Attached people & risk with BB services

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Question to all the attached people out there who see escorts on the side and engage in BB services - how do you get past the fear of STI/STD?

Do you stick with a regular, or just wing it?
 
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I hear you, but wanted to gauge what the consensus is.

I have read a lot of reviews of people getting BBBJ, DATY/O, which made me wonder what makes them take the plunge?
That's different and less risky than unprotected intercourse. Tbh you should be using caution with all hobbying activities. Use your big head to think. One bad choice can change your life forever. Especially if you have spouse.
 

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That's different and less risky than unprotected intercourse. Tbh you should be using caution with all hobbying activities. Use your big head to think. One bad choice can change your life forever. Especially if you have spouse.
Worse is the innocent spouse who gets a possible lifetime diseae or even just a basic STI. It would make them feel dirty and they will lose trust in everything.
 
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Question to all the attached people out there who see escorts on the side and engage in BB services - how do you get past the fear of STI/STD?

Do you stick with a regular, or just wing it?
Ask the person you're attached to. Maybe they have an idea on how to get past the fear of STI/ STD. See if they have an opinion on being unknowing exposed to your comfort level of risk.
 
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I always believed people do this for attention. That theyre either developmentally delayed or emotionally stunted and the only way they know how to get attention from a wife they tricked at young age to marry their immature ass is to give them a disease. Some men think any attention is good attention and gaslighting and abusing their wives is a form of entertainment. If you abuse your partner in every way possible over the years and theyre completely numb to it. Why not cheat on them and give them a disease instead of you know ... being a better person?

There are people who seek out diseases to punish a sexual partner. I always just imagine some man-baby trying to use biological warfare to get attention from a wife who can barely stand to be in the same room with him because she thinks hes disgusting... and he just reinforces being disgusting in new imaginative different ways like it's his job to be woman repellant.
 
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I always believed people do this for attention. That theyre either developmentally delayed or emotionally stunted and the only way they know how to get attention from a wife they tricked at young age to marry their immature ass is to give them a disease. Some men think any attention is good attention and gaslighting and abusing their wives is a form of entertainment. If you abuse your partner in every way possible over the years and theyre completely numb to it. Why not cheat on them and give them a disease instead of you know ... being a better person?
With all due lack of respect, it's hard for me to believe that you really believe any guy would purposefully and knowingly pass on an STI to his SO.

Hate men much?
 
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With all due lack of respect, it's hard for me to believe that you really believe any guy would purposefully and knowingly pass on an STI to his SO.

Hate men much?
You would have to have some kind of disability to not understand that the person having unprotected sex with you today had unprotected sex with 20 other people just in the week prior to seeing you... And that's just compounded the more they work and the longer they've been in the industry.

These people are just asking for a disease and then they're shocked when they finally get one and they have to tell their wife to get rid of it 😂

This happens A LOT more than you think and I've known the idiots that do this. The one girl f*cked people raw for a year and had no symptoms and had no idea when she got the disease. She potentially infected hundreds of people if not thousands and men were furious with HER for getting a disease when THEY pressured her for bare services. It was suddenly HER fault that THEY had to tell their wife.
 

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You would have to have some kind of disability to not understand that the person having unprotected sex with you today had unprotected sex with 20 other people just in the week prior to seeing you... And that's just compounded the more they work and the longer they've been in the industry.

These people are just asking for a disease and then they're shocked when they finally get one and they have to tell their wife to get rid of it 😂

This happens A LOT more than you think and I've known the idiots that do this. The one girl f*cked people raw for a year and had no symptoms and had no idea when she got the disease. She potentially infected hundreds of people if not thousands and men were furious with HER for getting a disease when THEY pressured her for bare services. It was suddenly HER fault that THEY had to tell their wife.
In your post #8 in this thread you implied that men were getting STI's on purpose with the intention of infecting their wives in furtherance of their general spousal abuse, not just being stupid by doing bbfs with escorts and hoping to not catch anything and bring it home.

Imo the two scenarios are not the same thing at all, even though the transmittal of the STI to the innocent wife is deplorable in either case.
 
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You would have to have some kind of disability to not understand that the person having unprotected sex with you today had unprotected sex with 20 other people just in the week prior to seeing you... And that's just compounded the more they work and the longer they've been in the industry.

These people are just asking for a disease and then they're shocked when they finally get one and they have to tell their wife to get rid of it 😂

This happens A LOT more than you think and I've known the idiots that do this. The one girl f*cked people raw for a year and had no symptoms and had no idea when she got the disease. She potentially infected hundreds of people if not thousands and men were furious with HER for getting a disease when THEY pressured her for bare services. It was suddenly HER fault that THEY had to tell their wife.
How did it work out for her? Life went on?
 
She had to leave the industry. Her entire business was built on bareback and bbbj and people were furious with her. She was getting death threats.

The doctor told her that if she didn't quit she was going to keep getting reinfected and there was a potential for the disease to become antibiotic resistant.

She went back to her job in healthcare of all places 🙄

She wants to come back to the industry from time to time but shes worried about the backlash from when she infected all of those people.

How did it work out for her? Life went on?
 

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Everyone who decides to hobby or offers the services is aware - for the most part - for the reasons to maintain their sexual health. Yes, there's more risk in BBBJ than CBJ but still quite minimal since all of us understand the need to maintain our sexual health. Is it 100% perfect? Unfortunately, no but the odds of contracting anything goes way, way down with the proper precautions we all should use. And for those that play Russian roulette on purpose, they deserve what the get and hopefully don't pass it to others.
And for the SP mentioned by Sinnamon in post #10 & #15, I have no sorrow or compassion for her especially that she's in the healthcare and should know better.

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