Approaching 500 woman in 1 year

[jrich54338]

I have always wanted to keep a journal like this my plan is to approach 500 woman in 1 years time. Rules will need to be in place I need to at least ask if they are single or attempt to get a number or social media info. You never know who has a boyfriend or husband now wont a few months from approach.

A little about myself. I am an average looking guy/ introvert/ with a good personality. I stay in great shape and hit 40 this July yes I am a Cancer. I have had fun times with some 10's in my day. The thing is the sex with no emotion is getting old. I can have it tonight but I just dont want it. Tinder and Bumble are a joke. I want to see what I want in the field and go after it.

Always in life my goal has been to help others so hopefully someone who reads this will gain steam and approach.

1. First approach was last night in the gym. I usually never shit where I eat but I said f it. I walk up to her she is checking herself out in the mirror and I said ARE YOU DONE LOOKING AT YOURSELF? Then I immediately say YOU AGGRIVATE ME BECAUSE YOUR MORE RIPPED THEN ME and TWO YOUR STRONGER THEN ME. She wanted to keep talking at the end I said THANKS FOR PISSING ME OFF. Walked away. Walked back up to her shoved my phone in her face and said LOOK YOURSELF UP. She was a solid 8 very sexy but had a boyfriend.

 

[anonemouse]

Walked away. Walked back up to her shoved my phone in her face and said LOOK YOURSELF UP. She was a solid 8 very sexy but had a boyfriend.

Or she thought you were a jackass and made up an excuse. I'm going with the latter.

 

[jrich54338]

Or she thought you were a jackass and made up an excuse. I'm going with the latter.

She looked herself up and requested me her profile pic is of her and the boyfriend. Dont really care what she thought of me we are all going to be worm food soon lifes too short cheers brother.

 

[squeezer]

Picking up civvies is the law of averages. You have to strike out many times to find the one that will bang you.

 

[Imdrunk]

She looked herself up and requested me her profile pic is of her and the boyfriend. Dont really care what she thought of me we are all going to be worm food soon lifes too short cheers brother.

Except it may lead to awkward situations at the gym for her if you see her again. Better to do it where you'll probably never see her again. Women give subtle hints they're interested. You also need to factor in what affect continual rejection might have on you. Easy to say you can brush it off but can you if it happens?

I find grocery stores is where women tend to have their guard down. Bars and gyms is where they are least approachable imo.

 

[downbound123]

Two guys are walking down the street and one of them asks a good looking girl they pass by if she wants to have sex...She slaps his face and tells him to fuck off. His buddy says "you do that all the time?" He says "Yes" Buddy says "you must get slapped a lot". He says "Yes but occasionally I get fucked"

 

[Spunky1]

That’s why a lot of girls I know hate or don’t go the gym .

 

[Imdrunk]

It's only sexual harrassment if she's not attracted to you.

 

[SexB]

Big "incel" energy in this thread.

 

[bestman007]

It's only sexual harrassment if she's not attracted to you.

Or if she figured out you wanted her just for the f*ck the next day and is remorseful for being such an easy lay. I have had more than one woman suggest that she was taken advantage of after the fact because I had no interest in something meaningful with her.

One gal actually broke my folks glass front door because she thought I lived there and could hear voices inside despite no one opening the front door. It was an embarrassing ordeal for me to say the least. My folks called the cops and she told the cop that she was desperate as she was assaulted by me.

I showed up right away at my folks house and showed the cop my texts to her. I had a bunch of texts from her with hearts and gay emojis. It was clear that I wasn't feeling her as I did not respond to most texts and the last few texts called me derogatory names. Yet nothing about assault of any sort- just being an asshole and she ''copped' to feeling like a victim because I led her on.

My folks didn't press charges yet they made me pay for the damages. They are old school and my pops gave me a telling off for my life decisions and sleeping with 'cheap women'. Fortunately, my folks have no idea that I pay for play frequently too!

 

[Green11]

Did you guys try dating apps recently?

 

[massman]

“You’re”

 

[Goodoer]

I'm giving credit to the OP's mission. Not a bad idea.

As I get older (and after COVID), I wonder how I'd do in approaching and successfully picking up ladies. Visiting SPs take that energy away from you...

I'm not sure Tinder or whatever would give me that thrill either... I have a friend who just got divorced; he's having no problems fucking middle-aged mothers right now. He calls it Dial-A-Fuck. He's not a 10 by any stretch of the imagination.

 

[anonemouse]

Two guys are walking down the street and one of them asks a good looking girl they pass by if she wants to have sex...She slaps his face and tells him to fuck off. His buddy says "you do that all the time?" He says "Yes" Buddy says "you must get slapped a lot". He says "Yes but occasionally I get fucked"

"Fuck me if I'm wrong, but is your name Gretchen?"

It's going to work eventually!

But seriously OP has some major incel vibes and I'm willing to bet that it comes across in the women he approaches.

 

[op12]

IMHO cold approaches are the wrong way to go about it. You should join as many clubs as you can, book clubs, camera clubs, hiking clubs, etc.

Build a big social network and ask women out once they have had a chance to scope you out.

 

[Massivo]

I don't understand why people are getting an incel vibe from the op...The approach is a standard cocky and funny routine...Of course it's all about the delivery...Are people on this board actually familiar with pickup theory? Okay, never mind...given the nature/subject matter of the board I think I've just answered my own question...

 

[MuffDiver]

If insulting or embarrassing women is your technique, I predict you get maced or throat punched long before you get to 500.

 

[anonemouse]

I don't understand why people are getting an incel vibe from the op...The approach is a standard cocky and funny routine...Of course it's all about the delivery...Are people on this board actually familiar with pickup theory? Okay, never mind...given the nature/subject matter of the board I think I've just answered my own question...

Pickup theory (or PUA - Pick Up Artists) also seem like incels tbh. They have this expectation like they're owed something, and usually have a great deal of unearned confidence that just end up making them look like the terrible people they are.

 

[IM469]

I have always wanted to keep a journal like this my plan is to approach 500 woman in 1 years time.
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I walk up to her she is checking herself out in the mirror and I said ARE YOU DONE LOOKING AT YOURSELF?

So what is it you would like to end up with at the end of this exercise - a journal of 500 women that you pissed off or a real girlfriend ?

I will take a bit of leap in logic and assume that this is not the target of man who currently has a girlfriend. If I assume that this is a new tactic to obtain a girlfriend, might I suggest a modification ? Focus on the rate that you meet women (~ 8/week) because at this rate of new friends, you could meet a perfect girl at 176 but ignore her to meet your 500 name journal that at the end of the day - is a journal of frustration.

I am not an expert but I have never had a problem introducing myself to women. From my vantage point " ARE YOU DONE LOOKING AT YOURSELF ?" is about the dumbest, rude opening line I have ever heard. Maybe the females will chip in with a deeper insight but I think "hello" is highly underrated. Follow with a harmless question or comment that doesn't relate to sex. Start with a non-threatening dialog instead of a magic one liner that effectively points at your dick and asks if she wants it.

I hope I don't dissuade from setting a pace to meet women - just realize that there are a lot of women looking for boyfriends (not Don Juan).

 

[SexB]

Pickup theory (or PUA - Pick Up Artists) also seem like incels tbh. They have this expectation like they're owed something, and usually have a great deal of unearned confidence that just end up making them look like the terrible people they are.

PuA's and red pillers are "incels" who are lying about how much sex they're having.