A long shot... Hope I wasn't out of line

[drlove]

I used to see this university girl through an agency. Last I heard, she was moving out of province to start a career in the states. It just so happened that she gave me her instant messenger handle during one of our last appointments. Now, this was a few years ago and I haven't talked to her since. However, just on the off chance that she might be in the area again at some point in the future, I sent her my contact info (e-mail and cell phone #)and asked her to get in touch with me if she was interested in setting up an appointment. She was offline at the time i sent the message, so she will see it the next time she logs in.

I realize it's a long shot, but I thought, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right??

 

[drlove]

I do not see anything wrong with this. Maybe it will work, maybe not.

True enough... I just thought she might think it odd that a past client would be contacting her out of the blue like that. She may not even remember who I am, or that she had given me her IM contact info.

 

[drlove]

I tried to be as discreet as possible, although I had to mention the agency name so that she would know what I was talking about. Other than that, I made a reference to "setting up an appointment" which could allude to any manner of business dealings, or otherwise.

 

[Meister]

She shouldn't be using the handle she uses during escorting for family situations.

 

[Hard Idle]

I do not see anything wrong with this. Maybe it will work, maybe not.

No nothing is wrong with it. But seeing as she gave him the contact info but he never once contacted her all these years, she'll probably assume he had Zero interest in her as a human being and is only making contact now because he's hit bored spot with his hobbying and is reaching back for nostalgia as a last resort.

I must say that if someone I payed to use for sex willingly offered me her contact info knowing she was leaving the country and probably never seeing a dime of my business again, I would be flattered enough to stay in touch for some time even if I didn't really feel like it.

 

[PHNINE]

Not out of line at all. Giving contact info happens all the time, and keeping in touch with each other is the responibility of both parties. That is if she still wants to be your friend.

I use to see this one SP, that made a good amount of money in this industry, and decided to retire and move back to her home country. After totally forgetting about her, one day out of the blue she calls me and tells me she is in town and wants to meet for dinner. She was here for about a week or so, and then off to NYC to visit some relatives. I was invited, but I couldn't go. To this day, we still keep in contact through email, although the response times are often delayed. Sometimes, the lives that we cross are remembered in many different ways. You never know the impact you could have on someone just by being nice.

I hope you get a hold of this lady, and you're right, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Fortunately for you Doc, this time you won't have to confess your hobby to her, because she will already know your "other" side.

 

[drlove]

No nothing is wrong with it. But seeing as she gave him the contact info but he never once contacted her all these years, she'll probably assume he had Zero interest in her as a human being and is only making contact now because he's hit bored spot with his hobbying and is reaching back for nostalgia as a last resort.

I must say that if someone I payed to use for sex willingly offered me her contact info knowing she was leaving the country and probably never seeing a dime of my business again, I would be flattered enough to stay in touch for some time even if I didn't really feel like it.

Actually, no. While I did attempt to make contact with her at first, it was a no go since I got the impression that either:

a) She was not at all interested, and that giving out her info was merely a token gesture on her part.

or

b) Someone was looking over her shoulder at the time, and she had to cut the conversation short. In any case, I left it up to her to re-establish communications and never heard back from her.

So yes, it is just business - which is why I had limited compunctions about inquiring about the availability of her services again today.

 

[Meister]

What about friends/coworkers? I mean her messenger ID could be something non-name related.

Like KWI said she should have two separate handles. Especially if she is sharing a computer.

 

[Hard Idle]

Actually, no. While I did attempt to make contact with her at first, it was a no go since I got the impression that either:

a) She was not at all interested, and that giving out her info was merely a token gesture on her part.

or

b) Someone was looking over her shoulder at the time, and she had to cut the conversation short. In any case, I left it up to her to re-establish communications and never heard back from her.

.

Ah, should have included that in the original post - totally different story.

I doubt anybody has been looking over her shoulder 24 hours a day for two years running, so I guess your first theory is probably right - just a token gesture - probably won't hear back from her then, unless she's looking to get back in the business.

 

[tboy]

Hey Dr L, you do have the oddest posts, but that's what makes this place interesting!! Not the usual trivia I tell ya.

No worries mate, something similar happened to me t'other day: I was talking to a friend I hadn't spoken to for like 2 yrs and he asks how's Ms X doing? I say I hadn't spoken to her for ages. He says, well if you talk to her tell her I say hi...

So I do..

Well the convo went something like this:

Hello Ms X, it's Tboy
ummm hello....
How are you doing?
Fine
How's the job going?
Fine
How's your daughter?
fine
So what have you been up to lately?
Nothing much
Remember Mr X? I was talking to him t'other day and he asked how you were,
Tell him I'm fine,
SO what else is new?
Nothing....
Alrighty then you take care...
Bye....

And this is a woman, while only platonic friends, we've slept at each other's homes, had countless dinners together, we were really close...

So the moral is don't be upset if she doesn't reply and even though I don't agree, it isn't always a good thing to contact people you haven't spoken to in a while......

 

[drlove]

Hey tboy, you know what else is odd?? Before I met her, I had seen a picture of this girl on a dating website, saying she was looking for a sugar daddy. I thought "hot chick, I'd do her", and put it out of my mind. Well, a few months later, I call up an agency, they tell me the have a new girl on tonight. I said "send her over", and it was her! What are the chances?? *lol*

 

[Jade4u]

Funny I have lots of conversations like that. Sometimes it is just a simple case that you cannot remember who they are. If you do actually get her talking to you try to remember one thing during your time together that may stand out to revive her memory.

 

[drlove]

In all honestly, I don't really expect to get a reply; after all, her profile hasn't been updated in two and a half years. It's doubtful whether she still uses the same handle. I just wanted to know for myself that I tried.

 

[ruck]

No nothing is wrong with it. But seeing as she gave him the contact info but he never once contacted her all these years, she'll probably assume he had Zero interest in her as a human being and is only making contact now because he's hit bored spot with his hobbying and is reaching back for nostalgia as a last resort.

I must say that if someone I payed to use for sex willingly offered me her contact info knowing she was leaving the country and probably never seeing a dime of my business again, I would be flattered enough to stay in touch for some time even if I didn't really feel like it.

I agree with the bolded sentiment. I would do the same.
If she gave you her IM knowing she was leaving, it might have been because she felt you two had some kind of connection. Connections don't always have to be sexual. Perhaps she felt you were a nice guy and she wanted to keep in touch.

 

[drlove]

I agree with the bolded sentiment. I would do the same.
If she gave you her IM knowing she was leaving, it might have been because she felt you two had some kind of connection. Connections don't always have to be sexual. Perhaps she felt you were a nice guy and she wanted to keep in touch.

As I said, I initiated contact on IM after that. She cut the conversation short, so the onus was on her to get back to me. She never did.

 

[ruck]

As I said, I initiated contact on IM after that. She cut the conversation short, so the onus was on her to get back to me. She never did.

That bitch. hehehe j/k