BDSM advise

[Ginglay]

k, so, my significant other likes to play submissive, the usual stuff etc. The issue is that i do not know how to play this game without leaving marks on her... mind you, she is not complaining about the marks (considers them a badge of honor...), but i mind... so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to accomplish the necessary events without leaving any marks behind...

much obliged...

 

[wrong hole]

Well...in Full Metal Jacket....they put soap in a pillow bag(so it wouldn't leave any marks) then proceeded to beat Gomer Pile with it

 

[LeatherDoll]

I'd like some more info ...

CIAK is absolutely right, ice will reduce swelling and underskin bleeding (and, therefore, bruises).

Systemic zinc (taken as a tablet, for example) will speed healing of cuts. Make sure she eats well and drinks plenty of water.

But, what exactly are you doing that is raising the marks? Are you talking about bruises, broken blood vessels (large red marks), cuts? Are you using toys and if so, which ones? Are you starting with warm-ups or just jumping in to heavy play?

There are plenty of really good websites (start with Sexuality.org/BDSM , books ("The Bottoming Book" is a wonderful starter, local workshops, and large number of social/educational groups dedicated to BDSM and safe play in Toronto. Start looking for courses at Good For Her and check out the NOW Love & Sex Guide

DSSG Toronto is a great local resource - check the links page. And Northbound Leather will also be able to direct you to events/club nights around the city.

 

[Dash]

k, so, my significant other likes to play submissive, the usual stuff etc. The issue is that i do not know how to play this game without leaving marks on her... mind you, she is not complaining about the marks (considers them a badge of honor...), but i mind... so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to accomplish the necessary events without leaving any marks behind...

much obliged...

This is ur most serious problem? I'd be more concerned about trying to transition her into "slave" status....and trying that menage a trois bisexual scene with her...

 

[Dash]

*sigh* Men, give em a whole buffet and yet they still want more diversity, so typical LMAO And it takes a lot more then a bisexual scene to call them a slave, Mister!

You feign a sigh and make like us men are almost too hard to bear, but I still know you can't resist my kind of poetry, Missy!

By the way...Ginglay, make sure the new girl brings a strap-on dildo along with her - so you won't have to do all the work for your girlfriend. Occasionally you can just sit back and watch one pussycat dominate the other and listen to the beautiful music they make while catfighting in bed, while they share that strap-on upon each other - growl, hiss, purrrr....

Did I get your attention yet, Ginglay....?

 

[LeatherDoll]

Well, you got mine ...

In my head, this scene includes you tied up, blindfolded, with earplugs, sitting in the corner - facing the wall.

Catfighting?

Sighing would be too much effort ....

No "Master" worth his salt would ever conceive of his "slave" with such disdain! She gives in love, he takes with respect - anything less is abuse.