fmauhv said:
Thanks CG. Another question. I am very open minded wife is not. What is the best way to get her to open the door to the bedroom to other people??
Hahaha (To sheik's answer...)
Hard to say as EVERY woman is different. (Just like every man is...) All I can say is from my own experience... This is how it happened for me:
I never knew my wife was "bi-curious"... Maybe I should have seen the signs, but I am about as dumb as a bag of hammers when it comes to women and reading the "signs".
She's always had a fair amount of girl friends, but as far as I know, she never acted on any feelings, if she had them. Although she did tell me when we first started dating that she kissed her best friend, but I think she did that for SHOCK value. (Or maybe not...) This all changed about 3 1/2 years ago.
So we have always had a rather liberal sex life... she likes to experiment, and we do occasionally watch porn together. Through this, I discovered she didn't mind watching the scene's with 2 girls and or FMF 3-ways... in fact she quite enjoyed it! Hmmm I thought, this could be interesting.
Anyway, I would always joke around when she went out with the girls, "It's OK if you have an extra marital affair as long as it was with a woman and then you have to tell me all about it when you get home. Oh and pictures would be good too!"... Years went by with me saying this... Then one day, about 3 years ago, she was over at her BFF's place (who had just split up with her husband), and they were getting into the wine... and she is communicating with me via text on her phone (and me on my computer...) I say, "so whatcha doing babe", she says "oh just having some wine and talking with (friend's name)"... "cool".... I say "what's she wearing?", and she replies "a black skirt and a white blouse"... and I say "not that, what's she wearing under that?!"... (Just joking around of course trying to cause some shit...). She says, "I don't know, let me check!"
I stay silent, not knowing what to say... then she texts back a few minutes later "a lacy white bra and matching thong". I say something like "sure she is... prove it". And about 3 minutes later a picture message appears!
Well the next hour or so was her sending me pics of the 2 of them in various stages of undress, kissing each other and groping each other! When she got home that night we fucked like RABBITS!
Turns out she was "exploring" with her friend for a few months already! She was just waiting for the right opportunity and set of circumstances to tell me. The rest as they say is history. Oh, and sex with my wife took a serious turn for the better since that day!
