was at Pigales the other day and had a dancer offer me her phone number. She legitimately seemed interested in seeing me outside of the strip club. Doesn't seem interested in money or anything but just wanted to spend time together. What would you guys do if you were in the same situation?
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Below is something I posted on the toronto strip club forum about a year ago. Honestly if its the first time you saw her its one of the following:
a) She's into you
b) She's getting your interest for you to keep coming back. Might also have her number so if you call she can tell you when she is working next.
c) She might be into takeout
d) She is going to game you on the outside.
I don't think that many are trying to fuck you over like I was in #2 below. And I don't think a) is that likely either. But it's likely just business... remember there job is to be nice,
I have had some relationships with MPA's since this time, but it was always after I have known them for awhile that I got their contact info, and it was more of a type of friendship deal. I'm certainly not jaded anymore like in #3, there people just like us... just more aware.
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Reading these threads brings me back to my naive first few months as a strip club customer ( I was 25, about five years ago). I had been SC's before, but this was the first time I started going by myself to get some action.
#1 - Does she like me? First night, get some girls number. Asks me to call her on the weekend. Of course, when I call she asks me to meet her in the SC that night. So I say, what's the deal... she says we will go have lunch the next day. I call her the next day, and she casually slips in that she had to book the hotel last night and today to see me, so asks me to pay for both days. Hung up.
Does she like me? No. Damage - she got about a $100 extra from me that second day - good lap dances as she was trying to get me into her. So it was worth it.
#2 - Does she like me? About two weeks later, go to the WAGG, meet some dancer from Quebec, I am french so we get along OK. Agree to meet the next afternoon. Go for lunch - nothing too expensive. Then we go shopping (rookie mistake... big) - damage at the end of the day about $700 on the CC. But she said she will pay me back tonight and stay at my place for the week... lol. Never called me again. Saw her a few times at the WAGG after that, never made an issue of it. Gave her a dirty look, but that was it. She played the game, she won. Lesson learned.
Does she like me? No, Damage - $700. It was a lesson I had to learn, and trust me given all the money I have spent in this business, it was probably worth it - it let me realize what it can be.
#3 - Does she like me? This was about six months later after incident #2. It was about five years ago, when HOL, was dying but still decent. Had a nice conversation with some student (at least an hour). We go to the back, extremely good mileage (I was expecting to pay around $200), come to the pay the bill. Nothing - I get her phone number.
Does she like me? I have no clue what her intentions were. I am not going to pretend that I am "super-stud" that girls go nuts over, like some of the arrogant people on this boad. Never called her, never saw her again, and just took the free service. I was still too jaded from #2, to trust anyone in the biz for a while after that
a) She's into you
b) She's getting your interest for you to keep coming back. Might also have her number so if you call she can tell you when she is working next.
c) She might be into takeout
d) She is going to game you on the outside.
I don't think that many are trying to fuck you over like I was in #2 below. And I don't think a) is that likely either. But it's likely just business... remember there job is to be nice,
I have had some relationships with MPA's since this time, but it was always after I have known them for awhile that I got their contact info, and it was more of a type of friendship deal. I'm certainly not jaded anymore like in #3, there people just like us... just more aware.
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Reading these threads brings me back to my naive first few months as a strip club customer ( I was 25, about five years ago). I had been SC's before, but this was the first time I started going by myself to get some action.
#1 - Does she like me? First night, get some girls number. Asks me to call her on the weekend. Of course, when I call she asks me to meet her in the SC that night. So I say, what's the deal... she says we will go have lunch the next day. I call her the next day, and she casually slips in that she had to book the hotel last night and today to see me, so asks me to pay for both days. Hung up.
Does she like me? No. Damage - she got about a $100 extra from me that second day - good lap dances as she was trying to get me into her. So it was worth it.
#2 - Does she like me? About two weeks later, go to the WAGG, meet some dancer from Quebec, I am french so we get along OK. Agree to meet the next afternoon. Go for lunch - nothing too expensive. Then we go shopping (rookie mistake... big) - damage at the end of the day about $700 on the CC. But she said she will pay me back tonight and stay at my place for the week... lol. Never called me again. Saw her a few times at the WAGG after that, never made an issue of it. Gave her a dirty look, but that was it. She played the game, she won. Lesson learned.
Does she like me? No, Damage - $700. It was a lesson I had to learn, and trust me given all the money I have spent in this business, it was probably worth it - it let me realize what it can be.
#3 - Does she like me? This was about six months later after incident #2. It was about five years ago, when HOL, was dying but still decent. Had a nice conversation with some student (at least an hour). We go to the back, extremely good mileage (I was expecting to pay around $200), come to the pay the bill. Nothing - I get her phone number.
Does she like me? I have no clue what her intentions were. I am not going to pretend that I am "super-stud" that girls go nuts over, like some of the arrogant people on this boad. Never called her, never saw her again, and just took the free service. I was still too jaded from #2, to trust anyone in the biz for a while after that
It is a two way street. Do you like her? Do you want to spend time with her away from the strip club on a social basis or are you just looking for more action away from the club? A couple of years ago I meet a very young stripper at Pigales ( I was 37 and she was 19) and she was very attractive and fun. We had a good time in the VIP area and we were talking about various things and she mentioned she was moving to BC to see if she could find work in another line of business (restaurant, hotels). I mentioned I was going there in two weeks on business and she asked if I wanted to meet up with her and go out for dinner. I thought what the heck - good looking girl, funny etc. I was on my own anyway so why not. She gave me her number and two weeks later I picked her up at her friends place and we went out for dinner. She was wearing some hot outfit that had all the guys in a nice restaurant downtown sneaking a glance when their wives weren't looking. She probably should have dressed a bit more casual as it did look a bit odd - slightly older guy with hot young thing - but what the hell. We had a few laughs, went for a walk around downtown Vancouver after dinner and then I gave her a ride home. She gave me a kiss and said thanks. I did not push for more and she did not offer. She did say I could call her again if I wanted and a month later we went out again. This time we went to a club where we fit in a bit better. Again had a fun time and nothing happened after but I had a great time. I realized she was a young girl, who was lonely and just wanted some company. Her English was poor (from Quebec City) so she was struggling in BC. Overall I had a great time with her, felt like I helped her out a bit and in the end for $300 or so dollars got to spend some time with a beautiful young lady.
I have another story that is not so great - similar to the shopping trip story above - but only cost me $300 for one afternoon with broken promises of future payback.
So, if you like her then go for it but do not commit to any large sums of money because that is a sure sign they only want you for one thing. But also don't expect to get anything for free. Hey, you only live once!!
I have another story that is not so great - similar to the shopping trip story above - but only cost me $300 for one afternoon with broken promises of future payback.
So, if you like her then go for it but do not commit to any large sums of money because that is a sure sign they only want you for one thing. But also don't expect to get anything for free. Hey, you only live once!!
makes me think that i should try and take this one very slowly.
Thanks for the stories guys and i will make sure to think with the right head.
Thanks for the stories guys and i will make sure to think with the right head.
Take it from someone that has been down this road and from a girl from pigales.. Generally these girls are not looking for dates.. Its a way for you to call her to see her more at the club. As soon as money outside the club becomes an issue STOP... I spent over 5 figures on a girl like this.. Dont go to the club to meet girls, its a business for them..
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I had a girl at the 'Mate give me her cell # after the first meeting ...... she said to call and see when she was working .... called once and got an offer for takeout which I was never able to connect for .... she was upfront about it being a biz thing tho ..........
well she said she wanted to get together to just hang out as she wasn't from town and needed someone to spend time with while she stayed here but wasn't working. i don't know how to read it but we will see. i will give her a call but take it slowly and with caution i guess. i am not into paying for it if she is not up front about it.
Been there, done that! You may be interested in reading the following earlier threads that deal with essentially the same subject. They contain a lot of interesting anecdotes and useful tips!thisshyguy said:
Be careful, it`s an emotional and financial minefield out there!
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=150636
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151136
happened to me at the Dollar one time....she said "ya lets go for coffee tomorrow and have some fun, here's my cell".....Called her the next day and was told to F off.
Excellent.
Excellent.
yeah, been at a couple places where I was asked if I wanted to wait and go home with later. not a bad looking guy, but figured it was bullcrap or they wanted to take me for a ride. 'user' unfortunately are these girls middle names. a friend of mine works at a club, and she says 1/2 or more are strung up on coke most of the time. nice life...but hey, love the champagne rooms
I am fat. I am ugly. My personality is a little dull. I have more strippers numbers than I have friends numbers.thisshyguy said:
They all liked me and wanted to see me outside the club too.
Has never happened.
The truth is that there are more and more girls trying to make money on the side with the ottawa rules changing ( I realize this was from a club on the quebec side). There have always been some girls doing this, but now there is a high percentage.
The more straight forward ones are offering takeout the less straight forword ones are trying to get customers to buy them things, dinner, make a car payment, cell phone cards, outfits...etc.
there is a 99.99 percent chance she wants money out of this. That's okay just know what you are willing to spend before hand.
The more straight forward ones are offering takeout the less straight forword ones are trying to get customers to buy them things, dinner, make a car payment, cell phone cards, outfits...etc.
there is a 99.99 percent chance she wants money out of this. That's okay just know what you are willing to spend before hand.
