Best way to approach a BP girl

[nothingtolose]

I am new to Ottawa bobby scene. So I'd like to know the etiquette before contacting anyone - that is, what's the Best way to approach a BP girl?

I would guess texting is the best way, right? or call her up?

Or send her a PM (Private Message)? If yes, how I can find her TERB handle?

Does the following seem to be a good text message to start the conversation?

Hello XXXX,
My TERB handle is nothingtolose and I thinking about coming over to see you on next Tuesday (7/18) in the afternoon. Please let me if you are available?
Thanks

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

With caution... lol

Terb and BP are not associated in any way, a lot the providers don't know or concern themselves with the boards or who you ae. Contact them as they state in their ad, usually text or phone. Be polite and respectful, don't be rude or vulgar, speak with them the way you would like to be spoken to.

 

[itd131]

A lot of the ads you see on BP are scammers or fake. I suggest you only contact ladies who you can verify as real. Search their names, phone numbers, pictures, etc. and see what you find. Again, if you can't verify that someone is legit, don't go there. Odds are things will end badly for you. I suggest keeping your handle to yourself. Most ladies on BP don't have anything to do with terb and won't care anyway.

You may want to start with agencies or more established indies. One clue to look for is a website. If a lady has a decent looking website (or a twitter page with regular updates) the odds of her being a scam are much lower. You may end up paying a higher rate than you need to but it might be worth it if it helps you avoid being ripped off.

 

[nothingtolose]

Really appreciate your inputs!

Do you normally make appointment in advance like a few days earlier - or only contact the girl in the same day?

 

[Alisonxox]

I am speaking for myself here , but I prefer by text and I always ask if the gentleman is a Terb or Cerb member .. I prefer members because they usually don't fakebook and it is easy to verify if they are good clients ..
I also offer a 15$off to Terb and Lyla member if they pm me to confirm our booking ..

The best way to communicate with me is to mention exactly what you are looking for , the date and time you would like to book and of course to be polite... I also answer even if I am not working or available because I like to book my clients in advance ..

Exemple :

Hi Alison ,
I am looking for a 60min Nuru session next Tuesday at 2pm ..
What would be the rate and where Is your location ?
My handle on Terb is ......
Thank you

Fast easy and straight to the point
Xx
Ali

 

[HUGS_KISSES]

Not sure if it is my place to comment as I don't see escorts but frequenting strip bars. That said as a past hobbyist (prior to 2013) I may have a few suggestions. In my view if anyone opt for BP (which I don't recommend) then carefully screen out for those who may have been forced into this business or pimped. How to screen out? Ask questions (by text or phone). Always phone back the number and make sure she is the one who is picking up the phone and ask questions to see if SHE is fully aware of all previous communications and the content of all messages (if not then very likely a pimp has been responding to the text and made promises on her behalf). For those borderline age (19 to 21 and do not see at 18 too close for comfort) make showing an age verification ID a condition (let her know you are least interested in knowing her identity but her age to be legal). Let her know she can cover her name and address on the ID with her hand and you wish to see only her Birthdate and photo none private. Do not demand services she feels reluctant to offer. In my view seeing a lady who is forced into business especially knowingly is like rape. C36 wrongfully does't distinguish between those taking part in consenting paid sex and those who knowingly see the forced and pimped (unlike Finnish laws) which is its biggest flaw but it is your moral obligation to do all above if you wish to elect from BP in my view. My 2 cents.