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People on this forum may know the psychology behind it. Maybe even working ladies can pitch in some ideas

It's no secret that some guys are literally broke, and yet, women love them

At the same time, it's not like they are Greek Gods or have fame or anything. They're normal guys, and broke

One thing for sure is, they do have some sort of "magic". It's a type of charisma or even a silent confidence. They don't necessarily have flamboyant personalities either

The reason I mention working ladies is because sometimes you hear stories about working ladies with broke boyfriends, where they pay for all of his things

Now I don't advocate using anyone for money, and I would never take money from a gf (or mostly anyone), but the fact that this dynamic exists, points to something. That "magic" I'm talking about

Whoever you may be on this forum, an experienced dater, someone with good observation skills, a working lady etc, do you know what magic those broke guys have?

What are some real like examples of that magic in action?
 
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Time, mostly, and shared experiences.

Starts in high school where a lot of pretty girls are well taken care of by Daddy and Mommy.

They go for the guys who aren’t studying all the time and/or hustling to work part time jobs.

Those girls love it when the guy spends a lot of time with her.

If he has some natural athletic ability, especially in a sport such as soccer or lacrosse where it doesn’t require too much time or dedication, that is a big bonus since she can cheer him on at games with large groups of girls.

Texting/emailing is a carryover of this. A lot of these ladies are the types to want that same guy, or the new guy, to spend hours emailing/texting her about God Know What.

Eventually many of these relationships end and she eventually trades up for some of these very guys she had no use for back then. Of course she will then proceed to complain nonstop about how he Doesn’t Communicate, and Doesn’t Think About Her, like those guys did who she left in the scrap pile who had more time to allocate to her.

Pretty girls always finish first. The same guy isn’t always running beside her the entire time, though.
 
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Time, mostly, and shared experiences.

Starts in high school where a lot of pretty girls are well taken care of by Daddy and Mommy.

They go for the guys who aren’t studying all the time and/or hustling to work part time jobs.

Those girls love it when the guy spends a lot of time with her.

If he has some natural athletic ability, especially in a sport such as soccer or lacrosse where it doesn’t require too much time or dedication, that is a big bonus since she can cheer him on at games with large groups of girls.

Texting/emailing is a carryover of this. A lot of these ladies are the types to want that same guy, or the new guy, to spend hours emailing/texting her about God Know What.

Eventually many of these relationships end and she eventually trades up for some of these very guys she had no use for back then. Of course she will then proceed to complain nonstop about how he Doesn’t Communicate, and Doesn’t Think About Her, like those guys did who she left in the scrap pile who had more time to allocate to her.

Pretty girls always finish first. The same guy isn’t always running beside her the entire time, though.
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Online I've read things that say, women don't like it when a guy spends too much time with her. That they only like aloof guys. And that they would think the guy is a simp if he spends too much time, and hence loose attraction towards him

So is giving them alot of time one of the parts of this magic formula?
 
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Some of these broke guys are emasculated and take the role of the "house husband"... they cook for them do household duties clean the home...watch the kids etc etc...yes in these type if environment (sex work) most ladies want good $$$ to suck your cock and get pounded...some do go home to nice apartments alone and buy frivolous things to justify it...some do have to go home to their family and have mortgages to pay. Just a question, do you feel jealous towards those broke guys? I don't.
 
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richaceg said:
Some of these broke guys are emasculated and take the role of the "house husband"... they cook for them do household duties clean the home...watch the kids etc etc...yes in these type if environment (sex work) most ladies want good $$$ to suck your cock and get pounded...some do go home to nice apartments alone and buy frivolous things to justify it...some do have to go home to their family and have mortgages to pay. Just a question, do you feel jealous towards those broke guys? I don't.
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I don't mean house husbands. I mean broke guys who are boyfriends, and don't live with their gfs. How do they get gfs?

I don't feel jealous towards anyone. I am impressed by them, and want to learn from them. If they can get women while being broke, then that tells me, there is another avenue to getting women, without having to be rich
 
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I don't mean house husbands. I mean broke guys who are boyfriends, and don't live with their gfs. How do they get gfs?

I don't feel jealous towards anyone. I am impressed by them, and want to learn from them. If they can get women while being broke, then that tells me, there is another avenue to getting women, without having to be rich
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A lot of factors to that too...they could be muscle or protection...work with the ladies. They could be eye candy...they put up with the gf being a sex worker....not a lot of guys are willing to start a relationship knowing what she does for a living. And guys who take care of her physical and emotional needs.... she already covered her financial needs..
 
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No different than why celebs date folks who are lower in class than them.

As to where to find them try approaching random women when you're outside and chatting them up. Or use the online world. Interactions with humans of different levels would make you realize it's not that hard to land a gf who's low maintenance if you interacted more with the human race. To make things very simple: try a trailer park area (can't get any more simpler than that)

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No different than why celebs date folks who are lower in class than them.

As to where to find them try approaching random women when you're outside and chatting them up. Or use the online world. Interactions with humans of different levels would make you realize it's not that hard to land a gf who's low maintenance if you interacted more with the human race. To make things very simple: try a trailer park area (can't get any more simpler than that)

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One can get a woman who is "poorer" than himself, however, the next issue is, what happens when she finds someone with more money. Is it possible to keep a woman if she is surrounded by people with more money than her current bf
 
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you probably see people like this and don't know whats actually going on in their lives. They could have great personalities, that came out through working together or just spending time together before becoming a couple. They might seem broke but have a lot of potential, example, Med student, pre law, etc. There's a million reasons but nothing you could tell just by looking at them. Some people share something in common that defines them, as well and would be a major breaking point in any other relationship.
 
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I have noticed that as well

My thoughts are women are attracted to guys who are super nice to everyone by nature, just not nice to win her over, while showing self respect by standing up for themselves

I suspect observational bias as you only notice the broke guys who attract women and they are in the minority
 
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One can get a woman who is "poorer" than himself, however, the next issue is, what happens when she finds someone with more money. Is it possible to keep a woman if she is surrounded by people with more money than her current bf
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Once again, if you interact with the human race more and gain experience you'll notice not all women from the lower class or making less than you think like this. Some do yes. Some don't.
 
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@reviewer_person are you a troll? I was going to call you out, but since you been here since July I guess you almost pass probation period here.

Anyways to answer your question and you pretty much said it - Magic.

Every poster here is a percent % correct.

Try watching this video on ...


If I told you my theory I would be turn to dust by these guys here.
You start with "Hello"
Magic? past life setup. Maybe the beauty and the beast were together in the past life. It is also a syndrome.

I know a few of the women that have chased me now in this life were from previous life. Not fun at all. The EMOTIONAL baggage people bring from past life. WOW

Also I talked to other people and some believe it could be a little bit of SA.
 
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