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greensquare

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"Ohh, yeah, I forgot that guys think that all sex is good sex...

I don't even consider transactional sex sex or in any way satisfying.

in fact, pleasing another person and being left to handle things myself feels more like transactional work sex than anything."

Why don't you dump him and move on? Many men out there who'll last longer after cumming fast the first time. Sounds like you're with someone selfish for other reasons besides sex I guess.

Why are you still with that kinda partner? What are you getting out of it?
 
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massman said:
For (many of) us guys, good sex with someone who you are in a relationship with trumps transactional sex. I’m sure this is more true for the providers of the transactional sex.
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I have had both and I kinda enjoy good transactional sex more TBH. esp with a multiple repeat.
 
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massman said:
Sex / physical intimacy is a basic human need. Therefore if one partner in a marriage no longer wants sex, they have that right, it’s their body. However if the expectation is ongoing monogamy from the other partner, that is not right. They then have unilaterally decided that their partner’s sex life is over, and that isn’t ok. If one person no longer wants sex in the relationship, they should give the other partner the freedom of seeking options elsewhere, or offer them a clean and painless exit from the relationship.

While most people are aware that most traditional wedding vows include a promise of fidelity, (forsaking all others), it is less well appreciated that this is accompanied by a promise of “keeping unto them” and “to have and to hold” as well. Unilaterally denying that is a violation of the marriage contract as much as cheating.
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For a couple of years I didn't want to be touched or be intimate with anyone, until I decided to see a high end MP in Oakville, and when I arrived she hugged me, like I properly never been hugged before, obviously she knew nothing about my past or that I didn't felt like being hugged.

But something happened it relieved me for some grief but also all my stresses.

Intimacy might not being a human right but it does make you feel more human
 
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onomatopoeia said:
Since your profession is Escort, you can't necessarily expect to receive much sympathy from guys on an Escort Review Board when you lament about the lack of sex you're receiving within marriage.
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I have to disagree!
One reason is that if someone who engages in this « hobby » and all the while is oblivious to the difference between sex in a relationship Vs sex in the hobby , should take a pause as blurring this line has never led to good things

The second reason is the lack of empathy in a highly emotional environment, and yes sympathy is there , ones views should be taken as universally applicable to everyone
 
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MigzBigz said:
I have to disagree!
One reason is that if someone who engages in this « hobby » and all the while is oblivious to the difference between sex in a relationship Vs sex in the hobby , should take a pause as blurring this line has never led to good things

The second reason is the lack of empathy in a highly emotional environment, and yes sympathy is there , ones views should be taken as universally applicable to everyone
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Read on. @SinnamonFairbanks later explained that while she does work as an Escort, she primarily caters to fetish requests which don't include full service. I think she and I 'are good' on this, as she later gave me a couple of 'Ha Ha' reactions.

You'd probably agree that if a difficult- to- book agency gal who routinely had multiple appointments daily was to complain that she was not getting enough sex, this board would not be the best place to expect sympathetic reactions.
 
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She has the desire to want to orgasm with her partner. Not sure if she even has any clients that please to her likings. Or maybe nobody but her partner would get her off. Personally, if it's that big of a deal because he lasts under a min or something then find a new partner. Or do some couples not fuck 2-4 times a day at times?

Some of my civvie partners and I would do it multiple times within 24 hours so I'd say most guys should last a lot longer eventually...
 
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I'm just totally in a sexless marriage who I am hopelessly in love with. I have tried a mpa and an sp.. and I just can't stay up.

My wife is the hottest fucking thing to me and I can't have sex with her because she's never in the mood due to medications she is taking for endometriosis which also plummets her libido. It's very unfortunate.
 
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switchboard said:
I'm just totally in a sexless marriage who I am hopelessly in love with. I have tried a mpa and an sp.. and I just can't stay up.

My wife is the hottest fucking thing to me and I can't have sex with her because she's never in the mood due to medications she is taking for endometriosis which also plummets her libido. It's very unfortunate.
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I don't believe you.
 
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