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What magic do those absolutely broke guys, who women love, have?

xix said:
Do you believe that women who make money like those guys with money are also emotionally bankrupt? as the rich men.
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In my small personal experience, no. I think in general, women will always have naturally innate better emotional iq than us men. I think successful women just learn to hide it more if it's beneficial, in traditional male dominated industries(aka the tough girl persona).

I'm no psychologist but I'd guess it'd be associated maybe with our difference in hormones or just how we men have been conditioned/raised to do 'hard' things(war, sacrifice, physical jobs, breadwinners) and trade emotional iq with testosterone associated qualities? I'd guess itd be similar with women and how they've been historically conditioned/raised-motherly, peace makers, family focused.
 
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blackozone said:
In my small personal experience, no. I think in general, women will always have naturally innate better emotional iq than us men. I think successful women just learn to hide it more if it's beneficial, in traditional male dominated industries(aka the tough girl persona).

I'm no psychologist but I'd guess it'd be associated maybe with our difference in hormones or just how we men have been conditioned/raised to do 'hard' things(war, sacrifice, physical jobs, breadwinners) and trade emotional iq with testosterone associated qualities? I'd guess itd be similar with women and how they've been historically conditioned/raised-motherly, peace makers, family focused.
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I agree with you answer, it is part of the big picture.

Other women hide it well, but they go home and cry it out in the bed alone. But if they meet the richer guy than them, THEY do scream at him once she is dumped by him, seen it a few times.
 
xix said:
Do you believe that women who make money like those guys with money are also emotionally bankrupt? as the rich men.
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No, I think that’s a generalization about both genders. A lot depends on how you made your money, the environment you work in, and who you are as a person.

I wouldn’t call myself rich, but I probably have more than most. And, as I’ve been called many times on here, apparently I’m a “simp.” and a starch liberal based on my view of women and diversity

I know plenty of successful doctors, dentists, and professors who are some of the kindest and most generous people I know, significantly more so than some of the executives I’ve worked with.

I’ve also worked with female executives and C-suite leaders who can be extremely cutthroat, while others have exceptionally high emotional intelligence, which gives them a real edge in leadership.

My point is that wealth, gender, or title alone doesn’t tell you much about someone’s character. How they got there and how they treat people once they arrive tells you a lot more.
 
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StarryeyedA said:
Finances is always an important conversation and yes, both men and women can have clear boundaries when it comes to this in partnership or vetting a partner.
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Men don’t care about your money or status-we have very different requirements.
A rich man will commit to a woman who works at McDonald’s if he’s attracted to her but a rich woman would never do the same.
 
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Ginomore said:
Men don’t care about your money or status-we have very different requirements.
A rich man will commit to a woman who works at McDonald’s if he’s attracted to her but a rich woman would never do the same.
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Oh goodness, I have seen quite the opposite.
 
greensquare said:
Not all women are the same. Some if you date them after the 3rd or 4th date might think because you haven't fucked them you don't want them. Other women would be fine with waiting a month or longer before wanting to fuck.

Besides doing some interaction with the human race the role of "communication" plays a big part. Ask questions and make mistakes.
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Exactly. No two women are alike. After spending pretty much the last 6-7 year approaching women in Toronto and dating around I realized women have more opinions than there are planets in the galaxy. It’s pointless to try and “figure out” anything. All you can do is work to be the best version of yourself and go for what you want
 
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Eli_H2da said:
I *dated" 20-25 Year older women in my late teens and early 20's and I was for sure not the bread winner.
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You just proved my point that women with money won’t take a broke man seriously.
There’s a difference between dating and committing to a broke man.
That’s the distinction you are not understanding.
 
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Afterhours Agent said:
Exactly. No two women are alike. After spending pretty much the last 6-7 year approaching women in Toronto and dating around I realized women have more opinions than there are planets in the galaxy. It’s pointless to try and “figure out” anything. All you can do is work to be the best version of yourself and go for what you want
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When It comes to mate selection women are mostly looking for the same qualities.
Their opinions have nothing to do with it.
 
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reviewer_person said:
People on this forum may know the psychology behind it. Maybe even working ladies can pitch in some ideas

It's no secret that some guys are literally broke, and yet, women love them

At the same time, it's not like they are Greek Gods or have fame or anything. They're normal guys, and broke

One thing for sure is, they do have some sort of "magic". It's a type of charisma or even a silent confidence. They don't necessarily have flamboyant personalities either

The reason I mention working ladies is because sometimes you hear stories about working ladies with broke boyfriends, where they pay for all of his things

Now I don't advocate using anyone for money, and I would never take money from a gf (or mostly anyone), but the fact that this dynamic exists, points to something. That "magic" I'm talking about

Whoever you may be on this forum, an experienced dater, someone with good observation skills, a working lady etc, do you know what magic those broke guys have?

What are some real like examples of that magic in action?
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It's the Cosmo Kramer conundrum.
 
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Eli_H2da said:
I *dated" 20-25 Year older women in my late teens and early 20's and I was for sure not the bread winner.
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That's because men who make good money do not want those women. They go for younger women.
Hence those women take on the younger men because those younger men cannot get women their age unless they have money.
You have a lot to learn. Hence why young men and sugar mamas are a match.
 
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reviewer_person said:
People on this forum may know the psychology behind it. Maybe even working ladies can pitch in some ideas

It's no secret that some guys are literally broke, and yet, women love them

At the same time, it's not like they are Greek Gods or have fame or anything. They're normal guys, and broke

One thing for sure is, they do have some sort of "magic". It's a type of charisma or even a silent confidence. They don't necessarily have flamboyant personalities either

The reason I mention working ladies is because sometimes you hear stories about working ladies with broke boyfriends, where they pay for all of his things

Now I don't advocate using anyone for money, and I would never take money from a gf (or mostly anyone), but the fact that this dynamic exists, points to something. That "magic" I'm talking about

Whoever you may be on this forum, an experienced dater, someone with good observation skills, a working lady etc, do you know what magic those broke guys have?

What are some real like examples of that magic in action?
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The biggest problem here is you're trying to figure out why women do shit.
Nobody knows. Nobody has ever known. Nobody will ever fucking know!
 
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