Girlfriend is interested in trying a m-f-f 3some she is conflicted in doing this with a girl she know or to do it with a stranger
thoughts?
thoughts?
3some m-f-f the extra f a girl you know or a stranger?
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I would not recommend a stranger for your first time. I first popped my threesome cherry with an SP (with my then boyfriend) and it was great! What I liked the most about it is that we could discuss comfort level and restrictions without awkwardness-the lady was very professional and we had a blast. Just remember-first time is the most important. Don't be like this guy.
The best experience I've had was with two girls who were close friends.. I don't think you'd find that chemistry if one of the girls was a stranger. When I had the threesome, both girls were borderline lesbians and cared for each other. It feels damn nice when each girl has the interest of the other in mind. They kept telling me, 'suck her tits now, fuck her too, she wants her pussy eaten also etc etc... Its just fun with two women in both your arms and dfking you simultaneously or having a triangle bj/daty.. dfking and fingering one while the other sucks your dick etc etc.. ahh just too damn fun. I don't think you'd get that chemistry if both girls were strangers to each other.
That experience is rare, buddy. All I know is know in advance who is the guest of honor otherwise there are hurt feelings. If you are doing it for her to get a bit of action or doing it for your birthday. There is usually one party that needs a little more attention or coaxing. So I say bring in a SP for the first time. Half the fun is picking the girl.
Klute
When I saw stranger, I mean someone that you've scoped out and had some correspondence. Or someone who meet off a chat line or club and talk at first. Obviously someone who meets your specifications.
However, in today's day and age, there are girls who have friends that like to get naked and party either by themselves or with guys, so yes, in those situations, those girls would be ideal candidates,
For the OP, why don't you and your GF invite her friend over and have a few glasses of wine and see where it goes with sex talk and all. IF your GF's friend is known as a sexual type, and talks about her fantasies or experiences with your GF, then she's probably open-minded enough to be receptive to that MFF.
Perhaps your GF should FIRST ask her friend if she might be up for it in private. Also, will your GF be okay with you fucking her friend?
However, in today's day and age, there are girls who have friends that like to get naked and party either by themselves or with guys, so yes, in those situations, those girls would be ideal candidates,
For the OP, why don't you and your GF invite her friend over and have a few glasses of wine and see where it goes with sex talk and all. IF your GF's friend is known as a sexual type, and talks about her fantasies or experiences with your GF, then she's probably open-minded enough to be receptive to that MFF.
Perhaps your GF should FIRST ask her friend if she might be up for it in private. Also, will your GF be okay with you fucking her friend?
When I say Stranger... I mean someone other than a friend> an SP or some one carefully picked out. I personally have fantasies of MFF!!! Well we all know I like that fantasy!! Anyway, I believe being with a close friend may cause issues later on. With an SP, boundries can be easily set!! And you do not have to see your man with her again in any kind of setting!! Unless you choose to!
+1 (That's what I meant too Sweet Heather).
The lovely Heidi Vixen introduced me to her friend who popped by after a session. Said friend is an SP too but cuz she's her close friend, she doesn't do duos with her. Perfectly understandable. (I miss Heidi too. What a sexy girl.)
I'm lucky enough to have had many MFF threesomes.
The first was with a bi girls I was dating. She met a girl on a chat line (so basically a stranger) and the three of us went out for drinks then back to my place. The other girl didn't want me involved so I was fine with watching the two of them play until I got my turn with my friend. To my surprise, the girl changed her mind when she watched my friend give me a BJ. Good thing I had a full box of condoms 'cause I was going back and forth between the two for hours. Later, after we all fell asleep, the other girl woke me up for another round. lol
We has a few more mff's with some other girls but she would always set them up.
Switch gears to my wife, we've had mff's with several girls who we've know for many years. They don't happen that often but when they do they're a lot of fun. The girls are very open minded, we're all friends who just like to get down and dirty. We've also had fun with the odd girl when visiting swing clubs around town. My wife has also suggested for our next adventure, we visit a SP or a MP because it can be difficult to find willing single or attached females to join us.
To the OP, it really comes down to what feels right and what your GF is comfortable with. If you're both adventurous, you might want to check out Wicked or Oasis and see what happens. When we went to Wicked last time, there were girls swarming my wife, in a good way that is.
Whatever you choose, talk it through with your GF so there's no surprises. If you're thinking about having a friend join you, ask her who she'd like and if she feels your friend would be into it. As katcalla noted, don't be like that guy in Dan's column.
When they happen and everyone is comfortable with each other, they can be simply amazing. Even recounting previous threesomes when we're having sex turns us on to no end.
The first was with a bi girls I was dating. She met a girl on a chat line (so basically a stranger) and the three of us went out for drinks then back to my place. The other girl didn't want me involved so I was fine with watching the two of them play until I got my turn with my friend. To my surprise, the girl changed her mind when she watched my friend give me a BJ. Good thing I had a full box of condoms 'cause I was going back and forth between the two for hours. Later, after we all fell asleep, the other girl woke me up for another round. lol
We has a few more mff's with some other girls but she would always set them up.
Switch gears to my wife, we've had mff's with several girls who we've know for many years. They don't happen that often but when they do they're a lot of fun. The girls are very open minded, we're all friends who just like to get down and dirty. We've also had fun with the odd girl when visiting swing clubs around town. My wife has also suggested for our next adventure, we visit a SP or a MP because it can be difficult to find willing single or attached females to join us.
To the OP, it really comes down to what feels right and what your GF is comfortable with. If you're both adventurous, you might want to check out Wicked or Oasis and see what happens. When we went to Wicked last time, there were girls swarming my wife, in a good way that is.
Whatever you choose, talk it through with your GF so there's no surprises. If you're thinking about having a friend join you, ask her who she'd like and if she feels your friend would be into it. As katcalla noted, don't be like that guy in Dan's column.
When they happen and everyone is comfortable with each other, they can be simply amazing. Even recounting previous threesomes when we're having sex turns us on to no end.
I know exactly what you're talking about LKD. Fucking my girl doggy style while our friend's face is inches from my cock, she runs her hand up my girls thigh and plays with her clit, then puts her hand on my cock, pulls it out and takes me in her mouth tasting her juices then guides me back in... Sooooooooo good!
And no intimacy, either! :frown:
And without intimacy, it will be missing that chemistry that makes a MFF threesome a real blast.
Perry
Not sure which SPs you have been seeing but I have found most SPs can give lessons in intimacy during a 3some compared to civies. A lot less awkwardness, insecurity and drama.
Klute
I can't believe I have yet to experience this...damn, that sounds like a LOT of fun...thanks for sharing.
@ OP if you have serious feeling for your girlfriend be very careful. I have been in a few of these and would never again do it with someone i have feeling for. You dont want to lose the love of your life over couple hours of fun. Imo even if she shows interest in this activity it is a very slippery slope with the green eyed monster. My advice would be let her pick the girl have no say in this process! During your play your girlfriend should be number 1 at all times. She should dictate what you are allowed to do or not to do and the pace of the play. My suggestion would be a stranger as a third things go bad friendships can get torn apart in a flash. Many people think this is a good idea but cant handle the emotional side of things during or after. Insecurities tend to sour these things fast. You dont want her to lose her childhood friend of 20+ years. Maybe using a sp as a third would help curb these issues dont know have never tried. This is only my history and advice take it or leave it. If you do go thru with it have a blast.
