#1 post lunch 2hrs

[elaine]

Okay, I post on punternet.com and this gent was asking what to do in his first transitition from incall to outcall. Booked 2hours, and was thinking lunch might be demanded and asked if it would be okay to skip lunch and just have two hours of fun, and maybe a drink. he got loads of crap responses, but I said some things and ....

"Lunch is never thought of for a two hour date Unless specified! Some woman, eat prior for an overnight and go home before breakfast!!!"

So then I get torn into with...

"You say

"Lunch is never thought of for a two hour date Unless specified! Some woman, eat prior for an overnight and go home before breakfast!!!"

These generalisations may well be true for you but you just cannot give this under the guise of advice. Neither you nor I know what the lady in question considers acceptable. At least I know who he's seeing, which is probably more than you do. Not that it helps me much as I've never met her, which is why my advice is ASK HER.

The only advice any of us can give him is ASK HER. He has to ask her, not us. Otherwise he may follow advice like yours and Saffrons and end up looking like a right prat."


So my question is, are there really ladies out there in the masses, demanding a meal with a two hour appointment? To me that seems ridiculous. Myself, its breakfast with an overnight, but if we had dinner, there's hardly a chance of me fitting breaky in.

And gents would you be comfortable having her arrive and she's says, okay lets go to the Keg, without this being booked as a dinner date?

http://www.punternet.com/maxiboard/readmsg.php?fname=General&msg=41750

 

[Goober Mcfly]

While I agree with him that the best way to find out what a lady provides/expects is to ask her, if the gentleman is booking a two hour appointment, the time is really his to determine *what* goes on. If he would like to spend an hour in a meal, fine. If he'd rather get right to the "festivities", fine.

I really don't think the SP has a right to demand that there be a meal involved in a multi-hour booking. That's just nutty, IMO.

Now, an overnight would probably be a little different. If the appointment goes from, say 8 pm to 8 am, that's 12 hours without any sustenance. Then, I'd say, the gentlemanly thing to do would be to provide some sort of meal in the morning before the SP leaves. But, that's also really a matter of choice.

And gents would you be comfortable having her arrive and she's says, okay lets go to the Keg, without this being booked as a dinner date?

Personally, I'd say sure, but my time doesn't start until we get back to the hotel.

</cheap bastard>

 

[midLifeCrisis]

Your response was entirely justified and your attacker's criticism was rather intemperate.

Sure, asking the girl is always a good thing to do when you're not sure. But the guy has all the right in the world to know the norms before he asks the question and makes the booking. When I think of all the times I got scammed by escorts in the past because I didn't know the rules and obediently followed the instructions of the girl I was with ... well, it just makes me appreciate TERB and its counterparts a little bit more and makes me wish there had been boards like this and respondents like you twenty years ago, when my version of MSOG was more interesting than Me Sleeping On Ground!

Sure, for a two hour date the guy should have a plate of nibblies set out. But he should have that for a one hour affair too! And really, if the stretch from one hour to two involved using most of the second hour for lunch - presumably not at McDonalds - just how many guys would go for the longer period anyway?

 

[xarir]

IMHO ...

For a 2h appointment it would be unreasonable for a lady to "demand" anything except for the other party to behave like a gentleman. But if a meal is to be involved, I'm with Goober - the gent either offers of his own free will, or the lady "donates" some free time if she asks for one. (In either case I'm assuming that the gentleman pays for the meal.)

Which leads us to an interesting situation - at what point is a meal or some other non-sexual social time justified in a multi-hour session? We could use the Air Canada rule - flights less than 2.5h don't get a meal unless the flight time spans "regular" meal hours as defined by 06h00 - 08h30, 11h30 - 13h00 and 16h30 - 19h00. But the reality is that you should play things by ear - if things are going well that's great. But if there's a natural hiatus in the action, change things up a bit and grab a bite or something.

 

[tonydisabled]

I would lay the details out to the lady b4 hand and unless both parties agree to a meal then shes on her own

 

[U2max]

Re: IMHO ...

For a 2h appointment it would be unreasonable for a lady to "demand" anything except for the other party to behave like a gentleman.

Absolutely! Always a gentleman...it works well.