Are you embarrassed about seeing SP or MPA?

[hhdan]

I am not at all, I am open about it to my close group of friends and have even taken SP's to functions. Although when I was married I had kept my 'dirty little secret" to myself, or so I thought. The other day a group of the friends wives and gf's were out for a night on the town and my ex happened to be with them. One of the women told my ex about me frequenting SP'rs and MP's and said it with utter disdain (she isn't exactly my biggest fan). I am 49 divorced no kids and the ex and I split on good terms really, we just grew apart and lost our commonality. The funny thing about this is my ex says "so what!", "I knew he did when we were married, as long as he didn't brag about it and embarrass me at the time, who cares". Well of course this turned into quite a scene, or so I heard.
My buddy told me his wife was watching the entire thing, laughing her ass off as these women began arguing about the merits of extra marital activities and my ex finished it by saying to one or more of them "at least my ex wasn't having affairs like yours"...LMAO
I wonder, if I had just kept it my little secret and not told anyone, how would it be viewed if it was ever discovered.
Anyways, I am not embarrassed about it. The funny thing is, I probably went more often when i was married than now.

Cheers

 

[Mr_East]

It's an age old service that probably keeps some marriages together!

Why be embarrassed?

 

[S.C. Joe]

discovered.
Anyways, I am not embarrassed about it. The funny thing is, I probably went more often when i was married than now.

Cheers

Heck no, heck if men can be proud to date other men, what the hey, lol

But I'm not married, I would wounder more why I do if I was married. Hard to put yourself in other people's shoes but I really can't picture myself sneaking around behind my wifes back to get something I could get from her. I guess if she was employed and bring in good money, it be a good reason not to rock the boat, ha ha

 

[Celticman]

Heck no, heck if men can be proud to date other men, what the hey, lol

But I'm not married, I would wounder more why I do if I was married. Hard to put yourself in other people's shoes but I really can't picture myself sneaking around behind my wifes back to get something I could get from her. I guess if she was employed and bring in good money, it be a good reason not to rock the boat, ha ha

I am not connecting the dots for the analogy of men dating men to emabarrassment of seeing SPs.

I am also single so there is a lot less for me to think about in terms of escorting. Like S. C. Joe, I am not so sure that I would be seeing escorts if I was married, but who knows if the marriage was not good. Even being single, it did take me a long time to make the decision to see escorts. I was on terb for more than two years before I took the plunge but I am now really enjoying it. I cannot see any reason for sharing this activity with friends though. Secrets have a way of becoming common knowledge.

The only embarrasment that I have felt was for myself. It was for my one really bad experience with an escort. I drove away wondering how on earth I managed to end up in such a situation.

 

[FTWWTF]

My close friends know that I used to frequent both SPs, and MPs in the past. My SO knows about my past also. She thinks Ive stopped, but I still see a few here and there that she doesnt know about.

 

[kynorth]

My only embarassment was when I blew my load at an MP the other night and she said "oh, that not very much, you ok?" (picture a Korean accent)!

 

[legmann]

Embarassed? Nope!

 

[passsionplayer69]

Embarrassed? Not a chance. I started seeing SP'ers while I was married, because my wife wouldn't put out. Now there is no wife and I still see my providers.

 

[kaempferrand]

Not embarrassed at all. I would be embarrassed though being with a fat loud black skank. Or any loud fat skank for that matter. Wouldn't be caught dead with one in public let alone privately. Would rather whack myself off with sandpaper and crazy glue.

 

[freestuff]

You can't be embarrassed (or in trouble) if no one knows about your hobby.

 

[babemagnet]

I'd be more embarrassed if I wasn't seeing them. At least it means I'm quasi normal. I have told a female friend because I have known her a long time and shared some secrets with her. It came as a sort of an explanation because she hadn't seen me dating.

 

[S.C. Joe]

I'd be more embarrassed if I wasn't seeing them. At least it means I'm quasi normal. I have told a female friend because I have known her a long time and shared some secrets with her. It came as a sort of an explanation because she hadn't seen me dating.

These gals aren't too dumb, they know what is going on. They just might not know how often or un often

Hanging out at strip joints getting lap dances, hand jobs, these gals today know guys sometimes do shit like that and sometimes more.

If they aren't cool with it, oh well.

 

[rhuarc29]

I feel no shame or guilt at all...nothing associated with the stigma of this business. I enjoy it, I pay for it as any other kind of entertainment, and treat the service providers as I would treat other people in other lines of work.

That said, except for my brother (who also frequents SCs, SPs and MPs), my family is unaware of my hobby. I realize they would have different opinions from me and I respect that, even if I don't agree. Their opinions are important to me and I would not want my relationships with them tarnished because of a difference of opinion; so they remain ignorant.

 

[GPIDEAL]

The two worlds cannot collide.

It has nothing to do with embarrassment. It's how people may judge you (especially women). I keep it secret. Perhaps a very tight knit inner circle of friends might know a little, but that's it.

 

[Buick Mackane]

Yes, we're all so open about it.
We all talk about seeing escorts wherever we go - those kids playing road hockey gave me a high five when I told them about terb, the cashier at Metro told me her daughter is having a special this weekend, my boss asked me if Sweet Petite Jessica's ass is really as good as her pics. My mom tells me to wear clean underwear and be polite to the ladies, my sister says she's thinking of surprising her husband with a 3some with Alona M.

 

[d_jedi]

Embarrassed.. not really. But I know there are some people in my personal life who would absolutely not understand or approve, and so I tell no one.

 

[FatOne]

Yes, we're all so open about it.
We all talk about seeing escorts wherever we go - those kids playing road hockey gave me a high five when I told them about terb, the cashier at Metro told me her daughter is having a special this weekend, my boss asked me if Sweet Petite Jessica's ass is really as good as her pics. My mom tells me to wear clean underwear and be polite to the ladies, my sister says she's thinking of surprising her husband with a 3some with Alona M.

I don't tell random strangers about any aspect of my sex life. If that is your criteria, I have to assume you are embarrassed to be a heterosexual or whatever you are.

People know what I do, except for the surviving parental and I am pretty sure he has clued in, we just don't talk about it, see above sentence. I am not married or involved, nor am I a rapist, so if anyone has a problem with it, fuck them. If they are not part of the coitus solution, they are part of the problem, if the person is a hot female that is.

Bitter much that you can't be yourself. You should always be yourself. Unless you can be a unicorn, in which case, always be a unicorn.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I don't tell random strangers about any aspect of my sex life. If that is your criteria, I have to assume you are embarrassed to be a heterosexual or whatever you are.

People know what I do, except for the surviving parental and I am pretty sure he has clued in, we just don't talk about it, see above sentence. I am not married or involved, nor am I a rapist, so if anyone has a problem with it, fuck them. If they are not part of the coitus solution, they are part of the problem, if the person is a hot female that is.

Bitter much that you can't be yourself. You should always be yourself. Unless you can be a unicorn, in which case, always be a unicorn.

You sound like an outcast then.

I would bet the majority of Terbites would be discreet about their hobbying, even single guys.

That being said, I think even my mother has a sneaking suspicion.

 

[Buick Mackane]

When I went for breakfast this morning I asked the waitress if other customers talked about sex with escorts and she said it never happened. Then I asked if it bothered her if I had sex with escorts and she said she was too busy to talk and only wanted to know what I wanted to eat.
I thanked her for her candor, then ordered the 3 egg special, sunnyside up with bacon and rye bread toast and coffee.

 

[Celticman]

even single guys.

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