Best way to communicate

[travelguy]

This should probably be in the 411 section, but I don`t see that link?
Just wondering what my best option would be to communicate with SP`s for my hobbying?
I`m not a tech person, so bare with me. Is there a prepaid phone that I can buy outright and just prepay for texting etc.?
I am getting very leery of late using my personal phone.
I
Any recommendations would be appreciated.

 

[bob.man]

I use textnow, definitely not good to use your real number.
As there are profiles that yes scream scammer etc etc.. but there some that, you just can't tell..
Then the next thing you know you have a scammer that has your real number.. and I am like, yeah no thanks.

There will be SPs who will only book with a real number, and I still say no, just my opinion there.

You can choose to do differently, but make sure they are thoroughly reviewed before you do that!!!!!!

 

[WonderWanker]

I use textnow, definitely not good to use your real number.
As there are profiles that yes scream scammer etc etc.. but there some that, you just can't tell..
Then the next thing you know you have a scammer that has your real number.. and I am like, yeah no thanks.

There will be SPs who will only book with a real number, and I still say no, just my opinion there.

You can choose to do differently, but make sure they are thoroughly reviewed before you do that!!!!!!

i use the same ap.. if they don t respond or don t accept txt aps.. too bad for them..
you are not missing anything if they don t.

 

[missingme]

Many Use Text app , and some a prepaid phone . Most of girls prefer direct questions with a name and preferred time request possibly alterative . If possible not a lot of questions as I think we all take care of our own phones xoxo be thoughtful and considerate when messaging xoxo much Love Heather

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I think if you're respectful of a woman's time and to the point , and if you're willing to give personal details about yourself (nothing too personal but a little introduction is nice) and have an open line of communication... I don't think it matters if you use a texting app.

I don't talk to texting apps because people who use them are generally really immature and a lot of time wasters use texting apps to bother women and repeatedly fake book them... And send abusive messages

I say I don't accept appointments from texting apps... But the truth is, I don't accept emotionally stunted messages from texting apps.I don't respond to "hey" "hi" "hello" "hlo" "are you available" and "can you be available in 15 minutes"

If someone can come to me respectfully and get across in a few messages that they are genuine and they mean business ill take the appointment.

The minute anything becomes disingenuous or fishy i'm asking for a deposit, i'm asking for photo identification, i'm blocking the number.

As long as you are straightforward and to the points but also relaying that you're serious in your intentions to book and that you're just an average guy who's not looking to play games , I don't see why anyone wouldn't book with you from a texting app.

That being said every provider can ask for what they want, because of their specific needs and that's okay too.

I just know for myself I go through all of these steps to avoid abusive texts and fake bookings. In my specific circumstances , if someone can just relay to me and make me feel comfortable that they are a genuine person, that means more to me than if they are using a real phone number.

The more someone is trying to hide their identity the more suspicious I am of them. If we're already going into a working relationship where you don't trust me even a bit but im supposed to welcome you into my space and inside my body... its not worth the business.

Just introduce yourself how you would introduce yourself to a stranger. You're not gonna give them your credit card.You're not going to give them your address , but you are going to give them very basic details about yourself to help them paint a picture and put themselves at ease.

We're all just women trying to keep ourselves safe. Try to remember that. Try to remember that no one is doing it to inconvenience you and we're not doing it to be malicious. It's for safety.

 

[RebelinBed]

This should probably be in the 411 section, but I don`t see that link?
Just wondering what my best option would be to communicate with SP`s for my hobbying?
I`m not a tech person, so bare with me. Is there a prepaid phone that I can buy outright and just prepay for texting etc.?
I am getting very leery of late using my personal phone.
I
Any recommendations would be appreciated.

You can get prepaid SIM cards if you have an old phone laying around. You can also get prepaid phones for texting.

I know you said you're not a tech person but you can get an e-sim card as well.

Text apps are also a valid option, just remember to turn the notifications off for it when you aren't using it. I use them for booking and inquiring with Indies. I would still recommend booking highly well-reviewed ladies with your real # as you know the won't randomly message you. Ladies such as Jenesis, Heather, Ashlee, Amber, Nikki, Xina, Kaydence, Gianna, Heidi, Charlotte, Tana, Ebony Sierra, Ashley, etc. Then just delete the messages but save their contact.

However, if you go the burner/prepaid phone route it would still be a real number and would likely be okay.

Multiple options to pick from. Whatever is convenient and works best for you.

 

[Happy-go-lucky]

I remember back in the 1990's going to payphones with a handful of quarters and a list of SP phone numbers checking availability & services.... ah, things were so innocent back then

 

[boomboom]

I remember back in the 1990's going to payphones with a handful of quarters and a list of SP phone numbers checking availability & services.... ah, things were so innocent back then

Or a prepaid calling card

 

[Jenesis]

Just be aware. Text apps and real phone numbers each come with their own risks and positivity. You risk not seeing escorts that you want because they won’t accept Text App like myself. Or you possibly being contacted if you start contacting shady people. You can eliminate the shady people however if you do your proper research.

 

[WonderWanker]

You can get prepaid SIM cards if you have an old phone laying around. You can also get prepaid phones for texting.

I know you said you're not a tech person but you can get an e-sim card as well.

Text apps are also a valid option, just remember to turn the notifications off for it when you aren't using it. I use them for booking and inquiring with Indies. I would still recommend booking highly well-reviewed ladies with your real # as you know the won't randomly message you. Ladies such as Jenesis, Heather, Ashlee, Amber, Nikki, Xina, Kaydence, Gianna, Heidi, Charlotte, Tana, Ebony Sierra, Ashley, etc. Then just delete the messages but save their contact.

However, if you go the burner/prepaid phone route it would still be a real number and would likely be okay.

Multiple options to pick from. Whatever is convenient and works best for you.

but, who wants to carry 2 phones around

 

[missingme]

I think if you're respectful of a woman's time and to the point , and if you're willing to give personal details about yourself (nothing too personal but a little introduction is nice) and have an open line of communication... I don't think it matters if you use a texting app.

I don't talk to texting apps because people who use them are generally really immature and a lot of time wasters use texting apps to bother women and repeatedly fake book them... And send abusive messages

I say I don't accept appointments from texting apps... But the truth is, I don't accept emotionally stunted messages from texting apps.I don't respond to "hey" "hi" "hello" "hlo" "are you available" and "can you be available in 15 minutes"

If someone can come to me respectfully and get across in a few messages that they are genuine and they mean business ill take the appointment.

The minute anything becomes disingenuous or fishy i'm asking for a deposit, i'm asking for photo identification, i'm blocking the number.

As long as you are straightforward and to the points but also relaying that you're serious in your intentions to book and that you're just an average guy who's not looking to play games , I don't see why anyone wouldn't book with you from a texting app.

That being said every provider can ask for what they want, because of their specific needs and that's okay too.

I just know for myself I go through all of these steps to avoid abusive texts and fake bookings. In my specific circumstances , if someone can just relay to me and make me feel comfortable that they are a genuine person, that means more to me than if they are using a real phone number.

The more someone is trying to hide their identity the more suspicious I am of them. If we're already going into a working relationship where you don't trust me even a bit but im supposed to welcome you into my space and inside my body... its not worth the business.

Just introduce yourself how you would introduce yourself to a stranger. You're not gonna give them your credit card.You're not going to give them your address , but you are going to give them very basic details about yourself to help them paint a picture and put themselves at ease.

We're all just women trying to keep ourselves safe. Try to remember that. Try to remember that no one is doing it to inconvenience you and we're not doing it to be malicious. It's for safety.

Very well said . thankyou xo

 

[RebelinBed]

but, who wants to carry 2 phones around

Nobody lol