To quote Eric Clapton, "It's in the way that you use it" Mejack is right some girls don't know how to make the piercing put use dudes over the top.
The Cowboy's steady Cowgirl back a few years had this awesome trick were she would slide the ball up and down the shaft and have it dance right on the tip of the slit of my buckaroo, awesome just awesom, also make a difference durring bls. Most SPs I've met that have 'em don't know how to use 'em.
