Wow! Marni is super cute!
I do 5/6 out of the 7 recommendations. With the wife, we use lube every now and then (half marks even though she gets wet?). I've never found her 'Current', but I don't think she even knows at this point as she's prudish... The odd time a get a great BBBJ, I make sure to tell her that she's nailing everything (My 'Current') and she usually does something else (she's not getting it). I'm a huge fan of Fingering and "Kissing" as it brings me back to my high school days with my GF who I serviced for 1.5 years before she finally took my dick. My GF previous to my wife knew her body and was super honest and open. She got off every time with a certain tongue move and pressure. She knew, I knew, so I gave it every time we had sex... It got boring actually.
One thing I find extremely difficult to do is flirt with women who are not my wife. I always check myself and stop as I feel sleazy. I know my wife flirts.