Affair with Co-Worker?

[Fugly]

Have any of you (married or unmarried) ever had a sexual relationship with a coworker? I know it’s generally frowned upon…having said that, …it happens…..often.
I’ve never gone down that road but I’m pretty sure if the opportunity ever arose I could he convinced into it!
I’m in a management position in a male dominated industry. There are a few girls who report to me. Any shenanigans with an employee who reports to me would almost surely cost me my job if it became known. Still, the thought intrigues me.

 

[hockeyguy19]

That's how I met my current wife. Began as an office affair, pretty hot, then just happened that we clicked and been married 19 years now.

I know that these things usually end badly but this one worked out.

 

[HotDogWater]

Have any of you (married or unmarried) ever had a sexual relationship with a coworker? I know it’s generally frowned upon…having said that, …it happens…..often.
I’ve never gone down that road but I’m pretty sure if the opportunity ever arose I could he convinced into it!
I’m in a management position in a male dominated industry. There are a few girls who report to me. Any shenanigans with an employee who reports to me would almost surely cost me my job if it became known. Still, the thought intrigues me.

Don't shit where you eat.

 

[jsanchez]

That's how I met my current wife. Began as an office affair, pretty hot, then just happened that we clicked and been married 19 years now.

I know that these things usually end badly but this one worked out.

When it works out it'll end up in marriage, and when it doesn't you likely lose your job.

 

[Soccersweeper]

Just say no. If you must have an affair, anywhere but inside your company.

 

[hockeyguy19]

When it works out it'll end up in marriage, and when it doesn't you likely lose your job.

Very true. I was really lucky that this did work out. She's super hot and we hobby together so it's like I won the lottery.

 

[Knuckle Ball]

This:

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[richaceg]

You gotta tell yourself..."is the juice worth the squeeze?"
No amount of pussy is worth losing my job for...My pay is decent and the perks are great...there are way better pussy than what's in your office....$200 / hh.

 

[johnd5050]

Very true. I was really lucky that this did work out. She's super hot and we hobby together so it's like I won the lottery.

The odds of this happening in today's environment is ZERO.
Glad it worked out for you.

 

[johnd5050]

Have any of you (married or unmarried) ever had a sexual relationship with a coworker? I know it’s generally frowned upon…having said that, …it happens…..often.
I’ve never gone down that road but I’m pretty sure if the opportunity ever arose I could he convinced into it!
I’m in a management position in a male dominated industry. There are a few girls who report to me. Any shenanigans with an employee who reports to me would almost surely cost me my job if it became known. Still, the thought intrigues me.

If messing around in the office will cost your job, why do you ask ?
After work, get your Popsicle sucked for a small fee and go home.
You will have your job the next day.

 

[jsanchez]

Very true. I was really lucky that this did work out. She's super hot and we hobby together so it's like I won the lottery.

Seen the case where it did not work out (one of our managers at work...)
Glad it worked out for you, kinda like russian roulette job wise.

 

[chrispalen]

Seen the case where it did not work out (one of our managers at work...)
Glad it worked out for you, kinda like russian roulette job wise.

It is Bill Gate's specialty.

CP

 

[Sonic Temple]

That's how I met my current wife. Began as an office affair, pretty hot, then just happened that we clicked and been married 19 years now.

I know that these things usually end badly but this one worked out.

Congrats mate - nice to hear.

Don't shit where you eat.

Good advice.

 

[hockeyguy19]

Seen the case where it did not work out (one of our managers at work...)
Glad it worked out for you, kinda like russian roulette job wise.

At the time, around 2000/2001, there was obviously no 'me too' movement or anything and the company I worked for at the time was far from any corporate type environment. It was an Italian-owned construction company where that kind of macho behaviour was not only condoned but encouraged. From the first day that my now-wife began working there she was subjected to all kinds of leering, sexual remarks, etc. Not just from fellow employees but from the owner himself who actually tried to grab her ass a few times.

Thankfully she was repulsed from all that and somehow set her sights on me and asked me out for a coffee one day after work. An hour later, we were banging each others brains out in some cheap motel room. I was 30 and she was 22 and an absolute smoke show.

We continued to work together for a few more years, even after we got married and up until she had our first kid.

Fast forward to now and our kids are away at school and we are enjoying our lives like never before. We hobby together about once a month with an SP who is couple friendly and have recently gotten into kink and BDSM as a hobby of sort. I could not be happier at this moment and, like I said before, I won the lottery here for sure.

The best thing about hobbying with my wife, aside from the obvious, is I never need to hide anything. Hell, when I email an SP about setting up a time to meet, I actually cc my wife. Sounds crazy but it's awesome.

 

[_Melissa]

Have any of you (married or unmarried) ever had a sexual relationship with a coworker? I know it’s generally frowned upon…having said that, …it happens…..often.
I’ve never gone down that road but I’m pretty sure if the opportunity ever arose I could he convinced into it!
I’m in a management position in a male dominated industry. There are a few girls who report to me. Any shenanigans with an employee who reports to me would almost surely cost me my job if it became known. Still, the thought intrigues me.

YES! Actually when I was in college I fucked my boss in his office after about a year of flirting with him. It took him a while to catch on but he started flirting back and before I knew it he had me bent over his desk on my lunch break. After that I saw him a couple times at a hotel where he confessed that he was married. Sex with him was so much fun at first because of all the taboos attached to it and especially since we had to pretend like we weren’t hot for each other every day at work.

Sadly he eventually started to become very obsessive about seeing me ALL the time! So I had to cut it off with him and shortly after that I quit my job when it got awkward around him. Then I entered the adult industry as a massage attendant at a spa right beside the hotel we used to fuck in!

 

[curr3n_c1000]

I try not to, but sometimes females give you that signal you can't ignore

Always single women though. I'm not stupid.

 

[Jenesis]

When it works out it'll end up in marriage, and when it doesn't you likely lose your job.

So which one is worse? LOL

 

[Fugly]

YES! Actually when I was in college I used to work at Winners and I fucked my boss in his office after about a year of flirting with him. It took him a while to catch on but he started flirting back and before I knew it he had me bent over his desk on my lunch break. After that I saw him a couple times at a hotel where he confessed that he was married. Sex with him was so much fun at first because of all the taboos attached to it and especially since we had to pretend like we weren’t hot for each other every day at work.

Sadly he eventually started to become very obsessive about seeing me ALL the time! So I had to cut it off with him and shortly after that I quit my job at winners when it got awkward around him. Then I entered the adult industry as a massage attendant at a spa right beside the hotel we used to fuck in!

Yup…This gave me a boner.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I got a job in a factory somewhere in North Toronto. Can't even remember. It was the 70's and I was drinking. Anyway. First day I was sitting in the lunch room and this chick came in wearing clinging clothings and sporting nice tits. I glanced and spasmed. The guy sitting across from me was a burly bad ass with a nice sense of humor. He said " sweat ya bastard" I liked him right away. The boss, who was sitting with us said, "if you want to get involved with someone here nobody cares. Help yourself" It was the70's.
I work in a situation where women outnumber men about 100 to 1. For 11 years. Can't get a sniff. So I got older or things changed. A couple of women asked me if I was single, and I said yes. One girl said "any woman would be lucky to have a guy like you". Thanks. Unfortunately she wasn't my type. Beggars can be choosers. Have had a sexual connection with 2 co workers. Both Chinese. From China. We broke up but remained friends.

 

[xix]

At the time, around 2000/2001, there was obviously no 'me too' movement or anything and the company I worked for at the time was far from any corporate type environment. It was an Italian-owned construction company where that kind of macho behaviour was not only condoned but encouraged. From the first day that my now-wife began working there she was subjected to all kinds of leering, sexual remarks, etc. Not just from fellow employees but from the owner himself who actually tried to grab her ass a few times.

Thankfully she was repulsed from all that and somehow set her sights on me and asked me out for a coffee one day after work. An hour later, we were banging each others brains out in some cheap motel room. I was 30 and she was 22 and an absolute smoke show.

We continued to work together for a few more years, even after we got married and up until she had our first kid.

Fast forward to now and our kids are away at school and we are enjoying our lives like never before. We hobby together about once a month with an SP who is couple friendly and have recently gotten into kink and BDSM as a hobby of sort. I could not be happier at this moment and, like I said before, I won the lottery here for sure.

The best thing about hobbying with my wife, aside from the obvious, is I never need to hide anything. Hell, when I email an SP about setting up a time to meet, I actually cc my wife. Sounds crazy but it's awesome.

So - I assumed you were single when you met her - so once your coworkers found out you two were a couple, did they mistreat you or harass?
I assume she left after couple of years and you stay there of course still together.

One thing I learn from married men about marriage. It is good to have three hobbies in a marriage - His, Hers and Ours. A child doesn't count.