Good evening folks,
I've been hesitant to bring this up, I had been hoping it was just noise that would vanish. I'm also starting to wonder if i might not be the only one dealing with this, as it has the hallmarks of a scam.
I've been posting here for some time, typically only stick to the positive, and if I didn't have a good session I'd simply not repeat with that provider.
Recently I saw a indy provider that I had seen one other time. About 5 days after a pretty unremarkable meet up, I've started getting messages about pregnancy. That has now escalated to messages around financial support, and just today mention of the authorities.
The provider is insisting that during the session the condom came off. This did not happen. On top of that, the timeline doesn't make sense, since it was less than a week from the meeting to the claims of pregnancy. I'm not a doctor, but that does not seem like enough time for this. Dr. Google tells me that positive pregnancy tests tend to take around 2 weeks to show...but that is Dr. Google.
So, I'm not at all worried about this being "mine". But these messages have continued to roll in, and I have become a bit worried on that front.
Not sure if there is advice to be offered to this situation, maybe I'm just hoping someone will say this is all smoke and no fire, and that it happens from time-to-time.
While I don't want this blowing up into a huge thing (as I think this is just noise with no substance), I do feel a responsibility to put this out there, since I'm a bit suspicious others might be getting the same treatment.
For now, I'll keep names out of this, but can PM folks who might share this concern.
MI
I've been hesitant to bring this up, I had been hoping it was just noise that would vanish. I'm also starting to wonder if i might not be the only one dealing with this, as it has the hallmarks of a scam.
I've been posting here for some time, typically only stick to the positive, and if I didn't have a good session I'd simply not repeat with that provider.
Recently I saw a indy provider that I had seen one other time. About 5 days after a pretty unremarkable meet up, I've started getting messages about pregnancy. That has now escalated to messages around financial support, and just today mention of the authorities.
The provider is insisting that during the session the condom came off. This did not happen. On top of that, the timeline doesn't make sense, since it was less than a week from the meeting to the claims of pregnancy. I'm not a doctor, but that does not seem like enough time for this. Dr. Google tells me that positive pregnancy tests tend to take around 2 weeks to show...but that is Dr. Google.
So, I'm not at all worried about this being "mine". But these messages have continued to roll in, and I have become a bit worried on that front.
Not sure if there is advice to be offered to this situation, maybe I'm just hoping someone will say this is all smoke and no fire, and that it happens from time-to-time.
While I don't want this blowing up into a huge thing (as I think this is just noise with no substance), I do feel a responsibility to put this out there, since I'm a bit suspicious others might be getting the same treatment.
For now, I'll keep names out of this, but can PM folks who might share this concern.
MI
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