BBW/ alpha male thread

[Twinklegirl]

How many of you actually think a BBW is fat because they are needy, neglected, need controlled or have low self esteem? Many of us have other reasons. Hormones, thyroid, child rearing, illnesses, genes, medications....it's not always because we eat too much. Do men generally assume that chunky women just eat to 'make the pain go away'? Some of us love our bodies, don't want to change them.

As a former SP, I've seen many men, and not all of you had washboard abs. I don't accuse you of being needy and chowing down on crap and sitting on your butt all day. Every body is different.

Who cares why the individual carries more weight than the last girl you've seen? I've seen so many times on this board men saying things like "she was so fat" or "she was fatter than her pic "

Does it really matter that much?

 

[fuji]

I genearlly assume that overweight women simply enjoy their food and/or aren't crazy about strenuous exercise. I would not come up with a psychological explanation unless I knew the person well enough.

I know some women really do have hormone issues, but that doesn't explain why North Americans in general are so fat compared to others with similar genetic background.

Look at 2nd generation Asians compared to 1st generation, same genetic stock, but the 2nd gen's are fatter--it's our culture.

 

[cute-bald]

Look !!!!!!

read the medical research in A.J.M. 1% have hormone, genes etc. that inhibit weight loss , although even they can get medical attention to solve that. YES , as even on a popular psychology show on tv , it has been shown majority of the obese have psychological issues. Many also just do not understand how the body & matabolism works to lose weight & are mislead by the diet industry bigtime.

 

[The Bandit]

It's when they try to come across as sexy, full-figured...then you see their pics and you say WTF! There are alot of them on this site, makes you go . To each their own.

 

[elmo]

Does it really matter that much?

Yes it does. Fat is fat, I don't give a shit why you're fat, if I'm paying for it I don't want fat.

 

[Back Burner]

How many of you actually think a BBW is fat because they are needy, neglected, need controlled or have low self esteem? Many of us have other reasons. Hormones, thyroid, child rearing, illnesses, genes, medications....it's not always because we eat too much. Do men generally assume that chunky women just eat to 'make the pain go away'? Some of us love our bodies, don't want to change them.

As a former SP, I've seen many men, and not all of you had washboard abs. I don't accuse you of being needy and chowing down on crap and sitting on your butt all day. Every body is different.

Who cares why the individual carries more weight than the last girl you've seen? I've seen so many times on this board men saying things like "she was so fat" or "she was fatter than her pic "

Does it really matter that much?

Hold up hold up hold up. Are you saying that overweight people are physically fit and happy with the way they look? I would have to disagree.

 

[JEFF247]

I agree!!

Many also just do not understand how the body & matabolism works to lose weight & are mislead by the diet industry bigtime.

Metabolism & caloric intake included with healthy activity. The activity doesn't have to mean painfully preparing for a marathon!!! Just garden, light exercise/stretching. Work up gradually. Walk up stairs instead of taking the elevator. I park as far as I can from the mall when I shop. Forces me to walk. Lots of little things.

I weigh 196. I am 6'. No one thinks I am overweight. I have an athletic build. Last I checked, your body (male) burns about 15 x your weight. My case 15x200=3000 calories. If your burn 3500 calories more than you take in you lose one pound. So if I only take in 2500 a day, I have burned 3500 more calories in a week (7x500) than I took in. It works for me. I am also very active.

Eat lots of fiber too!!!

As far as "Does it matter" probably. I don't think I have ever dated anyone over 125 lbs. Generally speaking, the physical attraction is the first step in pursuing a female. I don't consciously think "is she 125 or less?"

 

[sexy_bbw_Véro]

Hold up hold up hold up. Are you saying that overweight people are physically fit and happy with the way they look? I would have to disagree.

sorry but I'm definitely happy with the way I look! How can you pretend to know what is in the mind of someone else??

I'm a girl who's taking care of her apparence ... and I'm more in shape then many slim girl.

For sure, everybody have a part of his body he don't like as much as the rest ... I have mine ... Yes only 1 part of my body I don't like. Wouuuuu! Let me tell you that is not enough to make me stop looking how i'm looking good in every mirors I cross in a day! lolll

 

[Mongrel4u]

How many of you actually think a BBW is fat because they are needy, neglected, need controlled or have low self esteem? Many of us have other reasons. Hormones, thyroid, child rearing, illnesses, genes, medications....it's not always because we eat too much. Do men generally assume that chunky women just eat to 'make the pain go away'? Some of us love our bodies, don't want to change them.

More often than not sweetheart....it DOES have to do with the eating; combined with a crappy metabolism and a sedentary lifestyle.

Now...why? they have an eating issue is a whole other discussion

I don't accuse you of being needy and chowing down on crap and sitting on your butt all day. Every body is different.

But chances are that probably IS the issue...Just because you dont accuse it ...that doesnt mean it isnt so.

Does it really matter that much?

To some guys it does...just like to some girls, it matters whether or not the guy has a donkey dick

 

[rama putri]

Do men generally assume that chunky women just eat to 'make the pain go away'?

I don't, but I do think most men and other women do. They just don't state their opinions out loud.

 

[Mrbig1949]

This is one time I trust the market to sort this out. If there are enough customers to support a BBW then I guess she has her answer. If not then I guess she also has her answer. I've done it with more than a few girls I thought could lose a few pounds but usually because they had many redeaming features, very pretty face, even brains and something to say, perish the thought, generally speaking though, when you pay you have a say and BBWs are a niche market.

 

[to-guy69]

Being good in bed isn't measured in inches or pounds, however, it certainly matters when one is paying good money for a fantasy that requires an erection to enjoy.

Men have always been visual creatures from the beginning of time and in this present market, even the majority of agencies refrain from advertising an SPs weight over 140 lbs (even when some are close to or even over this threshold).