Are more Civie women becoming Sps?

[luvdog]

Kind of noticed that the LL listings are growing larger.
With the economy and inflation being the way it is, less people have money to spend.
Know many guys are not dating.
What do you think?

LD

 

[unassuming]

They don't call it the "world's oldest profession" for nothing!

 

[black booty lover]

I feel like it's going in the opposite direction.

Used to be if you posted on classified site saying your looking for "black booty girl looking to make a bit of extra money", you would get tons of responses.

Now you don't get anything, and the so called "growing list" you see on LL, is just a growing list of scammers.

 

[smart_alek]

Could be settling back to what it was before covid. Now with people out and about, the online engagement like only fans has peaked.

 

[superman12]

I dont know about them becoming sp's but i can tell you that there are many college and uni girls entering the sb world. Alot of them realize they dont need to date some guy for free anymore.

 

[New World]

I dont know about them becoming sp's but i can tell you that there are many college and uni girls entering the sb world. Alot of them realize they dont need to date some guy for free anymore.

Not just College and Uni girls. Ladies working in the "Service Industry" have monetized there time.. For example Waitresses, Hair Stylists etc..

 

[luvdog]

I feel like it's going in the opposite direction.

Used to be if you posted on classified site saying your looking for "black booty girl looking to make a bit of extra money", you would get tons of responses.

Now you don't get anything, and the so called "growing list" you see on LL, is just a growing list of scammers.

Yeah, I have noticed an uptick in Scammers as well.
Got to be more discerning.
LD

 

[luvdog]

There are other SP directories though.
Tryst and such.
LD

 

[Sinfulmarv]

I dont know about them becoming sp's but i can tell you that there are many college and uni girls entering the sb world. Alot of them realize they dont need to date some guy for free anymore.

I agree that sugaring has grown in popularity.

Even if society has become more liberal about sex, the reality is that few women in this world are comfortable being "open for business," if you will, whereby they are continuously meeting strange men for the first time once the door closes behind them. That is a scary proposition for a lot of women.

What makes sugaring appealing to a wider group is that they establish an "arrangement" with one or a few people. This is far more agreeable, safe and comfortable for women. But being able to a find a legitimate SD and good arrangement... is another story altogether.

 

[luvdog]

I agree that sugaring has grown in popularity.

That is a scary proposition for a lot of women.

What makes sugaring appealing to a wider group is that they establish an "arrangement" with one or a few people. This is far more agreeable, safe and comfortable for women. But being able to a find a legitimate SD and good arrangement... is another story altogether.

I don't think being a sugar daddy is safer. There are plenty of bad people in that pool too.
The difference is, you don't hear about them as much.
Sps are more vocal about it.
LD

 

[luvdog]

I dont know about them becoming sp's but i can tell you that there are many college and uni girls entering the sb world. Alot of them realize they dont need to date some guy for free anymore.

Yeah, that is how dating is now. It is becoming more openly "transactional".
That is a whole different thread.

LD

 

[Sinfulmarv]

I don't think being a sugar daddy is safer. There are plenty of bad people in that pool too.
The difference is, you don't hear about them as much.
Sps are more vocal about it.
LD

Sugaring can be very dangerous.

There are all kinds of SD/SB horror stories if you spend time in their communities. The average SB is far less vigilant than your typical escort.

If you can land a good arrangement, than it’s a lot safer than being an escort. The problem is finding an arrangement can be difficult.

 

[New World]

Yeah, that is how dating is now. It is becoming more openly "transactional".
That is a whole different thread.

LD

It seems Instagram has become a transactional dating tool.

 

[superman12]

I don't think being a sugar daddy is safer. There are plenty of bad people in that pool too.
The difference is, you don't hear about them as much.
Sps are more vocal about it.
LD

Very true. There are bad apples everywhere. Sp's have forums like these where they usually call out the bad apples unfortunately sb's dont really have amything like that i know of. Also i just think that sp's see a lot more men compared to a legit sb so there bound to come across more bad apples just based on the quantity of men they see.

 

[BloweyJoey]

Seeking has a lot more activity than before. LL still seems like it's down from prepandemic levels, and even that was still lower than the BP days.

 

[Darts]

Back in the day, I booked two young female university students moonlighting as escorts, who advertised on Red Zone (yes, red zone). Booking with the first one went smoothly. Booking with the second one was quite a challenge and went something like the following.

1) Me: I'm calling about your ad in Red Zone.
2) She: Oh darn, I forgot about deleting that ad. I moved back home for the Summer break and am sharing a room with my sister.

3) Me: Can we still make it work?
4) She: Can I come to you?

 

[Pleasure Hound]

I certainly hope so!

 

[Jenesis]

Where do you even advertise as a semi-pro?

I mean I get SB - they have sites, us escorts have directories, where does the semi-pro go to find clients/dates/whatever you call them

 

[New World]

Where do you even advertise as a semi-pro?

I mean I get SB - they have sites, us escorts have directories, where does the semi-pro go to find clients/dates/whatever you call them

Instagram

 

[Hands95]

It seems Instagram has become a transactional dating tool.

And Snapchat... and Kik... Everyone trying to get you to buy content or subscribe to a Premium Snapchat or directing you to their OnlyFans.