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6th grade boys pin down classmate, cut her locks calling them 'ugly' and 'nappy'

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Sixth-grade boys pin down classmate, cut her locks calling them 'ugly' and 'nappy' at Virginia private school

A 12-year-old girl tells WUSA9 she was assaulted on the playground of Immanuel Christian School because of her natural hair.

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Author:Mikea Turner, Saliqa Khan

Published:11:53 AM EDT September 26, 2019

Updated:11:18 AM EDT September 27, 2019

SPRINGFIELD, Va. — Three sixth-grade boys are accused of pinning down a fellow classmate -- a 12-year-old girl -- on the playground and cutting her locks because they are "nappy" and "ugly."

Amari Allen said she has never been more traumatized in her life until Monday when she said a group of white male classmates attacked her on the playground at Immanuel Christian School, a private K-12 school, in Fairfax, Virginia.

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Amari tells WUSA9 that one boy covered her mouth and the second boy put her hands behind her back, while the third boy pulled out scissors and cut her medium-length locks while calling her names.

Allen's family pays nearly $12,000 a year for Amari to attend the private school where Vice President Mike Pence's wife, Karen Pence, teaches there twice a week.

The school outlines a strict no-bullying policy in their parent-student handbook, that, in part, states:

"ICS holds to four fundamental guidelines for social interaction among students. All ICS students are encouraged and expected to:

"Never leave anyone out by deliberately excluding them from the group. Never harm others intentionally with words or actions. Never tolerate bullying by ignoring it or allowing it to continue. Always report bullying to the classroom teacher."

Accordingly, we define bullying as: The deliberate use of power to dominate, intimidate and harm another person physically and/or emotionally over an extended period of time with no significant provocation or justification."

"They kept laughing and calling me names," Amari said, as tears poured down her face. "They called me 'ugly,' said, 'I shouldn't have been born.' They called me 'an attention-seeker.'"

The ordeal happened during recess on a sliding board. On Thursday, the entire playground was surrounded by caution tape as Allen's family spoke to the administration.

"They ran off laughing, and I was just sitting there," Amari said.

The soft-spoken preteen didn't tell her family what happened until Wednesday -- two days after the incident when her grandmother, Cynthia Allen, noticed a difference in the length of her hair.

Amari Allen's hair cut unevenly.

"It's very painful," Cynthia Allen said. "I want to see them dismissed from the school. I want to see something done."

Amari initially denied that anyone cut it for fear of retaliation. When Allen continued to ask questions, she broke down crying and told them the truth.

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TONIGHT AT 11: “One of them put my hands behind my back. One of them covered my mouth. They kept on laughing and calling me names,” said Amari who had her locs cut by bullies at a private #VA school. #Springfield I was heartbroken just listening to this. Smh. @wusa9

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It's not clear where the teachers were during the horrifying incident that Amari said went on for about five minutes.

Immanuel Christian School released a comment about the investigation, which reads:

"We take seriously the emotional and physical well-being of all our students, and have a zero-tolerance policy for any kind of bullying or abuse. We are deeply disturbed by the allegations being made, and are in communication with the family of the alleged victim to gather information and provide whatever support we can. We have also reached out to law enforcement to ask them to conduct a thorough investigation, and further inquiries should be directed to the Fairfax County Police."

WUSA9 Anchor/Reporter Mikea Turner went to the school and made several follow-up calls to see how the allegations are being handled. The school responded with above statement.**

It was not Amari's first encounter with the same three classmates. She said she's been bullied by the same boys for some time. They take her school lunches and call her names, Amari alleges.

The family met with school officials Thursday morning to address the matter. It's unclear what consequences, if any, would be passed down to Amari's alleged attackers.

Stay with WUSA9.com for more on this developing story.

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Grade 6 is early for physical assaults. The culture of shaming, the culture of intolerance is promoted in media and clearly in homes too.

What goes on in these boys homes, and why was this girl not comfortable talking about it, at school but more disturbingly, at home.

We've lost our way in a lot of ways. Targeting anyone for blame and shame, silencing, and de-platforming, whether it's political, or gender based won't be stoping soon. A real shame.
 

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Why is race such a prevalent issue now? I pretty much didn't even recognize race as a thing until I was in university, where there are various organizations based on race. You see, no one made a big deal of race in primary and secondary school, and so it was never an issue. But we, as adults, for some reason think recognizing our differences will somehow be of benefit? We create divisions that don't need to be there. And now that is bleeding down into younger demographics.

We need to stop celebrating certain groups, because all that does is create divisions. Treat everyone equal...full stop...and we will be more successful in reducing this type of behavior.
 

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Grade 6 is early for physical assaults.
Not really. It starts in kindergarten or as soon as you put kids of any age together. Sometimes it's called bullying.
 

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There's one small detail in this story that jumps out at me.
The use of the word "nappy".
To me, that doesn't seem to be a word that grade six kids would use normally, unless they've been taught at home.
Which may explain a lot.
 

Smallcock

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Sorry OP


She learned that you can Smollett and get away with it.
 

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Sorry OP


She learned that you can Smollett and get away with it.
As a mixed race person, people put shit in my hair ( it's very difficult to take stuff out of mixed hair), touched it without permission, ridiculed me....you name it. The difference is that I never told any teachers about it, I had to fight. Snitching was a bad idea where I went to school. So this little shit probably knows that this does happen and exploited it for attention. It does not mean that blacks or mixed race people are not targets because of their hair. Whites were not the majority where I went to school either.
 

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As a mixed race person, people put shit in my hair ( it's very difficult to take stuff out of mixed hair), touched it without permission, ridiculed me....you name it. The difference is that I never told any teachers about it, I had to fight. Snitching was a bad idea where I went to school. So this little shit probably knows that this does happen and exploited it for attention. It does not mean that blacks or mixed race people are not targets because of their hair. Whites were not the majority where I went to school either.
I actually don't really place much blame on the girl. She is 12, did a stupid thing and I'm betting the parents are going to come down hard on her. As they should.

But it is another case of the press and social media jumping the gun and getting it wrong. And doing a dis service to the real victims as a result.

All for ratings and money.

And you, I'm sorry to say, in your rush to promote your political ideals, were once again made the fool.
 

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I actually don't really place much blame on the girl. She is 12, did a stupid thing and I'm betting the parents are going to come down hard on her. As they should.

But it is another case of the press and social media jumping the gun and getting it wrong. And doing a dis service to the real victims as a result.

All for ratings and money.

And you, I'm sorry to say, in your rush to promote your political ideals, were once again made the fool.
I don't think I was made a fool, the person crying wolf on the other hand can't say the same....this stuff does go on all the time. I suspect the media knew this was a false claim which is why it went viral on the internet. Many "hair" issue stories like this have been proven to be real but have gotten such little attention.

Funny you don't chastise right wingers for their politically motivated posts....fake Bernie supporter.
 

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I don't think I was made a fool, the person crying wolf on the other hand can't say the same....this stuff does go on all the time. I suspect the media knew this was a false claim which is why it went viral on the internet. Many "hair" issue stories like this have been proven to be real but have gotten such little attention.

Funny you don't chastise right wingers for their politically motivated posts....fake Bernie supporter.
Well considering how prolific you are in posting (as in the most) you should expect increased scrutiny just due to volume. Add in your lack of patience and fact checking....


Now you are saying the only reason this one went viral was because it was false?

Really?

Nice try.
 

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As a mixed race person, people put shit in my hair ( it's very difficult to take stuff out of mixed hair), touched it without permission, ridiculed me....you name it. The difference is that I never told any teachers about it, I had to fight. Snitching was a bad idea where I went to school. So this little shit probably knows that this does happen and exploited it for attention. It does not mean that blacks or mixed race people are not targets because of their hair. Whites were not the majority where I went to school either.
Wow a perfectly nuanced post. I'm impressed, and I agree with you.
 

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Well considering how prolific you are in posting (as in the most) you should expect increased scrutiny just due to volume. Add in your lack of patience and fact checking....


Now you are saying the only reason this one went viral was because it was false?

Really?

Nice try.
Bullshit explanation from you about your selective outrage.

I think I'm allowed to have my suspicions because as I said these hair stories are nothing new. Black media outlets cover them quite a bit. This is the first one where I've heard the person faked it. Due to my own experience as a kid being bothered for my hair, I'm personally offended.
 

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Bullshit explanation from you about your selective outrage.

I think I'm allowed to have my suspicions because as I said these hair stories are nothing new. Black media outlets cover them quite a bit. This is the first one where I've heard the person faked it. Due to my own experience as a kid being bothered for my hair, I'm personally offended.
Outrage? I in fact stated that I thought it was bring handled by the parents. And judging from their public statement to the boys, school and community are taking the right approach. I certainly don't want to see the girl in any way outed and feel it is best to allow the school and parents to sort it out.

However, you are an adult who jumped the gun. And in doing so continued to perpetuate the court of outraged public opinion without due process.

And then try to explain it away with some sort of anecdotal story.

Sorry if you are offended by stories like this. I'm offended by media and their viral enablers making false accusations.
 

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Playing the victim card ALWAYS gets attention. The bigger the card the bigger the attention.

"The Allen family filed an incident report with the Fairfax County Police Department, which told ABC News last week that it had launched an investigation, and had called for the boys' expulsion."

Will the police now call for the girl's expulsion? Nope. How about mental health treat? Nope. What about charges of mischief in cases a police investigation? Nope.

#WeBelieve

BTW The mom will still want the school to apologize and the girl to be coddled.
 

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As a mixed race person, people put shit in my hair ( it's very difficult to take stuff out of mixed hair), touched it without permission, ridiculed me....you name it. The difference is that I never told any teachers about it, I had to fight. Snitching was a bad idea where I went to school. So this little shit probably knows that this does happen and exploited it for attention. It does not mean that blacks or mixed race people are not targets because of their hair. Whites were not the majority where I went to school either.
So you’re saying it COULD happen...ok.

It’s just natural for kids to be curious about something they haven’t seen before or seen very often. Kids want to touch afros.
 
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