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Wanting is not the same thing as having. Fantasy is not the same thing as reality.. When you’re in a relationship, you see the person at their best AND their worst. Until you know how bad their “worst” actually is, you don’t really know what you’re getting into. You have put these women on way...

These Generation Z girls are a little different. As others have mentioned, they'd rather be sugarbabies or content creators , but many of them want to get into some kind of DD/LG dynamic with older guys even if it's not transactional. Whether that's a trend or long-term, time will tell. In many...

Anyone who professes to love their job will have stretches when they actually hate it. Welcome to being an adult. It reminds of an interview I read by a famous musician who said that the first two or three years of being famous are great for your Ego, your libido and your bank account. It’s...

People ask because it’s available. Simple as that. It’s been offered in the past as an option to me, never on the first date though.Those girls are out of the business now, for the record. I’ve also had condoms break, accidental bbfs, and girls were surprisingly casual about it. The industry...

Guess what…a lot of Sexworkers don’t actually like this job or their clients that much and they just do it for the money and to be their own boss. When you consider this fact, most of their behaviour makes perfect sense.

How much do you have to lose? How many sp’s flake and cancel at the last minute? How many go on angry Twitter rants about their clients? How many are pimped? These are not universal practises, but they do happen. Do you want someone like that having your ID? I realize that not ALL sp’s are...

This kink has become surprisingly common the last few years. I did it with two couples several years ago, it’s fun, but always a little awkward. In one case, the cuck was doing a running commentary the whole time I was fucking his girl...very annoying. A lot of these Cucks are gay guys trying...

We don’t know the whole story. Maybe she was hard to work with or maybe she was being tough on contract renegotiations. She’s great on the show, but she’s acting alongside a guy in a helmet and a latex puppet, and they both outshine her. She’s eminently replaceable. Her mistake was not...

Only on Terb is a man having non-transactional sex a subject of controversy and debate. This too, is as old as time itself. And if wonen are simple creatures, I think one can safely assume men are too.

This seems to be hitting close to home for some ladies, but I don’t understand why this is so controversial. How many women won’t date a man whose shorter than her, or even just under a certain height. How many won’t date an unemployed guy, or one who makes a modest income. Depending on your...

Based on my own anecdotal evidence, a disproportionate number of sp's are Snowbunnies and date many black guys, or at-least they go through a phase where they do. This doesn't prevent them from refusing service to black clients, due to bad experiences or the fact that they have black pimps or...

I don't know if you will be panicked or relieved to hear this, but most so's are pretty laid-back about brief accidental bare-back because it does happen. I've noted a common reaction from multiple escorts : when we both notice what's occurred the sp would raise an eyebrow and ask "are you...

Man, these SP's seem to have a lot of hobbyists balls in a vice. I agree, why vent if you don't want to name her. So what if a few indy's blacklist you for a bad review? The escort well is never gonna run dry. If I had a civilian date with a hot girl I liked, and she stood me up, I'm sure I'd be...

Like any job, one's feelings about it will change over time. I read a piece written by a former escort who said that when she first started out, her favourite clients were the ones who she felt connected to in some way. After a while in the business, her favourite clients became the big tippers...

They charge whatever they want to charge! It's a relatively short career these girls have and they need to make as much as they can before they bail out, and unless they invest wisely and get lucky, or graduate to another high-paying career (with a lot of educational barriers in front of it)...

Some escorts are better actors than others. Actions always speak louder than words though: When she seems nervous and asks you to take it slow or she insists on really lubing up right before you insert or doesn't want to try certain positions, that's how they actually tell you it's "So big".

It will probably only get worse, demographically. Most younger Gay people I know don't even acknowledge the label, and don't feel any real struggle for social acceptance. This is especially true of Gay and Bi women who seemed to almost outnumber the men when I walked through the Village party...

It's a highly selective sample, almost to the point of being irresponsible. No ebony sp's, no Asian sp's, no current agency girls that I can recognize anyway. If you're going for equal representation, why not show some gay men, and discuss how sexwork is viewed differently in that community. I...

Believe it or not, some escorts really don't enjoy their job and don't particularly like most of their clients. They like, (even need), the money. If this basic truth were embraced more on this board, so much seemingly mysterious behaviour on the part of Sexworkers would require no explanation.