advice request from first timer

[blaazed35]

hello. I would just like some advice getting escorts. Firstly, I am of iranian descent, but i have lived in the west all my life. Now, I know that some escorts will have an issue with race, but I personally don't care about that. My question is which type of women are least likely to have an issue. I am guessing indian, and persian (being one myself) followed by asian. i am not so interested in indian escorts and persians are scarce, as are the good looking indian ones. but asians are quite appealing as are whites, but black and white escorts i feel will most likely have an issue with my race. please give me some advice here, and again let me emphasize, i do not want a discussion on the morality of not seeing people of certain races. I just don't want to show up and waste my time.

secondly, the actualy meetup. i assume
1 they provide condoms for safety reasons.
2 shower services are provided before and after the service.
3 the money is given directly to the lady.
4 dont show up early, just on time.

if there is any advice you can give me it would be appreciated.
many thanks from a soon to be hobbyist

 

[Petzel]

Do some research here using the Search function and narrow down the ladies you think you're interested in seeing. Then you can contact them and take it from there. You can search for reviews on the ladies you're interested in seeing. You can go the agency route or try a reputable indy. The advantage of contacting an independent is that you can establish a rapport with her prior to the rendezvous and get a sense if she seems like the right lady for you to see. Whether indy or agency lady, let them know what type of specifics you're interested in and what services you're looking for. This can help prevent disappointments later on. The best advice is to be polite and behave like a gentleman. Hygiene and manners are important to most ladies. Good luck

 

[Butler1000]

Either go with an agency or well reviewed indy on the site. They won't care about your ethnic background(although some of the same background may. This is due to running into people they know in their community).
They will have everything you need.
And yes. Do your research. And its ok to tell them its your first time doing this. You will find they will be generally better prepared for any nervousness on your part.

 

[Imperius]

Regarding restrictions... don't spend ANY time playing guessing games as to who is likely to have restrictions and who likely won't. The ladies are all different and have different experiences and criteria which will affect who they choose to entertain. No point in trying to crystal ball it.

On initial contact (by phone/text/email), just ask the lady (or agency) if she has any race (or age, or weight) restrictions. If you're excluded, just move on.

Oh yeah, and bring a cell phone. You likely won't get all the location details until you are sitting outside the condo/hotel, so you'll need to make contact on-the-go. Buy a cheap hobby phone if you don't want to use your "main" phone.

 

[letsn0twastetime]

Ya agree with the others, you're paying for a service so just remember who is the customer is in this case and don't feel afraid to ask those tough question on the initial phone call. I would go with an Indy so you can get the answers straight from her regarding race and the rest. Regardless of what race you are, hygiene matters pretty much more than anything except for perhaps attitude. They will give you everything you need such as condom and cleaning materials like soap and shampoo. In fact I know some Sp who won't let you bring your own condoms since they have expired or have been tampered with. Any the most important thing, never ever try and renegotiate the price when you meet, this unfortunately is a reason some SPs have had bad experiences with some ethnic backgrounds. I won't single anyone out you can do a search here but unfortunately there are some bad apples who ruin it for everyone else. Happy hobbying...

 

[blaazed35]

just wanted to thank you guys for the replies. you covered all the things I asked for and also some things i didnt think of, like a hobby phone.