I was a long time lurker on these boards, but I will agree with Madonna on a few things. the majority of ladies you promote do BBFS or have a substance addiction. Me ,myself am a married man. I won't risk seeing an unclean provider who is also an addict for two reasons.1}I don't wish to spread STDS to my wife.2}I don't like having encounters with woman who are under any substance that clouds there judgement with consent. It becomes a grey area for raping someone if they are not aware of there surroundings and better judgement.
The second reason I joined is I always wanted to see Madonna but our times never meshed. I saw her today no complaints at all. I had a really good time with her.She tells me that shes moving to Kitchener in a couple weeks. Her biggest concern about Barrie was clients offering more money to do BBFS or BDSM. I can tell you confidently that she is not comfortable doing either. She also told me the amount of local men in Barrie is so negative for her because of alcoholism and substance abuse.She tells you right off the hop that she is drug free std free and alcohol free. Manyf people are bringing there own paraphelnia into her place and sneeking it in to the bathroom she stated.The part that bothered me most was when she said alcoholics are driving drunk to see her and they purposely bring more booze with them to her place and then she is liable if they drive home after and kill someone while drunk driving.
Anyone ,who has lived in Barrie the past 6 years would tell you we have an epadimic of substance crisises and other addictions. Not sure if Covid brought this on, it wasn't in our faces like it is now .I know since I don't use substances and maybe have 6 drinks a yearfor social events.It's not comfortable for any provider to be faced with someone asking for BBFS while high or drunk. They don't seem to grasp the word NO in there altered state of mind.
This isn't just about Madonna, ,but this message goes out to anyone in this industry. HIV and Hep-c are on the rise in Barrie and also all over Ontario not just Barrie .By Not practicing safe sex with strangers opens to flood gates to spread STDS in your industry cliques. If you catch Hep-c the treatment to cure it is as bad as getting chemo. Lots don't make it or are skin and bones on there last leg if cured.
I hope some of you reading this will do your good diligence and keep our wonderful sps safe and keep yourselves safe from causing any unecessary issues.We all have choices and my choice is to keep myself clean as I possibly can within limits so then I do not get caught up in the visious STD circle . The clinic at 80 bradford where they are non judgemental and discreet will tell you its a jungle out there right now of picking up diseases and viruses and so forth.
When I see grown men belittle sps it makes me aware that some men are not able to treat any woman good. The only way these men get woman putting out for them is sps Do you really think sps sign up for this service to be abused? Of course not but you people come here and are insecure about yourselves by putting down a provider. They are not objects they are real human beings with real feelings and emotions and I kid you not some of you need to take a break from the industry due to your long time jadedness of putting sps into one basket that they are your door mat to judge.
Thank you that is all
Dan2