Anouncing my retirement

[pug2775]

Retirement Notice
It is with trepidation and regret that I now announce my retirement from the community. I find the steady downward trend of lowered service provision and quality to be the primary factor leading to this announcement.

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I decided that it was time for a naughty weekend, so I called my normal SP and got a "highly recommended" standard for "Gloria" a Swedish/Native Canadian combination woman in her late thirties, she was described as 5'7 110lbs.

I had never seen Gloria before but he recommendation was enough to go all out on this;
good hotel room
Belgian Chocolates,
Scented Candles (strawberry)
Incents (Strawberry)
Amaretto cookies hand dipped in dark chocolate
Flowers (daisies and tulips)
with my 4 hour appointment I had everything set, mood light room, freshly showered and shaved, with the right amount of Alfred sung calogne.

Gloria arrived on time, and I proceeded to take her coat for her, she proceeded to settle the business end and count out the money out loud..... twice.

She liked the atmosphere I had created and we sat on the couch after me but on the opposite end, and we talked.... then talked.... and talked some more. She told me a bit more about her past than I wanted to know but hell I can take it. At some times the conversation seemed a little forced with small talk. She is quite beautiful, with a nice smile, the right amount of make-up (minimal) and dressed elegantly, but no traces of the Swedish or 110lbs were evident.

I sat at one end of the couch and her at the other, a couple of times I reached across and caressed her arm and shoulder, but she made no indication of moving closer or reciprocating my advances. After about an hour of talking I told her I thought she was really pretty and she replied "Do you mind if I make coffee". I got up an helped her make coffee also caressed her back but she did not seemingly respond eagerly to this, she just pulled up a chair and sat down. We talked while the coffee brewed and after I poured her a cup we returned to our respective ends of the couch.

We talked and she sipped coffee, ate cookies and talked about flowers, her divorce, her time spent as a cleaning lady to an east Indian couple, I told her she had a pretty smile (true) and I really wanted to kiss her, she smiled thanked me and told me she needed another cup of coffee. Getting it and returning to her end of the couch.

After her second cup she invited me to get more comfortable on the bed. The candles were burning spreading their sweet strawberry scent throughout the room, and throwing soft glowing shadows on the walls. Gloria went to the bathroom (leaving the door open) and then joined me. We kissed and cuddled and caressed, then she got up to take off her dress. We kissed and cuddled and caressed, then she got up to take off her stockings and garter. We kissed and cuddled and caressed, then she got up to take off her bra and panties (well worn and faded). We kissed and cuddled and caressed, then she got up to turn on the television for music ( the classical music on the radio was apparently not sufficient). We kissed and cuddled and caressed, then she got up to turn off a light I had on and turn on another closer to us.

I noticed Gloria has a tendency to screw her eyes shut and thrust her head to the side, I wonder if this was to make me feel appreciated, wanted, or mentally calculating her commission for the evening. CBJ too much teeth and rough, had to remind her a couple of times that I don't like rough and fast. Cowgirl good, CBJ and more reminding, finally HJ. She jumped up and went into the bathroom to clean up while I lay there finishing what I was doing then she returned, got dressed and returned to the couch for the last hour of the appointment.

When she was getting ready to go, she told me she had fun (good one of us did) and she looked forward to our next meeting.

In the girls defense, I am a big man, and not in the way that would intimidate you in the shower, so she may be out of her element or inexperienced with someone like me.

L=7,A=5,S=2, repeat? no.
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Over the years, I have had many wonderful and memorable experiences in Thunder Bay, but they seem to all but gone. A very good friend told me once in Boston Pizza, if I was not getting service in here I would just walk out. So that is why I am retiring from the hobby.
I do not make this decision lightly, and it is not based solely on this one incident, but rather a group of incidents that is showing a downward trend from service provision, to upselling and money focus, in short, how much can I get for how little work.
Some day a SP might just arrive, be beautiful, witty, kind, gentle, generous, offer GFE/PSE and capable of dealing with a man who treats them well, without making me feel like a freak.

PM me if you are interested in inciting me out of retirement.

 

[lego]

That is an inconceivably bad date. I can't believe someone would treat you like this when you had booked FOUR HOURS! On the other hand, I have to say it seems inconceivable to me that you would book four hours with someone you didn't know that much about.

Dude, you got ripped, terribly. But that itself is no reason to retire. Why don't you fly down to Toronto and meet one of the well-reviewed ladies on this list who surely will treat you properly?

lego, who would have kicked her out the door.

 

[pug2775]

That is an inconceivably bad date. I can't believe someone would treat you like this when you had booked FOUR HOURS! On the other hand, I have to say it seems inconceivable to me that you would book four hours with someone you didn't know that much about.

Well it was booked on the premis of the recomondation from the SP that I have had a multi-year business relationship with. I trusted the SP but that is in doubt since my complaint to them has not garneded a reply or resolution.

If the SP is unwilling to resolve the issue or make restitution then I guess it is time for me to go on, as for flying to TO that would be nice but impracticle on a regular basis.

 

[corena]

Well it was booked on the premis of the recomondation from the SP that I have had a multi-year business relationship with. I trusted the SP but that is in doubt since my complaint to them has not garneded a reply or resolution.

If the SP is unwilling to resolve the issue or make restitution then I guess it is time for me to go on, as for flying to TO that would be nice but impracticle on a regular basis.

Let me get this straight...you are leaving a long liked SP because she won't give you a freebie because you and her recommendation didn't click?

mmmm, I'd tell you not to let the door hit you in the ass on the way out. She is in no way responsible for someone else's action. And if these are the only 2 in town( why else would you be leaving the whole industry) I'm quite certain that they ain't gonna go broke cause you are leaving.

Take it like a man, and move on and next time you are seeing someone for the first time ever may I suggest you keep the booking to an hour with the potential to make it longer.

 

[pug2775]

Let me get this straight...you are leaving a long liked SP because she won't give you a freebie because you and her recommendation didn't click?

mmmm, I'd tell you not to let the door hit you in the ass on the way out. She is in no way responsible for someone else's action.

This girl was a representative of her agency, and it was not a single incident as I said

I do not make this decision lightly, and it is not based solely on this one incident, but rather a group of incidents that is showing a downward trend from service provision, to upselling and money focus, in short, how much can I get for how little work.

As the poll above is indicationg I might not be alone in this feeling of a general wortening of service.

Besides if you had a client with a multi-year business relationship with complain to you, would you not want to discuss it, or make some kind of action to keep the relationship going?

Your a business person, is not repeat customers the idea behind customer service?

 

[corena]

This girl was a representative of her agency, and it was not a single incident as I said

I do not make this decision lightly, and it is not based solely on this one incident, but rather a group of incidents that is showing a downward trend from service provision, to upselling and money focus, in short, how much can I get for how little work.

As the poll above is indicationg I might not be alone in this feeling of a general wortening of service.

Besides if you had a client with a multi-year business relationship with complain to you, would you not want to discuss it, or make some kind of action to keep the relationship going?

Your a business person, is not repeat customers the idea behind customer service?

If your "normal SP" is starting to show a downward trend in her level of service find someone new. Don't book for 4 hours with someone you have never met. Find someone who you like THEN start going for the multi-hour session. It'll save you alot of grief.

If the options are not that varied, and there is no-one else there I am sorry, but my initial reaction is even moreso in effect, and regardless of the opinion of a few guys these girls are being worked off their feet, and unless there is a sudden influx of competition for them, there is not alot any of you can do to affect how much they are making.

If you were my client, and I recommended someone who turned out to be horrible experience for you, I would feel bad, and perhaps, if you were worth it to me financially or sexually, I would try to get her to refund some of your money. If she refused I would feel bad, but would be downright offended if you expected me to take the loss for someone else's bad call.

 

[pug2775]

my error

I think my earlier term of SP was in error, this is an agency and the girl is their representative.

 

[corena]

I think my earlier term of SP was in error, this is an agency and the girl is their representative.

OK...well, in that case than forget everything I said. Yes, the agency SHOULD do something, maybe not make up the whole of it...but some sort of apology, and a partial reinbursement would make for good customer relations.

However, I still stand by my earlier warning of not booking multiple hours with someone you've never met. It's unfair to both you and the girl to throw you together for an extended period without KNOWING that you and she get along and find each other attractive on some level, be it beauty, brawn or brains.

 

[pug2775]

OK...well, in that case than forget everything I said. Yes, the agency SHOULD do something, maybe not make up the whole of it...but some sort of apology, and a partial reinbursement would make for good customer relations.

I agree completly, but I will not forget everything you said

I wasn't always a bitch, Men like you made me this way.

for that I appoligize