Any SPs that are okay with well endowed?
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I am bigger than normal and I’ve very rarely had problems, so what size are we talking here?
I’m used to medium pray I don’t get a 17 inch tonight
I talked too much shitI personally don't think it is that big. 7" long and 6" girth (tape wrapped around) lol. I either get a no/pass after a picture is requested or no response.
I've only ever seen one SP and I forgot to ask because it was my first time but she definitely did not enjoy it. That was about 2 nearly 3 years ago
Why do you feel obligated to ask in advance? Sure, it's bigger than average but it's definitely not mammoth where a provider would flee the room in fear. Just show up to your provider of choice and get busy.
Same size as me, but not sure about the girth.
It really shouldn’t be an issue the vast majority of the time.
It is the girth that is an issue. That would hurt with FS as it would most likely stretch the SP. And for BBBJ, I know I would barely be able to wrap my mouth around it.
That is about as thick as my wrist. I can see why ladies are turning down that size.
That is about as thick as my wrist. I can see why ladies are turning down that size.
If you see some of the toys that most girls keep in their drawers, you would be humbled. Now is it something that they want to deal with while on the clock with possible upcoming appointments, asking is the gentleman thing to do.
The unfortunate truth. The tip is sadly larger than that girth, and longer than most
the first time I had a Kelseys bacon and cheese double burger back in the day I wasnt able to fit all of it in my mouth.
But as the night went on, kinda got used to it.
That doesnt sound overly big or well endowed. Its bigger than average but not out of a normal range. They might be rejecting you for sending dick pics. That would be a "time wasters" red flag for me. There are certain things people who never book do and sending dick pics and selfies is generally pretty high up there in the "time waster" category for me.
They either want to talk to death about the session or their penis and never actually book.
Well endowed men just show up. They dont ask permission and theyre honestly mostly respectful. Just use lots of lube and dont do the same jackhammer move for an hour and you're fine.
I've seen well endowed men with dicks bigger than an actual vagina. Those guys are a real problem. Those guys get rejected. Those guys have to be VERY careful.
Slightly above average and slightly below average and everything in between is just a regular day.
They either want to talk to death about the session or their penis and never actually book.
Well endowed men just show up. They dont ask permission and theyre honestly mostly respectful. Just use lots of lube and dont do the same jackhammer move for an hour and you're fine.
I've seen well endowed men with dicks bigger than an actual vagina. Those guys are a real problem. Those guys get rejected. Those guys have to be VERY careful.
Slightly above average and slightly below average and everything in between is just a regular day.
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I've only ever sent pictures as requested. I mentioned that.
So far it is the well known SPs that have rejected me. It wouldn't feel right to just show up if I was going to be rejected to begin with though. Idk that's just me. I only started asking recently but I've only seen one SP years ago. Nowadays my work schedule is horrific and never have time for anything.
Should I just stop asking?
EDIT: For context, the tip is the size of a pop can rim
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Dating has never worked for me. I'm in my 30s and gave up years ago. Online dating etc is horrible
I have ran into this issue, and have some clients with quite a girth on them, which is ok our vaginas are very versatile . the problem for me is some of them like to pound hard and take a long time to finish and a that becomes very painful .I have had to cancel appointments on account of being sore .. I think possibly in my case to open communication with my client about the size , will be helpful. The length doesn't seem to be an issue .
I think it would help to know what you want and what you can legitimately expect.
For example, with proper lube and foreplay, penetrating should be ok if you take it slow instead of pound away like Heather said.
However if you want a BBBJ, that may be out of the realm of possibility. Tongue play on the tip, sure but fitting that type of girth in a mouth will be difficult to find.
Alternatively, a really good sensual hand job with other forms of foreplay could turn out to be a really good session.
Without knowing what exactly you are looking for, it would be hard for anyone to give you a recommendation to someone.
I do agree that politely explaining or expressing your concern over size before hand and asking if they want a pic to see what you are talking about is a good idea. You just have to be delicate and respectful on how you ask.
For example, with proper lube and foreplay, penetrating should be ok if you take it slow instead of pound away like Heather said.
However if you want a BBBJ, that may be out of the realm of possibility. Tongue play on the tip, sure but fitting that type of girth in a mouth will be difficult to find.
Alternatively, a really good sensual hand job with other forms of foreplay could turn out to be a really good session.
Without knowing what exactly you are looking for, it would be hard for anyone to give you a recommendation to someone.
I do agree that politely explaining or expressing your concern over size before hand and asking if they want a pic to see what you are talking about is a good idea. You just have to be delicate and respectful on how you ask.
Vajayjays are resilient
Once I was with a lady and after the 1st round we were just talking in general and the subject of "fisting" came up..shetold me she'd had it done to her and I just jokingly said ..the guy had small hands right?..she said no and said about my hand size...I said that's impressive and 1 thing led to another and soon my hand was as completely inside her..( copious amounts of lube was used)...when I pulled out her Vajayjay closed up and round 2 was just as snug as round 1..
Patience is the key
Once I was with a lady and after the 1st round we were just talking in general and the subject of "fisting" came up..shetold me she'd had it done to her and I just jokingly said ..the guy had small hands right?..she said no and said about my hand size...I said that's impressive and 1 thing led to another and soon my hand was as completely inside her..( copious amounts of lube was used)...when I pulled out her Vajayjay closed up and round 2 was just as snug as round 1..
Patience is the key
Thumper you are correct, as I recall , your fist isnt the only thing that is huge ..... and god I love the word VAJAYJAY !!!!!
