I’ve been a FBSM hobbyist for about 15 years and been married for much longer than that.
A few months ago I ventured into BBBJ (was not planned) and CFS (also not planned - happened during my last two Toronto visits). In my FBSM+ encounters with a handful of independents who are in their 50s (my age) they have said the risks from BBBJ is near zero. One shared she’s and her friends have given thousands of blow jobs and the only thing they got were sore necks. . (For context, this was not an upsell but came up in a post FBSM+ discussion about CBJ vs BBBJ.)
I’ve done the research on medical sites as well as what I can find about actual experiences of people like us. Medically, it seems that it’s impossible to measure the lower risk activities because you can’t measure if protection was properly used and exactly how an event occurred. Experientially, what’s theoretically medically possible seems different from the actual experiences of the few people I have talked with and the experiences I have read.
For those of you who have been doing this a while, I would appreciate anything you would take the time to share.
Thanks in advance for your opinions.
A few months ago I ventured into BBBJ (was not planned) and CFS (also not planned - happened during my last two Toronto visits). In my FBSM+ encounters with a handful of independents who are in their 50s (my age) they have said the risks from BBBJ is near zero. One shared she’s and her friends have given thousands of blow jobs and the only thing they got were sore necks. . (For context, this was not an upsell but came up in a post FBSM+ discussion about CBJ vs BBBJ.)
I’ve done the research on medical sites as well as what I can find about actual experiences of people like us. Medically, it seems that it’s impossible to measure the lower risk activities because you can’t measure if protection was properly used and exactly how an event occurred. Experientially, what’s theoretically medically possible seems different from the actual experiences of the few people I have talked with and the experiences I have read.
For those of you who have been doing this a while, I would appreciate anything you would take the time to share.
Thanks in advance for your opinions.