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An interesting perspective from a trafficked girl

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Interesting video and its really done the rounds. Over 866K views in less than a month. I get the impression that part of this lady's therapy in self healing is to do videos like this. I can say this as someone who has seen more than my fair share of sex workers, if I think for a second any lady I am seeing is trafficked or not doing this of their own free will, I'm out. At some point we have to put our needs aside if we think that its going to hurt someone else more than the gratification we achieve. How do we know if that's the case I'm not sure I can answer other than to say trust your instincts.
 

Mr Deeds

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Interesting video and its really done the rounds. Over 866K views in less than a month. I get the impression that part of this lady's therapy in self healing is to do videos like this. I can say this as someone who has seen more than my fair share of sex workers, if I think for a second any lady I am seeing is trafficked or not doing this of their own free will, I'm out. At some point we have to put our needs aside if we think that its going to hurt someone else more than the gratification we achieve. How do we know if that's the case I'm not sure I can answer other than to say trust your instincts.
Interesting because last year I asked the question " would you see a girl if you knew she was being trafficked. Or something like that. The thread died out with very few responses, which means to me most don't care and don't want to admit it
 

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Aren't the majority of the women in this type of work being trafficked. How can her customers not know or even think about it.
No. That's kind of what they want you to believe, but it's not true for everyone. I know more girls that are Indy than girls that aren't.

I could personally never be a man's bread and butter. I need a real man that brings money too. I know I am not the only one.

I personally hates pimp. Viscerally.
 
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Unaware or didn't care?
Most guys won't know. With the exception if she looks too young, scared or acting indifferent like they're zombies then some might ask if she's ok, otherwise most won't know if she's being trafficked. Sometimes even agency owners - I've known a few - if they have a popular but very new & naive SP working for them will push them to endless calls in a day...a form of trafficking because it puts more money in their pocket.

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My issue with SP tourism is mostly this, I feel in other countries it's even harder to tell, and the extremely low prices too are so sketchy. I would feel ashamed to have any sort of involvement in that.
 

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No. That's kind of what they want you to believe, but it's not true for everyone. I know more girls that are Indy than girls that aren't.

I could personally never be a man's bread and butter. I need a real man that brings money too. I know I am not the only one.

I personally hates pimp. Viscerally.
What about MPs?
 

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What about MPs?
Some are some are not. I think your perception of the industry change depending on who you hang with. I personally worked as a MA, agency and indy and if you put aside the "travelling" fake picture parlor, no. Not from my personal experience.

This is a very touching video tho.
 
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Some are some are not. I think your perception of the industry change depending on who you hang with. I personally worked as a MA, agency and indy and if you put aside the "travelling" fake picture parlor, no. Not from my personal experience.

This is a very touching video tho.
The thing with the spas is there are out in the open.
 

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Interesting because last year I asked the question " would you see a girl if you knew she was being trafficked. Or something like that. The thread died out with very few responses, which means to me most don't care and don't want to admit it
I don’t think that’s what it means. I think it means that it’s obvious that people are not going to admit to that shit in public forum and 95% of them probably wouldn’t do it anyway Some wouldn’t do it out of the goodness of their hearts, and some wouldn’t do it because it can cause very serious legal consequences.
 
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At some point we have to put our needs aside if we think that its going to hurt someone else more than the gratification we achieve. How do we know if that's the case I'm not sure I can answer other than to say trust your instincts.
As customers we can't truly know. We can try to keep our eyes and ears open, be reasonably educated, and like you said, use our instincts. Also like you said, we can try to actively avoid participating in anything harmful. Beyond that we can try to be generally decent human beings, in so far as a situation allows. That's about all anyone can do.
 
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My issue with SP tourism is mostly this, I feel in other countries it's even harder to tell, and the extremely low prices too are so sketchy. I would feel ashamed to have any sort of involvement in that.
Well, the extremely low pricing is based on our expectations here in North America. That might be a very nice rate over there, as a lot of things are cheaper there, including food and housing.
 

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I don’t think that’s what it means. I think it means that it’s obvious that people are not going to admit to that shit in public forum and 95% of them probably wouldn’t do it anyway Some wouldn’t do it out of the goodness of their hearts, and some wouldn’t do it because it can cause very serious legal consequences.
I going to say the vast majority of girls working out there are being trafficked weather they call them pimps or boyfriend or managers.
( not including agencies) This is especially true with the younger sps. The clients would rather stay ignorant than ask questions. Just another example of men thinking with their dicks
 
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