]

It's not a good hypothetical. If a woman gets breast implants everyone notices, it helps her self esteem. If a man gets his penis enlarged only he and the women (or men) he fucks notices.

Not true. I worked for a plastic surgeon back in 2001 who did penis lengthening and fat injections which only showed when the penis was flaccid. When I asked why men would pay tens of thousands of dollars for this type of surgery the surgeon told me it was often because men felt that with a small penis that others would laugh at them in the locker room. Self esteem works the same for men as it does for women.

 

[wangbang]

This thread is useless without pics!!!!

Good boobs jobs are part luck of the draw and part the talent of the doctor. Most of the lousy jobs I have seen are on slim girls with little body fat.

 

[kkelso]

boob jobs why? = self esteem

I get that in theory. But how does it enhance her self-esteem if she looks worse?

 

[rhuarc29]

I get that in theory. But how does it enhance her self-esteem if she looks worse?

It's relative. If a woman puts more store in size than in appearance and feel, clearly it'll give a boost to self-esteem. Many women may think they look more attractive as well.

Most men seem to prefer the look and feel of natural breasts, but it all depends on preference. I imagine it's the same with women.

 

[MojoRisin']

I get tired of people asking "why would someone do this to themselves". Sure some might feel the pressure from society to do this but its THEIR CHOICE. If it makes them feel better why not? I think making someone feel bad about their choice in doing it is just as bad as the thought of making someone feel that they need it done. Everyone makes their own choices. Its legal and their choice. Im not into someone being guilted or forced to do it but to each their own. If you are against them doing it then its YOU putting your feelings and preferences on someone. To me thats worse. You may have a preference but not your choice. So sorry

 

[MojoRisin']

I get that in theory. But how does it enhance her self-esteem if she looks worse?

Looks worse to who? You? If shes feels like she looks better to herself then great. WTF does she care what you think?

 

[train]

Let me ask you this - if penis enlargements were as easy as breast augmentations, would you get one

Not if it looked as fake as 50% of the boob -jobs out there. Some are well done though and you can't tell they are fake.

 

[IM469]

Looks worse to who? You? If shes feels like she looks better to herself then great. WTF does she care what you think?

+1

Quality boob jobs that enhance and are not oversized are great. I love them and don't believe that guys are really honest about detecting quality boob jobs or their preference over small pancake boobs on women. For all the self-righteous hype about look of the boob job, any woman will tell you the attention that they get from men increases. I have yet to find a dancer who didn't admit they make more money after a boob job.

 

[Keebler Elf]

+1

Quality boob jobs that enhance and are not oversized are great. I love them and don't believe that guys are really honest about detecting quality boob jobs or their preference over small pancake boobs on women. For all the self-righteous hype about look of the boob job, any woman will tell you the attention that they get from men increases. I have yet to find a dancer who didn't admit they make more money after a boob job.

+2

While a bad boob job is horrible, a good one can be spectacular.

A lot of these types of threads are more about guys who don't like fake tits venting than about why chicks get them. The reality is that chicks get them because more guys like big tits than small tits and big tits get more attention, get more $$$, get more praise, etc., etc., etc.

 

[MPAsquared]

boob jobs why? = self esteem

That's so not true. I got my tits done as a 30th bday present to myself. Long after retiring as an mpa. I feel fabulous about myself. I simply wanted bigger tits. With ur assumption, then every fake blonde who just wants blonde hair must hate themselves.

 

[Malika Fantasy]

natural itty bitties titties all the way!
I love my 32A/B (depending on the day) way too much to put some foreign object in them