Advice requested

[Quest4Less]

What would you do if you thought you might be "falling" for an escort?

 

[shinyam]

It may work out, escorts are just the same as any other women, so I don't see why you shouldn't treat her as any other potential mate. Who knows? It could really be true love and work out.

 

[hambone]

You may as well get it out in the open right away. No sense in you worrying and wondering, you are just wasting time that would be better spent with her or looking elsewhere.

 

[papasmerf]

Love is a powerfull emotion.

Before you decide ask yourself. Will you give up the hobby if asked. As well as can you live with her being an SP.

Once you reconcile these issues you will know how to proceed.

 

[rama putri]

Oh brother! Not another one.

 

[danmand]

Wake up and get the hell outta there. Take a cold shower, get an exorcism, or whatever. Go see other escorts. that is exactly what Iwould do, is go see other escorts. This isn't real, remember.

AMEN

 

[Annessa]

Take A Chance Or Stand Silent...

I would tell her and see if she feels the same way and would like to see you as well. What is wrong with some of you men thinking this way, don't you think we having feelings and emotions for people? or because we sell our body we've also sold our soul?

Originally posted by Tom_002
Wake up and get the hell outta there. Take a cold shower, get an exorcism, or whatever. Go see other escorts. that is exactly what Iwould do, is go see other escorts. This isn't real, remember.

Although it is nobodies business I have to say this to prove a point. I dated 1 time a client for 2 years and although we are no longer together (but we are still good friends and will always care for one another) he was the greatest love of my life and if I could go back I would change a thing and do it all over again because it was the greatest relationship experience of my life. Let love be free and go where it wants to go.



Annessa
XOXO

 

[sweet guy]

Re: Take A Chance Or Stand Silent...

I would tell her and see if she feels the same way and would like to see you as well.

You never mixed "civilians" with the "professionals". If you wanna take your chance and put yourself in a vulnerable position, go ahead make your day.

I would say the clients/Johns are the last persons the majority of the escorts/SPs would date on earth. Sure, you may act like a "nice guy" you really are deep in your heart and she seems to be "appreciate" to your "gratitude" or token of "good gestures". BUT towards the end of the day, you are just another average Joe or at best a Joe with a name on it.

It's a leap of faith to show you have "real" feelings to her. The odds are stack against you even further when you two have totally different ethnic backgrounds. I would not say impossible but I don't think you have any chance.

What is wrong with some of you men thinking this way, don't you think we having feelings and emotions for people? or because we sell our body we've also sold our soul?

There is NOTHING wrong with those men. Those men might either have this experience before and learnt it in very hard way, or they are just realistic.

And yes I do believe SP do have feelings and emotions, but NOT the feelings and emotions between the persons in love. Any seasonal "veterans" are smart enough to seperate your own "put-up act" from your "inner feelings". The SPs is more vulnerable to the roller coaster ride of emotion than the client falling in love when she for unknown reasons loves this client unconditionally.

The bottom line? This is just another "business transaction" and even though you have strong feelings to your favorite SPs, wishing you have GF like her (that SP must be very good at GFE), you are risking yourself another rejection and adding insult to injury.

 

[The Baroness]

Re: Re: Take A Chance Or Stand Silent...

And yes I do believe SP do have feelings and emotions, but NOT the feelings and emotions between the persons in love. Any seasonal "veterans" are smart enough to seperate your own "put-up act" from your "inner feelings". The SPs is more vulnerable to the roller coaster ride of emotion than the client falling in love when she for unknown reasons loves this client unconditionally.


You dont choose who you fall in love with.....you can be "seasoned "and one day a client walks in and bam..there goes all your common sense and "rules about dating clients".

 

[sweet guy]

Re: Take A Chance Or Stand Silent...

You dont choose who you fall in love with.....you can be "seasoned "and one day a client walks in and bam..there goes all your common sense and "rules about dating clients".

Have you experienced this before then?

I doubt any SP would admit such "mistake", especially when she falls in love with a John/hobbyist who is not that enthusaistic with her in the first place.

I would seriously doubt any SPs would fall in love with a hobbyist, even the hobbyist is a bachelor and doesn't have any gf.

 

[The Baroness]

Re: Re: Take A Chance Or Stand Silent...

Have you experienced this before then?

I doubt any SP would admit such "mistake", especially when she falls in love with a John/hobbyist who is not that enthusaistic with her in the first place.

I would seriously doubt any SPs would fall in love with a hobbyist, even the hobbyist is a bachelor and doesn't have any gf.

Yes I have and we are still together 2 years later...I quit sp'ing for him and the good of our relationship actually.