Bad Date Question???

[Jenn_angel]

LMFAO

On your breath? LMFAO...

Thank you for being nice... Mind you... With the exception of the wrong soap I generally like to be... Oops... Time to behave now...

 

[E_B_Samaritano]

A1 Provider,

About those 2k Italian designer suits..ever considered that the guy may be wearing his entire clothing wardrobe. First clue..pants stand at attention by themselves when he undresses..then they jump back on at the snap of a finger. Suits can have a nasty habit of transferring odor if worn too many times between proper dry cleaning.

On a more serious note: My suggestion would be to inform any potential customer that you encourage them to take showers on location to insure better service. Offer the shower up front "off the clock". Believe it or not some of these big spenders you're talking about are worried about being shorted on time. Personally, I don't like incalls and the convenience and cleanliness of the facilities is often an issue. I can count the number of incalls that I've been to on one hand in my many years of hobbying. Unfortunately, only one place had the necessary items on hand to facilitate taking a proper shower. That lady is Laiya of Vancouver. I am very particular about hygiene as well. I find it remarkable that many ladies can't even offer a clean bath towel, let alone a wash cloth. Of course many incall locations are drive throughs anyway, so often time you'll find the bath supplies exhausted by previous customers. Precisely why I prefer outcall to my hotel room where I can indulge in the proper surgical scrub prior to the session. I always have something on hand other than hotel soap which is for individual personal use of the provider if she so wishes.

I do prefer to use a lightly scented cologne and I use unscented deodorant so as not to clash with the cologne. In doing so I will always take it under advisement as some ladies do have allergic reactions to fragrances. On the other hand, many wives and SOs have allergic reactions to another woman's perfume or cosmetics...LOL.. I'm fortunate to not be concerned about this issue..

EBS

 

[Jenn_angel]

Advice...

Hey... In all honesty I am open to advice... I take it all into consideration... So far I have gotten two pieces of advice...

Oh and they were nice to think they might be helping... But I think I like how I am. lol.

Misty you are very correct... Actually it can be quite erotic when done properly...

 

[DavidO]

Re: LMFAO

On your breath? LMFAO...

Laugh if you like, Jenn, but it was true. Mind you, in conversations with the lady afterward, she did say that she used scent in "all the fun places". It was fun.

Mind, I've seen the same lady since, she's taken the perfume thing into account, and there was *no* problem. None whatsoever. I've *got* to see her again, too... Soon, soon.

Thank you for being nice... Mind you... With the exception of the wrong soap I generally like to be... Oops... Time to behave now...

Jenn, I'm almost always nice. Thanks for the info. Uh, were you suggesting that even when you're clean, you can be dirty? Oh, never mind, I just got it. Nice, a little slow sometimes, but nice.

Originally posted by Mystique>Misty
Here are some suggetions

Thanks, tea tree oil soap is on the list of things to try, and I can get it here, many thanks for the offer.

DavidO

 

[Jenn_angel]

Re: Re: LMFAO

Laugh if you like, Jenn, but it was true. Mind you, in conversations with the lady afterward, she did say that she used scent in "all the fun places". It was fun.

Mind, I've seen the same lady since, she's taken the perfume thing into account, and there was *no* problem. None whatsoever. I've *got* to see her again, too... Soon, soon.

Jenn, I'm almost always nice. Thanks for the info. Uh, were you suggesting that even when you're clean, you can be dirty? Oh, never mind, I just got it. Nice, a little slow sometimes, but nice.
DavidO

Me dirty? LMAO... Ask someone who knows... LMFAO. I am just me... Now on the issue of dirty... Define dirty... LMAO. Now that could be fun... No better yet... Show me... ;-)

 

[joebob]

Re: Not too much!

I smile to walk into a room all steamy and the guys got on a towel....no need for comments then.
Good post by the way!
.xo

Very interesting.

I remember reading on more than one site that this is a breach of SP etiquette and that most SP's dislike being met in a towel or bathrobe. As I recall the argument was that it could be preceived as "rushing" the event.

Comments & insight welcome.


Joebob

 

[E_B_Samaritano]

Not my experience..

Joebob,

I wear a bathrobe almost all the time for encounters in hotels.

I don't think ladies have an issue with this. They are pros and this should shock them no more than if you were greeted in lingerie at an incall. As a minimum session is 2 hours for me, the rush factor is never in the equation. In fact, since you are in your own place, you appear more relaxed and natural walking around freshly showered. If anything, your at ease vibes will put her in that mood. Why put on clothes, only to have to remove them soon after? In fact, if it is a lady you haven't met, it breaks some of the ice by sending a subtle message as to your expectations in the session. Believe it or not, there are still some clients who only want to talk. These are the ones who are usually fully clothed. The woman will only feel rushed based on how you treat her. First and foremost is how you react within the first few minutes of her entrance. It behooves you, fully clothed or not to make sure she feels at home. At least wait for the door to slam before you start groping..LOL..(not intended to imply that you'd do this of course).

EBS

 

[josie]

mmm

Good point about the breach.I don't really see it as such. Although I can see where some would.
If you think you have B.O.I'd rather be safe then pungent and shower after a workout or whatever.Some fellas put on there pants and answer the door.Most thinking escorts will thank you for being fresh.And the ones who don't better sniff themselves!!

xo