A Question For Incall SP
- Thread starter Reemer
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Good Question 
1. A regular is a man 'client' that an woman 'SP' sees on a regular basis. Whether it's once a week, every 2 weeks, once a month, etc.
2. I never have a guard up only my wits about me. The person I am in my RL is the same person I bring to my job and the people that have seen me or spoken to me know this.
A persons comfort level is different for everyone which means a persons comfort level time span varies. Some people may never reach the comfort level you wish/want them to have, but I feel that has more to do with 'clicking'.
If you don't 'click' with the person you'll never get their comfort level and vise-versa.
"I'm Okay When Everything Is Not Okay"
Cheers,
Annessa
1. A regular is a man 'client' that an woman 'SP' sees on a regular basis. Whether it's once a week, every 2 weeks, once a month, etc.
2. I never have a guard up only my wits about me. The person I am in my RL is the same person I bring to my job and the people that have seen me or spoken to me know this.
A persons comfort level is different for everyone which means a persons comfort level time span varies. Some people may never reach the comfort level you wish/want them to have, but I feel that has more to do with 'clicking'.
If you don't 'click' with the person you'll never get their comfort level and vise-versa.
"I'm Okay When Everything Is Not Okay"
Cheers,
Annessa
Thanks Ladies,
The reason I asked is that I have been seeing this sp for about 2 months. On the last few events we both enjoyed each others company prior to engaging in services. I brought a bottle of wine and the chit chat happened. We both know I am there for the paid service and have found that we both enjoy to spend time aside, prior to services rendered. I enjoy her company very much. She has also suggested the same. We're talking about going out to dinner.
Should I stop at this point, As we both have gotten to know each other a little to well?
The reason I asked is that I have been seeing this sp for about 2 months. On the last few events we both enjoyed each others company prior to engaging in services. I brought a bottle of wine and the chit chat happened. We both know I am there for the paid service and have found that we both enjoy to spend time aside, prior to services rendered. I enjoy her company very much. She has also suggested the same. We're talking about going out to dinner.
Should I stop at this point, As we both have gotten to know each other a little to well?
There have been a number of discussions about these topic in the past. IMHO, providers like regulars because it provides an added measure of familiarity and safety to their job, as well as a human element of interaction above and beyond the business transaction.
Naturally, if both parties enjoy each others company, there is no reason NOT to pursue a more social arrangement, as long as you both are on the same page regarding payment and expectations.
Naturally, if both parties enjoy each others company, there is no reason NOT to pursue a more social arrangement, as long as you both are on the same page regarding payment and expectations.
Reemer said:
Honestly sweetie,
This one no one can answer for you.
It's called taking a 'chance' in life, are you a participant or a spectator...
Some people will say 'Yes' and some will say 'No' but what does your Heart & Head say?
Listen to that, cause it never stops talking & telling you.
All the best,
Annessa
Go for it
You are people, and things happen just like in an office.
Once met someone in the biz who not only did I have a long relationship with, but we ended being best friends too.
Ended up being probably my best relationship ever.... hit on all levels.
Would not have missed it for anything.
You are people, and things happen just like in an office.
Once met someone in the biz who not only did I have a long relationship with, but we ended being best friends too.
Ended up being probably my best relationship ever.... hit on all levels.
Would not have missed it for anything.
