Anyone ever try a speed dating service ????

Big Rig

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I believe people meet at a coffee shop.

At the organizers command couples talk one on one for a few minutes then move along to the next victim

When it is over you tell the organizer which women you went to meet and if the woman agrees the organizer will send you a telephone number


Here is one

25dates.com
 

afterhours

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I never have, since among other reasons they keep the age difference at about 5-10 years, while I am looking for 15+.

But I have been to similar events and mark my words: the recipe for success is going to be simple. Don't be picky and you shall succeed.
 

tribunus

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Tried it twice last year with the same 25dates company. First time I went alone and felt like a loser. Second time was a freebie (if you didn't choose anyone the first time around), and I got my cousin to tag along. She's very attractive and was quite popular that night. Anyway, I enjoyed this one much more because you know what to expect and say in these awkward 3 minute windows to gauge someone.

Things to keep in mind...Like Afterhours said, lower your expectations and don't be picky. 80% of the girls are what most of us would deem "average" or "below average" in appearance. And yes, a lot of them are larger ladies. But most of them were genuine and very nice. Conversely, there were some major hotties there who would have no problems finding dates. I suspect some of them were there to accompany their less fortunate friends, or just to mind-fuck the dudes that attend these things. It's funny to watch all the guys ignoring or rushing through their "dates" with the less attractive girls to get to the hot one, and then trip all over themselves trying to make an impression.

Another thing I found interesting was that a large proportion of the girls came from 2 professions: teaching and nursing. Practically all of them said their professions were not conducive to dating hence this method of trying to meet people.

But all in all, I enjoyed myself. I took it for what it was - a social activity, and not necessarily a vehicle to find a meaningful relationship.
 

Cinema Face

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I tried it once and I had a fun evening. I met some ladies but I noticed that many of them are too busy with their careers to meet guys so that's why they come there.

Go with the intention of having fun and don't be concerned too much about the results and you will probably have some success.
 

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That is why I never would want to go .... for all those reasons:
1) meeting people who have no time to date. It will be an excuse to break it off when the relationship requires some effort.
2) If I just want something fun to do I shall go do something fun & meet people who also like doing the same thing: bowling, darts, billiards, skating, fishing, WHATEVER. So persure the activities you like to do .... or find some.
3) mostly plain or fat ladies.
4) The good looking girls , if they are taking it seriously .... & as stated previously they may not be, are looking for hot guys that are TALL. Just like in bars & clubs it is so obvious that they brush off the short guys.
 

james t kirk

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Another thing I found interesting was that a large proportion of the girls came from 2 professions: teaching and nursing. .
Go for the nurses. I've slept with several teachers over the years and they are all duds in the sack. Conversely, I've slept with several nurses and they are complete sluts (I use this word in a good way) in the sack. The nurses I have known were all extremely sexually driven with few restrictions. The teachers - well, they give it the college try, but fall very short.

I'm generalizing of course, but we all do it.
 

afterhours

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Go for the nurses. I've slept with several teachers over the years and they are all duds in the sack. Conversely, I've slept with several nurses and they are complete sluts (I use this word in a good way) in the sack. The nurses I have known were all extremely sexually driven with few restrictions. The teachers - well, they give it the college try, but fall very short.

I'm generalizing of course, but we all do it.
that's strange, my teachers were just as slutty as my nurses, and I had my fair share of both.
 

MarkII

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At may age I'd use up all my time just getting to the next table....
 

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Dude, you dont need to pay to talk to chicks. Just go to your local coffee shop start conversation with any single girls sitting there, about weather, whatever particular jewlery she is wearing, and what she is up to for the day... if you are friendly and descent looking, it will last way more than 3 minutes and possible get a date or a phone number. speed dating is such a scam. they are for guys with too shy to start conversation with girls in everyday situation.
 
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