I'm an older guy (67), and a condom makes my cock go soft. That's why I barely do FS. There are other reasons why a BBBJ is necessary. You can't Jam Jelly.
Victoria or lara croft
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I'm an older guy (67), and a condom makes my cock go soft. That's why I barely do FS. There are other reasons why a BBBJ is necessary. You can't Jam Jelly.
i’m not referring to the clientele with ED issues,
i’m aware you can’t jam jelly
sometimes the issue with condoms are more mental than physical
i’m aware you can’t jam jelly
sometimes the issue with condoms are more mental than physical
No one in this thread is pressuring you to do shit. It's all in your head. If you don't want to offer BBBJ then don't. But don't expect guys who want BBBJ to book you. And it's perfectly valid for someone to wait and see if your offerings change over time. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. As for the quip about BBBJ having a good time: yes It does immensely. The fact you don't understand that is mind boggling. There's a reason why guys ask for it repeatedly. Maybe pay attention.
Most have us have done that early on in our hobby sessions and have come to the conclusion CBJ sucks hands down hence why for some of us it's a deal breaker.
im not the only one who strictly offers safe services but when its brought up in any thread this is the type of comment that comes up
“if Lara offered bbbj i’d be there in a heartbeat” even though she has top notch reviews online
it is not valid to hope that the industry has taken its toll on someone enough to change their restrictions.
i never said bbbj wasn’t better lmao i understand as a man how it is better but the risk of an STI isn’t worth it to me.
“if Lara offered bbbj i’d be there in a heartbeat” even though she has top notch reviews online
it is not valid to hope that the industry has taken its toll on someone enough to change their restrictions.
i never said bbbj wasn’t better lmao i understand as a man how it is better but the risk of an STI isn’t worth it to me.
You know what? Guys are allowed to have a preference. And, if someone stated they would book you if you offered BBBJ that is a perfectly valid response and preference. This is a review board after all. Guys are going to have an opinion and they're going to state their opinion. If you can't deal with that than maybe you need to stay off the review boards because guys aren't to change to suit you. That or get thicker skin.
the fact you think i’m offended or something is hilarious
i’m just defending a providers right to have her own rules for her body, if it’s not public knowledge that bbbj is offered then don’t message them?
i’m just defending a providers right to have her own rules for her body, if it’s not public knowledge that bbbj is offered then don’t message them?
Why do you feel the need to even come and post something like that and to "..defend a provider's right..." in the first place, when it's nothing to do with you at all?the fact you think i’m offended or something is hilarious
i’m just defending a providers right to have her own rules for her body, if it’s not public knowledge that bbbj is offered then don’t message them?
Show us where anyone here in this thread is putting pressure on a provider to give BBBJ as a service?
No one is. We are discussing as per the premise of this site, amongst ourselves as clients.
If you'd like to add comments or suggestions, great.
Otherwise, we can do without the attempts to shame or demean us for speaking out wishes, desires, thoughts and experiences.
As in general Life, some guys will be respectful, some will not, some will be pushy and demanding, some will not.
Providers need to deal with the constant questions and inquiries about these sorts of things, because as in BBBJ, some things ARE better and DO make the experience far more enjoyable, fulfilling and complete.
You seem to be quite well-spoken, witty and bright from your exchanges in this site that I've read through.
That being said, you're being disingenuous about what you wrote on the BBBJ.
You in fact did say that bbbj isn't better, in a roundabout way by sarcastically saying as if the experience is made better with a bbbj.
When in fact yes, it is a far better experience with bbbj vs cbj.
We are men, often dumb and foolishly headstrong among many other failings.
We discuss between ourselves in our own way (locker room talk, etc).
While we all appreciate clarity and your views and experiences and such, we can make our own choices as to whom we'd like to see and what services they hopefully offer.
Your safety is paramount, act accordingly. You as in all providers.
If we choose not to partake, that's our choice. The provider doesn't need to alter her services or restrictions.
If she/they feel the need to do that and doesn't get many clients as a result, then the provider is doing something incorrectly.
There are tonnes of providers who offer cbj and have constant and consistent bookings.
So it's not a client-specific/only cause or reasoning, and it's a lazy argument to say or suggest otherwise.
Lots of other factors are in play such as location, time of year, economic situations, etc.
Nothing against you speaking your mind and being straight with us - we often need that and definitely appreciate the help for sure.
However, in this instance it's a bit incorrect and disingenuous to say what you wrote/opined about us putting pressure on or avoiding a provider for not offering bbbj.
Men prefer bbbj, that is like saying water is wet. Many of us are very respectful and won't push after asking/discussions, but almost all of us prefer bbbj and agree that everything is better (way better) with a good bbbj vs cbj.
Maybe focus your comments in threads/on providers who are being pushy or demanding about restrictions.
Slay them with your intelligence and sharp wit, and hopefully they take it to heart.
Happy Friday, have a great weekend, make lots of cake and be safe as you always are.
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thank you for your thesis on this matter lmao
apologies for the vultures jumping on this
I’ve changed my mind and realized it’s mostly mental. You know what? I’m just going to have to book a time with you because I trust you when you say CBJ is great!
I just need to confirm my hypothesis for… research purposes, obviously.I don't care if you're offended or not. But let's be honest here, you're the one getting all pissy about guys wanting a BBBJ. So, yeah, you are offended ithat some guys want that and we should all just accept your CBJ is way better. And if you don't want guys messaging about services you don't provide maybe put that in your ad. Be proactive.the fact you think i’m offended or something is hilarious
i’m just defending a providers right to have her own rules for her body, if it’s not public knowledge that bbbj is offered then don’t message them?
As for not enquiring if BBBj is available from providers, I don't think I will. I prefer to confirm what's available vs. whats not. Thanks.
Good lord men get pissy whenever a woman says something that offends their fragile little egos.
"Oh no! Something I like isn't liked by a woman! I'm feeling feelings that I can't put to words so that makes me angry because Anger is my default response to things! I'm gonna write a ton of stuff online about it!"
Y'all just grow up you look foolish.
"Oh no! Something I like isn't liked by a woman! I'm feeling feelings that I can't put to words so that makes me angry because Anger is my default response to things! I'm gonna write a ton of stuff online about it!"
Y'all just grow up you look foolish.
So I'll say this...I prefer bbbj. I saw lara today. Pretty much went how the other reviews said..
I've seen u twice and had a better time and the cbj was great.
I'm very upset that you stole my spot with Victoria and bailed.
Leave some for the rest of us won't you lol
Lol Thank you for your attention to this matter. Ledger remembers who.
It was long, forgive my novel. I type fast.
I don't have great efficiency skills when writing, unlike yourself.
Fair enough, I get that. I know you were just putting info out there for us to absorb and hopefully learn.lmao a woman voicing her opinion is automatically “pissy and offended”
in my experience the bbbj seekers do try and pressure providers to do it in person, thinking that because they brought extra cash there might be a chance
No reason to get upset at a woman speaking her mind. Quite the opposite.
Take MadGeek in stride though - it's in his name after all. Mad.
Who is mad? Pointing out a provider shouldn't lecture guys on services they want or demand they alter their communication style doesn't mean the person pointing that out is upset. Get a clue. The only one on here who got their back up is Lara because someone expressed an opinion of wanting to wait and see if she will change her offerings.
No guy on here is getting pissy with Lara. If that's your takeaway then maybe work on your reading comprehension.
lmao a woman voicing her opinion is automatically “pissy and offended”
in my experience the bbbj seekers do try and pressure providers to do it in person, thinking that because they brought extra cash there might be a chance
Okay. And, whining on a review board is going to accomplish what exactly? Do you think guys are suddenly going to stop? This is akin to someone yelling at clouds.
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