I was uncomfortable with the Arya sex scene mainly because in my head she's still like 10 even if I knoooow the actress is in her 20s and it's all legit! But still! My babygirl is now a grow up :P
As a sp point of view, I prefer incalls because I have all my toys and I feel safer but outcalls at hotels are nice too. Outcalls in home can be awkward sometimes if the place is messy/smell bad :/ not sexy y'know!