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Just wondering if anyone has had good experiences from Ashley Madison? I have heard that the women are inundated with messages and you are lucky if you get a response.

I am married, 28 yrs. old and my wife has a low sex drive and is very routine and unwilling to experiment. I.E. Missionary, her on top, that's it! I can't take it anymore! I am extremely happy with everything else but the sex sucks.

SP's don't appeal all that much to me because the pleasure seems so short lived. I also can't justify spending that much money weekly, bi-weekly etc.

As a result I look to Ashley Madison, but is it worth the time and money? I would really like to meet a women who is discrete, proffessional, preferably married as well, and is looking to explore fantasies, that does not cost $200-300/hr. Is that too much to ask??

Maybe so.....

Reviews on Ashley Madison are appreciated.
 

Top Jimmy

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You get missionary? Luxury! :)

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Play[er]boy

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Re: My buddy

42million said:
darren who is actually on the late night commercials is the owner of this agency, and I can tell you that the % of men to women are not balanced whatsoever. he puts a good spin on things and is doing new promotions to attract more women, but I dont think it will change things any....

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I think you are better to look elsewhere...Also if you are so happy with your life other than the sex, I suggest you sit and talk it out with your wife. Its seems a shame to go outside the marriage when you hear so many breaking up....There is nothing like a good face to face talk with your partner in life....
slip her some E and watch some porn :)
 

xix

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Re: Re: Re: My buddy

Play[er]boy said:
I meant - watch it together...she may surprise you.
Most Woman don't like to watch porn
 

mmouse

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I'm in a similar situation and have been on ashley madison for about 3 months now. Haven't met anyone even in the virtual sense of the word.
There are obviously about 20x more men to women. I had a female friend on there who told me she got 50 messages within an hour of adding her profile.
So unless you have something really exceptional to offer, and are willing to spend a lot of money on credits, I wouldn't get your hopes up.
Yahoo chat has been more fruitful for me. Last week I screwed a housewife who I met there.
 

james t kirk

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Try lavalife....

There are married women on there, and lots with boyfriends.

The married ones are looking for drama in their lives, the ones with boyfriends (there are lots) are looking to trade up.

So if you have lots of cash, yu may snag one of the gold diggers.

Oh, and it is my experience that women DO watch porn. My ex and I (we fought about everything but had a good sex life) would rent a porno or two, curl up naked, and diddle each other.

It was fun. I really only miss her in bed.
 

Salisbury_Steak

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Lavalife

Don't some sp's have profiles under the "intimate encounters" section ? Has anyone had success with lavalife ?

The story I heard is that they get the girls to instant meassge you so you'll buy more credits.
 

naive_kitten

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Hi there Milf Lover, I just have a question for you - does your wife have an orgasm when she has sex with you? Or did she ever have one? Maybe it is irrelevant to your situation, but from my experience I can tell you that I had a pretty low sex drive when I didn't orgasm - I kind of enjoyed it, but definitely didn't want to have it every day. Once a week was more than enough for me. When I finally took the time to discover my body and learned how to climax, I realized why sex is so important and so desirable for people. And since then, I just want it every day. I think you should talk to her.
 

Bone

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"Hi there Milf Lover, I just have a question for you - does your wife have an orgasm when she has sex with you? Or did she ever have one? Maybe it is irrelevant to your situation, but from my experience I can tell you that I had a pretty low sex drive when I didn't orgasm - I kind of enjoyed it, but definitely didn't want to have it every day. Once a week was more than enough for me. When I finally took the time to discover my body and learned how to climax, I realized why sex is so important and so desirable for people. And since then, I just want it every day. I think you should talk to her."


Naive kitten:
You are obviously still young. Orgasming has nothing to do with it at this point.
Wait until you've been in a relationship for 10+ years and have a couple of kids. Your sex drive will plummet into the longest, coldest winter of inactivity you have ever experienced.
Whenever I speak to another married man with a family about this, its always the exact same thing. The wife usually puts sex into hibernation when the "mothering" kicks-in.

Of course, all the 'mothers' on Oprah would tell you that its something their men should come to accept. I suppose then that they too should as easily accept his infidelity as he is following a natural hormonal action, just as they are.

Depressed about getting older yet?
;)
My $0.02

Bone.
 

naive_kitten

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Hi Bone, actually, when I gave my advice, I had in mind only the person who posted this thread and his situation in particular. He is a young guy and perhaps his wife is even younger and her not orgasming had a lot to do with her sex life, as it turned out.
 

starlet

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hmmm

I kinda like E and porn.. why hasn't anyone proposed to me yet?
:)
ohhh maybe its cuz of that.. lol
 

tboy

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Well, starlet, since you like e and porn let me propose........!!!










(that we drop some e and get it on in front of "dikes on bikes")
 
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